Help ASAP Girl at work showing interest how to escalate?

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I've been focusing so much on looksmaxing that I've been ignoring redpill stuff, help would be really apprecieated. She keeps staring at me, laughing at jokes even if bad, and started talking to me first. we're both zoomers. I'm on lunch rn and some quick help on what to do would be great
 
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Just tell her if she wants to hang out after work, take to a movie or ice cream or anything, if she likes you she’ll want to do anything with you
 
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Mission failed. I didn't end up asking her out because she clearly lost interest for some reason, I have a few ideas why but who cares. If I can learn how to be NT with guys eventually I'll be able to do it with girls too
 
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Mission failed. I didn't end up asking her out because she clearly lost interest for some reason, I have a few ideas why but who cares. If I can learn how to be NT with guys eventually I'll be able to do it with girls too
Don't be NT. Just be confident in everything you do. If you like Dragon Ball Z then just tell her about it.
 
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It is over.
 
Mission failed. I didn't end up asking her out because she clearly lost interest for some reason, I have a few ideas why but who cares. If I can learn how to be NT with guys eventually I'll be able to do it with girls too
You are coping.
If she really was interested in you she wouldn’t loose the interest so fast.
So either she wasn’t interested at all or she still is
 
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See probaly just see you as friendly coworker
 
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Don't be NT. Just be confident in everything you do. If you like Dragon Ball Z then just tell her about it.
I agree if you're very confidant and at least chadlite in looks, otherwise I think it's just better to keep the real nerdy stuff to yourself. And I won't be that confidant until I'm at least chadlite in looks. So that's more motivation to looksmax.
You are coping.
If she really was interested in you she wouldn’t loose the interest so fast.
So either she wasn’t interested at all or she still is
Good chance your right, I don't know which is true yet, we'll see what happens since I'm going to be working with her often. But I think she might have lost interest after she asked me a bunch of questions about my status. What car I drive, who I know, etc. My answers weren't bad, but they might not of met her standards and that made her lose interest.
OP i had similar experiences down to a T except with more significant IOIs (bringing up the idea of us dating) and I still got rejected

Just treat her like one of the bros from now on and dont let it trip u up
Yeah it seems like some of these girls know we're looking for iois and give them to us just to string us along for validation, trying to make us their simps or whatever. I didn't do anything simpy for this girl, but I maybe gave her too much attention which validated her. I won't be doing that in the future
 
UPDATE: friend found out for me she has a boyfriend. so she was probably leading me along for validation or some shit. :feelswhy:
 
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UPDATE: friend found out for me she has a boyfriend. so she was probably leading me along for validation or some shit. :feelswhy:
 

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