Help please

[lokiiiiiiiiii]

Well I'm 21 and I'm ugly as shit. I've been trying for a while to improve my appearance, but I don't know why I see myself as ugly no matter what I do. Perhaps because of all the bullying I was exposed to throughout my school years and because of friends and family, I really hate myself and my confidence is at the bottom and I don't know what to do .
I hope you guys can give me an accurate assessment of how I look. I know that I am really ugly, but I want an accurate assessment and I want advice on why I should focus on it more if I want to improve my appearance.
I am sorry that I wrote so much , and my English is not good, so don't blame me for spelling mistakes
Thanks

 

[Heatmiser]

get off this forum broski trust me

 

[lokiiiiiiiiii]

get off this forum broski trust me

I know that there are a lot of crazy people here and bullies, but I have been through worse things in my life, so I just want to improve myself and my appearance, because I have been subjected to all kinds of contempt just because of my appearance.

 

[watah]

What’s ur race, height, and face rating

 

[lokiiiiiiiiii]

This is my picture

 

[Heatmiser]

they will giga roast you

 

[lokiiiiiiiiii]

What’s ur race, height, and face rating

My height is 180, I don't know exactly what my ethnicity is, but I'm from the Middle East My rating for myself is 3 out of 10. I have repeated some pictures here below, so you can see and rate me for yourself.

 

[lokiiiiiiiiii]

just waiting for the neanderthal meme

What you mean exactly???

 

[Heatmiser]

What you mean exactly???

patience my boy

 

[Icon]

This is my picture

Side profile is busted but front looks normal. You are not ugly but average like most ppl so no need to panic. Unfortunately this forum is not good for working with inner issues. Read Cyber Psychonetics from Maxwell Maltz or listen to the audio book on YT.

Side profile is not that important thou, so don't worry about it.

 

[lokiiiiiiiiii]

Side profile is busted but front looks normal. You are not ugly but average like most ppl so no need to panic. Unfortunately this forum is not good for working with inner issues. Read Cyber Psychonetics from Maxwell Maltz or listen to the audio book on YT.

Side profile is not that important thou, so don't worry about it.

Thanks for the advice. It seems to me that you have extensive knowledge of these things, can you tell me what to focus on if I want to develop my appearance and what strengths and weaknesses I have in my features

 

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Thanks for the advice. It seems to me that you have extensive knowledge of these things, can you tell me what to focus on if I want to develop my appearance and what strengths and weaknesses I have in my features

Well, I don't have time to go into detail.

I would say your overal harmony in the front is pretty good-- bttr than most people that ask for ratings on here. Your strength are lips and eye area, your weakness is your nose from the side profile in the front it looks fine. If I was you I may consider a rhinoplasty. I think the nose from the side is what makes you look a bit scary and why people have bullied you. While side profile is the least important it is still part of facial aesthetics. There is this saying that you are only as good as your biggest flaw which in this case is your nose from the side profile.

So I would consider doing extensive research on aesthetic noses and see what nose fits you bttr, you may ask on fiverr for people to photoshop a nose to see how it looks like or consult a surgeon. Make sure the new nose fits your overal harmony. I have no experience with surgery so I can't go into depth but there is a sea of information on the internet.

Your appeal is overal rugged and masculine I would say but if you want younger chicks I would consider balancing it out with a more female gaze oriented styling. You can search in this forum about male vs female gaze.

I think maybe letting your hair grow, there are ways to make it look long or eboyish even when you have very curly hair. So research that.

This is example of rugged masculine with female gaze oriented styling (Allesandro).

Another example of masculine but with pretty features (Safir):

So also work on fashion and make it more female gaze, fashionable and stylish.

Your eyebrows seem to turned downwards giving you this angry look I would consider making them more straight or just experiment, eyebrow hair will grow back anyway. You seem to have good eyelashes I would double down on them maybe use a serum, lattise is not necessary though since you already have pretty good eyelashes so a regular eyelash serum would already be sufficient to capitalize on the lashes and make them look more pretty.

Overall I would say you lack a lot of pretty features balancing out your overly masculine face and this may look scary to young women, older women may like it though (but who wants those )

So to summarize:
- Lack of fashionable style
- Lack of pretty features
- Rhino for nose

Before and after a bit of nose editing. Just looks more normal and fits overal with the harmony better. Maybe you can try fillers for nose, I think it should be fixable with fillers. Fillers can do a lot for a nose, and a lot cheaper.

I would also shave underneath the chin. I really don't see the point of having hair there? Or maybe try same facial hair as Safir.

 

[Rea]

This is my picture

ngmi

 

[Rea]

no maxilla for your face

 

[lokiiiiiiiiii]

no maxilla for your face

What, i don't understand what you mean

 

[lokiiiiiiiiii]

Well, I don't have time to go into detail.

I would say your overal harmony in the front is pretty good-- bttr than most people that ask for ratings on here. Your strength are lips and eye area, your weakness is your nose from the side profile in the front it looks fine. If I was you I may consider a rhinoplasty. I think the nose from the side is what makes you look a bit scary and why people have bullied you. While side profile is the least important it is still part of facial aesthetics. There is this saying that you are only as good as your biggest flaw which in this case is your nose from the side profile.

So I would consider doing extensive research on aesthetic noses and see what nose fits you bttr, you may ask on fiverr for people to photoshop a nose to see how it looks like or consult a surgeon. Make sure the new nose fits your overal harmony. I have no experience with surgery so I can't go into depth but there is a sea of information on the internet.

Your appeal is overal rugged and masculine I would say but if you want younger chicks I would consider balancing it out with a more female gaze oriented styling. You can search in this forum about male vs female gaze.

I think maybe letting your hair grow, there are ways to make it look long or eboyish even when you have very curly hair. So research that.

View attachment 3043191

This is example of rugged masculine with female gaze oriented styling (Allesandro).

View attachment 3043197

Another example of masculine but with pretty features (Safir):

View attachment 3043201

So also work on fashion and make it more female gaze, fashionable and stylish.

Your eyebrows seem to turned downwards giving you this angry look I would consider making them more straight or just experiment, eyebrow hair will grow back anyway. You seem to have good eyelashes I would double down on them maybe use a serum, lattise is not necessary though since you already have pretty good eyelashes so a regular eyelash serum would already be sufficient to capitalize on the lashes and make them look more pretty.

Overall I would say you lack a lot of pretty features balancing out your overly masculine face and this may look scary to young women, older women may like it though (but who wants those )

So to summarize:
- Lack of fashionable style
- Lack of pretty features
- Rhino for nose

View attachment 3043205

Before and after a bit of nose editing. Just looks more normal and fits overal with the harmony better. Maybe you can try fillers for nose, I think it should be fixable with fillers. Fillers can do a lot for a nose, and a lot cheaper.

I would also shave underneath the chin. I really don't see the point of having hair there? Or maybe try same facial hair as Saf

Thank you so much, I really appreciate the effort you put into this, this is really cool

 

[ifollowyou]

This is my picture

Slimming ur face with cardio like running or swimming would do great, you have good and visible jaw profile from front. Also as said before rhinoplasty to make your nose more narrow could be a good idea if you can afford it.

 

[Rea]

What, i don't understand what you mean

Kys, now you understand?

 

[lokiiiiiiiiii]

Kys, now you understand?

No hhhhhhhh

 

[try2beme]

I know that there are a lot of crazy people here and bullies, but I have been through worse things in my life, so I just want to improve myself and my appearance, because I have been subjected to all kinds of contempt just because of my appearance.

Pm face if ur respectful and not sassy and ill help

 

[lokiiiiiiiiii]

Slimming ur face with cardio like running or swimming would do great, you have good and visible jaw profile from front. Also as said before rhinoplasty to make your nose more narrow could be a good idea if you can afford it.

I used to look like this, but after I entered the gym and started bulking , my face became full of fat

 

[lokiiiiiiiiii]

Slimming ur face with cardio like running or swimming would do great, you have good and visible jaw profile from front. Also as said before rhinoplasty to make your nose more narrow could be a good idea if you can afford it.

Well, I don't have time to go into detail.

I would say your overal harmony in the front is pretty good-- bttr than most people that ask for ratings on here. Your strength are lips and eye area, your weakness is your nose from the side profile in the front it looks fine. If I was you I may consider a rhinoplasty. I think the nose from the side is what makes you look a bit scary and why people have bullied you. While side profile is the least important it is still part of facial aesthetics. There is this saying that you are only as good as your biggest flaw which in this case is your nose from the side profile.

So I would consider doing extensive research on aesthetic noses and see what nose fits you bttr, you may ask on fiverr for people to photoshop a nose to see how it looks like or consult a surgeon. Make sure the new nose fits your overal harmony. I have no experience with surgery so I can't go into depth but there is a sea of information on the internet.

Your appeal is overal rugged and masculine I would say but if you want younger chicks I would consider balancing it out with a more female gaze oriented styling. You can search in this forum about male vs female gaze.

I think maybe letting your hair grow, there are ways to make it look long or eboyish even when you have very curly hair. So research that.

View attachment 3043191

This is example of rugged masculine with female gaze oriented styling (Allesandro).

View attachment 3043197

Another example of masculine but with pretty features (Safir):

View attachment 3043201

So also work on fashion and make it more female gaze, fashionable and stylish.

Your eyebrows seem to turned downwards giving you this angry look I would consider making them more straight or just experiment, eyebrow hair will grow back anyway. You seem to have good eyelashes I would double down on them maybe use a serum, lattise is not necessary though since you already have pretty good eyelashes so a regular eyelash serum would already be sufficient to capitalize on the lashes and make them look more pretty.

Overall I would say you lack a lot of pretty features balancing out your overly masculine face and this may look scary to young women, older women may like it though (but who wants those )

So to summarize:
- Lack of fashionable style
- Lack of pretty features
- Rhino for nose

View attachment 3043205

Before and after a bit of nose editing. Just looks more normal and fits overal with the harmony better. Maybe you can try fillers for nose, I think it should be fixable with fillers. Fillers can do a lot for a nose, and a lot cheaper.

I would also shave underneath the chin. I really don't see the point of having hair there? Or maybe try same facial hair as Safir.

Well, your explanation was simplified and detailed even though you did not go into details , but there is a point that I did not understand and I hope you can explain it to me since you are the specialist here. You said that "i lack of pretty features". So how can I work on developing this or is it impossible?

 

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Well, your explanation was simplified and detailed even though you did not go into details , but there is a point that I did not understand and I hope you can explain it to me since you are the specialist here. You said that "i lack of pretty features". So how can I work on developing this or is it impossible?

Just look women faces and dudes and make a list of pretty features and see what you can do yourself.

 

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@lokiiiiiiiiii I think pretty features mainly cluster in the eye area. So things like upper and under eyelashes, eye coloring, you can try some subtle eye liner too. And maybe use a lipbalm with a bit of coloring like labello.

 

[ifollowyou]

I used to look like this, but after I entered the gym and started bulking , my face became full of fat

yeah looks a lot better