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Let’s say you meet a girl on tinder etc and you agree to go on a date I dunno like lunch or something somewhere

And your goal is to fuck

What are you supposed to talk about during the date?

And how would you convince her to go to her or your house to fuck?

I just don’t understand it frustrates me so much why am I so ND in this area
 
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Let’s say you meet a girl on tinder etc and you agree to go on a date I dunno like lunch or something somewhere

And your goal is to fuck

What are you supposed to talk about during the date?

And how would you convince her to go to her or your house to fuck?

I just don’t understand it frustrates me so much why am I so ND in this area
Need slayer help:
@edodalic29
@mulattocel
@Corleone
 
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Let’s say you meet a girl on tinder etc and you agree to go on a date I dunno like lunch or something somewhere

And your goal is to fuck

What are you supposed to talk about during the date?

And how would you convince her to go to her or your house to fuck?

I just don’t understand it frustrates me so much why am I so ND in this area
Nigga js be a tease
and dont fuck on the first date
 
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Chad don’t do dates especially day dates lmao
 
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Let’s say you meet a girl on tinder etc and you agree to go on a date I dunno like lunch or something somewhere

And your goal is to fuck

What are you supposed to talk about during the date?

And how would you convince her to go to her or your house to fuck?

I just don’t understand it frustrates me so much why am I so ND in this area
dont go out to lunch on a first date that's retarded. drinks in the evening are the best for loweing inhib if goal is to fuck.
 
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Your not gonna have sex in your first date especially if your not Htn plus
 
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Nigga js be a tease
and dont fuck on the first date
Wdym tease

Chad don’t do dates especially day dates lmao
Yeah but I’m not Chad

dont go out to lunch on a first date that's retarded. drinks in the evening are the best for loweing inhib if goal is to fuck.
Hmm interesting but what would you talk about tho

Your not gonna have sex in your first date especially if your not Htn plus
Ok but how many dates
 
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Hmm interesting but what would you talk about tho
there is so much to talk about bro if girls over here spoke english i would be swimming in coochie right now
 
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Ok but let’s say after the 3rd we end of fucking

What’s next how can we signal that we don’t want to be in a relationship and only fuck?


How tease
make jokes
Tell her shes cute js for you or sum nigga
Have u never been to a date?
 
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Ok but let’s say after the 3rd we end of fucking

What’s next how can we signal that we don’t want to be in a relationship and only fuck?
Say it directly that you only want to have sex with her
 
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there is so much to talk about bro if girls over here spoke english i would be swimming in coochie right now
Give me topics like let’s say you sit down at a table and start to eat
 
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Let’s say you meet a girl on tinder etc and you agree to go on a date I dunno like lunch or something somewhere

And your goal is to fuck

What are you supposed to talk about during the date?

And how would you convince her to go to her or your house to fuck?

I just don’t understand it frustrates me so much why am I so ND in this area
just dont be indian
you’re not indian right?
 
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Ok but let’s say after the 3rd we end of fucking

What’s next how can we signal that we don’t want to be in a relationship and only fuck?


How tease
Ask her straight up, yo I enjoy hanging out with u wanna like try to do it from time to time?
 
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make jokes
Tell her shes cute js for you or sum nigga
Have u never been to a date?
Never been on a date

It sounds like waste of time effort and money cuz you might not hit
 
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Never been on a date

It sounds like waste of time effort and money cuz you might not hit
If ur going on a date js to hit atp js go to a party and fuck a girl there (with consent ofc)
 
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If your goal is to fuck, you should just invite her for drinks or to your place for netflix or some.

Converting a lunch date seems kinda hard unless you're really NT, which you're not, so pick a better setting^.
 
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Give me topics like let’s say you sit down at a table and start to eat
nigga idk if you go on a date with a girl i expect you to have chatted it up beforehand or at least get to know her a bit

you just bring up something relevant to the date or her and try to overtime steer it into something personal or something teasing her. There needs to be a balance of keeping the convo going, keeping it interesting, making her feel like she wants to be and stay there with you.

personally i do night dates only but im in HS and girls are lame w that so i do as late as possible, then after drinks or wtv we just walk in the city and talk
 
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Your not gonna have sex in your first date especially if your not Htn plus
If you are htn+ you could just casually say "want to fuck" during the date and since she's into you she will accept
 
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If you are htn+ you could just casually say "want to fuck" during the date and since she's into you she will accept
Retard
 
If your goal is to fuck, you should just invite her for drinks or to your place for netflix or some.

Converting a lunch date seems kinda hard unless you're really NT, which you're not, so pick a better setting^.
Smart
 
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Honestly it’s over if you need to ask the autistic third worlders on this site

She either finds you hot enough to the point where she can’t resist you or not. The actual “talking” part just comes naturally too, you can’t learn it. You’re either NT and charasmatic or you’re not.
 
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Your two priorities during the date should be to make her feel comfortable with you and think about sex - so touching and slowly moving the conversation to sexual topics.

Once you're on the date, start by hugging her, and keep a playful atmosphere with some teasing, lots of eye contact, and touching her to make her feel comfortable with you. e.g. if she has tattoos, touch them and ask what's the story behind them, touch her lower arm when she makes you laugh, or my favourite: taking her hand and comparing her hand size to yours and telling her she has tiny hands and soft skin.

Regarding what you should talk about on the date, after you skipped the small talk of how old you are, what you are doing for school/work, etc, as you met on Tinder, you can get into Tinder stories:
- how long she had Tinder for
- why she initially downloaded it
- her craziest tinder story

laughing at your competition is always a good icebreaker, too, as some people are way too overtly sexual for their looks level, every woman has 100s of non-NT sexpests in her DMs.
dont go out to lunch on a first date that's retarded. drinks in the evening are the best for loweing inhib if goal is to fuck.
this. cinema or a late-night walk through the city are also nice. at the end of it make out with her in your car or a secluded spot, put her hand on your hard dick and tell her that you should go back to your/her place. most of the time she'll agree.
 
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