Height/Frame is Everything at Bars

[Morpheus]

I’ve always been a proponent of the idea that height isn’t as important as people here think it is. If you’re 5’8+ you shouldn’t have major issues on dating apps or with girls you meet in daily life. Of course many will have their preferences, but there are enough options where you won’t have much trouble.

However it’s a different story at bars and clubs. And last night really confirmed that for me. I was at a packed college bar with some friends and there were a ton of sexy girls there, and virtually the only guys dancing/making out with any of them were 5’10-5’11 with huge frames that made them look bigger or 6’0 and above dudes. When girls are in 5 inch heels you have to be able to still envelop them when grinding and kissing. The tall big framed dudes still had to bend down a bit to dance with the girls and the girls like to be able to wrap their arms around their broad torsos and look up at their faces and feel dominated in a way.

As long as you have a passable face and good height/frame you can slay at bars. If you’re at college bars, make sure to dress like a douchebag too to look the part. Backwards hat and flannel with a hoodie under for example. It’s really not worth going out of your way to try with club chicks if you’re sub 5’10 unless you have a great face and a great frame. I’ve had a few bar hookups but I’ve gone out a lot and I don’t ask girls to dance or anything because it’s not worth it. I just enjoy myself and if a girl happens to approach or dance on me I’ll reciprocate.

 

[turkproducer]

i would still rather have top face but i agree

when i go clubs i will run 2 inch lifts lol

 

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[Morpheus]

i would still rather have top face but i agree

when i go clubs i will run 2 inch lifts lol

I’m a big supporter of wearing 1-1.5 inch lifts when you’re out at clubs. But you shouldn’t fraud height in any other situations. It’s optimal when you go out because:

1. You have to compensate for girls wearing high heels.
2. Bars and clubs tend to be a calling for tall guys and the average height there is probably 5’11 vs 5’9.5.
3. Everyone is wasted so you won’t be called out.
4. You most likely won’t see the girls again.

And if you take a girl back at the end of the night she’ll be losing even more height after taking off her shoes so she won’t notice the drop off.

 

[turkproducer]

I’m a big supporter of wearing 1-1.5 inch lifts when you’re out at clubs. But you shouldn’t fraud height in any other situations. It’s optimal when you go out because:

1. You have to compensate for girls wearing high heels.
2. Bars and clubs tend to be a calling for tall guys and the average height there is probably 5’11 vs 5’9.5.
3. Everyone is wasted so you won’t be called out.

And if you take a girl back at the end of the night she’ll be losing even more height after taking off her shoes so she won’t notice the drop off.

i’m 5’9 i’ll prob run 1-1.5 inch lifts daily at a new job or uni tbh