Help, girl might be playing with me

[KaisenMaxxer]

LTB ethnic but thin, decent body and kind of my type
6' white MTN somewhat gymmaxed and leanmaxxed
met on a dating app 1 week ago, she engaged and kept the convo alive at first
She was relly flirty, told me she was eager to see me
we planned a date for tomorrow, when she will have finished her exams
red flags are
1rst she plays hard to get now, takes time to read my msg despite knowing that I can see that she is online on instagram
(but again she has her exams so she might just be talking about classes with her friends )
2nd she just told me she feels sick
(we had a heat wave stop brutally and it has been very much colder and lots of rain for the first time in a few month so its possible, with the fatigue from the exams too)
but she didn't ask to cancel,

Usually I'm always saying to never trust what a girl says, but when it happens to me I find her excuses plausible
I'm thinking about what to ask her to do,
original date was eating out and going to a game bar
I could ask her to instead stay at home together (I live with my family so its gotta be her home, idk if she lives alone or not yet) cook something warm (I'm a good cook) and watch a movie (we both had this in our app description), this would be easy to slay after tbh
But I'm kind of afraid she gets afraid cuz we don't rly know eachother yet
so I was wondering if ask to reschedule could work, wouldn't be to bad for me as I have lots of things planned this weekend and wouldn't sleep the night at her home cuz I gotta get up early and go hiking with friends saturday

I'm probably coping anyway she probably just doesn't want to see me and doesn't have the balls to cancel.
what do you guys think ?

Spoiler: tags

@gymcel64, @mentally_ill_chad

 

[gymcel64]

lol je laisserais tomber à ta place, surtout pour une arabe... en plus LTB...
Franchement te fais pas chier.

 

[KaisenMaxxer]

lol je laisserais tomber à ta place, surtout pour une arabe... en plus LTB...
Franchement te fais pas chier.

ltb selon ce site, moi elle me plait bien (et j'ai pas non plus d'autres options)
au pire je me prend pas la tête et j'y vais en bourrin si ça passe c'est good sinon tant pis
et c'est une arabe d'origine mais pas de cité, elle est bien éduquée et a une culture plus blanche

 

[mentally_ill_chad]

LTB ethnic but thin, decent body and kind of my type
6' white MTN somewhat gymmaxed and leanmaxxed
met on a dating app 1 week ago, she engaged and kept the convo alive at first
She was relly flirty, told me she was eager to see me
we planned a date for tomorrow, when she will have finished her exams
red flags are
1rst she plays hard to get now, takes time to read my msg despite knowing that I can see that she is online on instagram
(but again she has her exams so she might just be talking about classes with her friends )
2nd she just told me she feels sick
(we had a heat wave stop brutally and it has been very much colder and lots of rain for the first time in a few month so its possible, with the fatigue from the exams too)
but she didn't ask to cancel,

Usually I'm always saying to never trust what a girl says, but when it happens to me I find her excuses plausible
I'm thinking about what to ask her to do,
original date was eating out and going to a game bar
I could ask her to instead stay at home together (I live with my family so its gotta be her home, idk if she lives alone or not yet) cook something warm (I'm a good cook) and watch a movie (we both had this in our app description), this would be easy to slay after tbh
But I'm kind of afraid she gets afraid cuz we don't rly know eachother yet
so I was wondering if ask to reschedule could work, wouldn't be to bad for me as I have lots of things planned this weekend and wouldn't sleep the night at her home cuz I gotta get up early and go hiking with friends saturday

I'm probably coping anyway she probably just doesn't want to see me and doesn't have the balls to cancel.
what do you guys think ?

Spoiler: tags

@gymcel64, @mentally_ill_chad

Busy rn for complex threads, I'll be back later

 

[gymcel64]

ltb selon ce site, moi elle me plait bien (et j'ai pas non plus d'autres options)
au pire je me prend pas la tête et j'y vais en bourrin si ça passe c'est good sinon tant pis
et c'est une arabe d'origine mais pas de cité, elle est bien éduquée et a une culture plus blanche

Ouais mais bon moi non plus je n'ai pas d'options mais je ne tomberai pas bas, il faut se respecter soi-même un minimum, j'ai aussi eu des moments où une "LTB" me plaisait bien et t'as envie de te faire chier pour elle mais à un moment tu vas juste te réveiller de ta transe étrange de famine de chatte et tu te rendras compte que tu était complètement con (tout comme moi j'ai été).

 

[rapeeat88]

What the fuck is wrong with you, you weak cunt, how is your self esteem so low to a point where you are dating an ethnic, an ltb one at that.

 

[KaisenMaxxer]

Ouais mais bon moi non plus je n'ai pas d'options mais je ne tomberai pas bas, il faut se respecter soi-même un minimum, j'ai aussi eu des moments où une "LTB" me plaisait bien et t'as envie de te faire chier pour elle mais à un moment tu vas juste te réveiller de ta transe étrange de famine de chatte et tu te rendras compte que tu était complètement con (tout comme moi j'ai été).

je te jure qu'elle est jolie je trouve, juste pour les autistes d'ici qui noteront ltb, peut être mtb mais vu qu'elle est pas blanche elle va perde plus de points
elle a un corps sympa, fin et 1m70

What the fuck is wrong with you, you weak cunt, how is your self esteem so low to a point where you are dating an ethnic, an ltb one at that.

You'd rate her ltb or maybe mtb but she's my kind of type, doesn't look too ethnic (she probably is mixed white and arab) and doesn't come from an ethnic social background

before I swiped right on her I literally thought that she's cuter than most girls on the app (Fruitz) and there are only somewhat gl girls there

 

[gymcel64]

je te jure qu'elle est jolie je trouve, juste pour les autistes d'ici qui noteront ltb, peut être mtb mais vu qu'elle est pas blanche elle va perde plus de points
elle a un corps sympa, fin et 1m70

You'd rate her ltb or maybe mtb but she's my kind of type, doesn't look too ethnic (she probably is mixed white and arab) and doesn't come from an ethnic social background

before I swiped right on her I literally thought that she's cuter than most girls on the app (Fruitz) and there are only somewhat gl girls there

PM la

 

[It'snotover]

1rst she plays hard to get now, takes time to read my msg despite knowing that I can see that she is online on instagram
(but again she has her exams so she might just be talking about classes with her friends )
2nd she just told me she feels sick
(we had a heat wave stop brutally and it has been very much colder and lots of rain for the first time in a few month so its possible, with the fatigue from the exams too)
but she didn't ask to cancel,

That's not a good sign. Don't invest too much time into this then, start to look for someone else

 

[KaisenMaxxer]

That's not a good sign. Don't invest too much time into this then, start to look for someone else

always

 

[KaisenMaxxer]

PM la

ouais je lui ai pas encore répondu quand elle à dit qu'elle était malade

 

[gymcel64]

ouais je lui ai pas encore répondu quand elle à dit qu'elle était malade

non je voulais dire PM la moi, sa photo, mon conseil c'est laisse tomber elle viendra vers toi si elle le veut vraiment

 

[KaisenMaxxer]

non je voulais dire PM la moi, sa photo, mon conseil c'est laisse tomber elle viendra vers toi si elle le veut vraiment

pas envie de la doxx alors qu'elle a rien demandé, je vais lui dire que si elle veut je passe chez elle sinon on peut laisser tomber ou me dire quand elle aura des dispos

 

[mentally_ill_chad]

LTB ethnic but thin, decent body and kind of my type
6' white MTN somewhat gymmaxed and leanmaxxed
met on a dating app 1 week ago, she engaged and kept the convo alive at first
She was relly flirty, told me she was eager to see me
we planned a date for tomorrow, when she will have finished her exams
red flags are
1rst she plays hard to get now, takes time to read my msg despite knowing that I can see that she is online on instagram
(but again she has her exams so she might just be talking about classes with her friends )
2nd she just told me she feels sick
(we had a heat wave stop brutally and it has been very much colder and lots of rain for the first time in a few month so its possible, with the fatigue from the exams too)
but she didn't ask to cancel,

Usually I'm always saying to never trust what a girl says, but when it happens to me I find her excuses plausible
I'm thinking about what to ask her to do,
original date was eating out and going to a game bar
I could ask her to instead stay at home together (I live with my family so its gotta be her home, idk if she lives alone or not yet) cook something warm (I'm a good cook) and watch a movie (we both had this in our app description), this would be easy to slay after tbh
But I'm kind of afraid she gets afraid cuz we don't rly know eachother yet
so I was wondering if ask to reschedule could work, wouldn't be to bad for me as I have lots of things planned this weekend and wouldn't sleep the night at her home cuz I gotta get up early and go hiking with friends saturday

I'm probably coping anyway she probably just doesn't want to see me and doesn't have the balls to cancel.
what do you guys think ?

Spoiler: tags

@gymcel64, @mentally_ill_chad

But she didn't cancel m8, why so nervous. Just go out with her as you planned, if she doesn't like you so what lol there are many fish in the french sea. If you could hit it, hit it no reason for this much overthinking

 

[KaisenMaxxer]

But she didn't cancel m8, why so nervous. Just go out with her as you planned, if she doesn't like you so what lol there are many fish in the french sea. If you could hit it, hit it no reason for this much overthinking

you're right, thanks, I needed that outside look into it
its just ragefuel to think that's she's just playing around with me for attention (even tho I don't simp)

 

[mentally_ill_chad]

she's just playing

But you shouldn't care even if she does, just go on a planned date, and if it's alright it's alright and if it's bad, fuck it. I might be a wrong guy for advice if you're planning a longer relationship with her do, I only think of sex I couldn't care less about having a ltr

 

[KaisenMaxxer]

But you shouldn't care even if she does, just go on a planned date, and if it's alright it's alright and if it's bad, fuck it. I might be a wrong guy for advice if you're planning a longer relationship with her do, I only think of sex I couldn't care less about having a ltr

no, your advice really looks good, probably what I would have done anyway, but it's good to have a confirmation, I'm not likely to ltr her, I met her on a dating app

 

[mentally_ill_chad]

no, your advice really looks good, probably what I would have done anyway, but it's good to have a confirmation, I'm not likely to ltr her, I met her on a dating app

Btw I also live with my parents, I could never bring some girl here to fuck while they're in the same apartment as me. But I know people that fucked in one room while their parents were in a room next lol, I could never

 

[KaisenMaxxer]

Btw I also live with my parents, I could never bring some girl here to fuck while they're in the same apartment as me. But I know people that fucked in one room while their parents were in a room next lol, I could never

yeah I don't want to do that, I planned it to end either in the car on at her house

 

[mentally_ill_chad]

in the car

I don't even have a drivers licence

 

[KaisenMaxxer]

I don't even have a drivers licence

time to get one, can't be considered an adult without it in the day and age

 

[KaisenMaxxer]

Update
she says she feels too sick and tired and wants to reschedule to have more energy we finally see each other
Do you think I can trust her ?
Also in her vocal message I think that I hear the wind so she can even be outside telling me she feels sick

 

[try2beme]

Shes ethnic
Shes from a old

 

[KaisenMaxxer]

Shes ethnic

Mixed white and arab, raised in white culture and educated

Shes from a old

She doesn’t have that many instagram followers doesn’t look like much of a whore

 

[Alias!]

LTB ethnic but thin, decent body and kind of my type
6' white MTN somewhat gymmaxed and leanmaxxed
met on a dating app 1 week ago, she engaged and kept the convo alive at first
She was relly flirty, told me she was eager to see me
we planned a date for tomorrow, when she will have finished her exams
red flags are
1rst she plays hard to get now, takes time to read my msg despite knowing that I can see that she is online on instagram
(but again she has her exams so she might just be talking about classes with her friends )
2nd she just told me she feels sick
(we had a heat wave stop brutally and it has been very much colder and lots of rain for the first time in a few month so its possible, with the fatigue from the exams too)
but she didn't ask to cancel,

Usually I'm always saying to never trust what a girl says, but when it happens to me I find her excuses plausible
I'm thinking about what to ask her to do,
original date was eating out and going to a game bar
I could ask her to instead stay at home together (I live with my family so its gotta be her home, idk if she lives alone or not yet) cook something warm (I'm a good cook) and watch a movie (we both had this in our app description), this would be easy to slay after tbh
But I'm kind of afraid she gets afraid cuz we don't rly know eachother yet
so I was wondering if ask to reschedule could work, wouldn't be to bad for me as I have lots of things planned this weekend and wouldn't sleep the night at her home cuz I gotta get up early and go hiking with friends saturday

I'm probably coping anyway she probably just doesn't want to see me and doesn't have the balls to cancel.
what do you guys think ?

Spoiler: tags

@gymcel64, @mentally_ill_chad

No troll she just doesn’t want you . She’s doing too much

 

[Enfril]

Are you fucking joking your that fucking desperate you would give up your body for an ethnic pig. Your ancestors would disown you.

 

[KaisenMaxxer]

Are you fucking joking your that fucking desperate you would give up your body for an ethnic pig. Your ancestors would disown you.

She probably looks 10x higher class than any girl ever was interested in you

 

[KaisenMaxxer]

No troll she just doesn’t want you . She’s doing too much

Ill just keep texting her for validation (she send me almost simping messages)

 

[Alias!]

Ill just keep texting her for validation (she send me almost simping messages)

Yeah do that and just ask to see her then you will know if she likes you or not

 

[Enfril]

She probably looks 10x higher class than any girl ever was interested in you

You can just say you're white trash. It's not my life I don't give 2 fucks. Just I would never give myself to someone ethic especially in disparity.

 

[KaisenMaxxer]

You can just say you're white trash. It's not my life I don't give 2 fucks. Just I would never give myself to someone ethic especially in disparity.

As I said in later posts, she is mixed with white and has been raised in white culture
Also my ancestors colonized north africa and probably raped her ancestors.
Btw there is intelligent racist and stupid racist and you are on the left of bell curve

 

[Enfril]

You asked for help, I told you what I thought and added my opinion as well. But on the other hand, if you’re so intelligent, I’d love for you to explain ‘intelligent racism.’ You probably think my views only go as far as KKK, redneck, Aryan fuckery but I would love to hear what your brain comes up with considering you only see a short sighted stereotype.

 

[Abdullahm06]

1rst she plays hard to get now
2nd she just told me she feels sick

its over bud. youre just in denial

 

[.kaiser]

LTB ethnic but thin, decent body and kind of my type
6' white MTN somewhat gymmaxed and leanmaxxed
met on a dating app 1 week ago, she engaged and kept the convo alive at first
She was relly flirty, told me she was eager to see me
we planned a date for tomorrow, when she will have finished her exams
red flags are
1rst she plays hard to get now, takes time to read my msg despite knowing that I can see that she is online on instagram
(but again she has her exams so she might just be talking about classes with her friends )
2nd she just told me she feels sick
(we had a heat wave stop brutally and it has been very much colder and lots of rain for the first time in a few month so its possible, with the fatigue from the exams too)
but she didn't ask to cancel,

Usually I'm always saying to never trust what a girl says, but when it happens to me I find her excuses plausible
I'm thinking about what to ask her to do,
original date was eating out and going to a game bar
I could ask her to instead stay at home together (I live with my family so its gotta be her home, idk if she lives alone or not yet) cook something warm (I'm a good cook) and watch a movie (we both had this in our app description), this would be easy to slay after tbh
But I'm kind of afraid she gets afraid cuz we don't rly know eachother yet
so I was wondering if ask to reschedule could work, wouldn't be to bad for me as I have lots of things planned this weekend and wouldn't sleep the night at her home cuz I gotta get up early and go hiking with friends saturday

I'm probably coping anyway she probably just doesn't want to see me and doesn't have the balls to cancel.
what do you guys think ?

Spoiler: tags

@gymcel64, @mentally_ill_chad

I dont think she is playing you bc usually they cancel the plans, even if she does it must have a very valid reason but if she keeps playing hard to get and cancels plans without suggesting another day that's when u clock out, bc when they're busy they suggest a day when they're free