Help me figure out what’s failoing me

[Jamal2222]

When i meet new people or am introduced to them. For the first few seconds they love me. Then a few minutes later they seem distant as if Ivdid something wrong.
I don’t know if it’s my voice failoing me this much or something else. Because when they see my face they’re in love then in a few moments it all falls through with them acting distant

 

[Ghost Philosophy]

youre autistic

 

[Deleted member 9003]

Your personality or social skills

 

[Jamal2222]

youre autistic

Should i rope? What are my options. When I was younger I didn’t have autism JFL

 

[Jamal2222]

Your personality or social skills

Fuck bruh how do I fix this, shit is really hurting my self esteem it happens every single time. I can’t take it anymore

 

[Deleted member 9003]

Fuck bruh how do I fix this, shit is really hurting my self esteem it happens every single time. I can’t take it anymore

Just accept it. Practice is what makes you better.

 

[chadison]

The truthful and accurate answer is this: You're overestimating their initial interest. Foids are masters at social manipulation, as they are evolved to communicate fervently. They express interest initially to all men unless you're a truecel because it is a way of alleviating any potential aggression on a primal level coming from your part as a man. The nicer they are, the less they risk being raped or beaten (this is a subconscious, primal choice because of that). You are likely around average, and therefore after being warm initially and disarming you, foids cease to care.

 

[MostGLSlayer]

Youre non NT and they can sense it by what youre saying and how youre saying it most likely

 

[chadison]

Youre non NT and they can sense it by what youre saying and how youre saying it most likely

This could be it too

 

[MostGLSlayer]

The truthful and accurate answer is this: You're overestimating their initial interest. Foids are masters at social manipulation, as they are evolved to communicate fervently. They express interest initially to all men unless you're a truecel because it is a way of alleviating any potential aggression on a primal level coming from your part as a man. The nicer they are, the less they risk being raped or beaten (this is a subconscious, primal choice because of that). You are likely around average, and therefore after being warm initially and disarming you, foids cease to care.

Not only foids, thats everyone though, if youre NT and not an asshole, you know to be nice to everyone upon first meeting them and usually only express further interest if they look good or they are interesting to you, otherwise you just become distant after awhile