HELP, what do i do w this girl

[chadriguez]

Ok so, long story short im at a place I can go on dates and feel confident in myself and have quite good looks, low inhibitions and all that. However inexperience is holding me back. I feel like the only thing im self conscious about is the kissing aspect. I haven't been straight up told im a bad kisser but some of these experiences(there are a few more than the case in hand) have kinda fked me a bit and since Kissing is the thing that leads to fucking I kinda feel self conscious about it.

There is this girl I've been talking to, we've been on 3 dates/hangouts , all dates went pretty fine like I said im good in dates and im chill and have no problem escalating TILL I gotta make out lol. Like I was convinced this girl was full onto me. First date I kiss her and touch her and shit and when it comes to say goodbye we make out for like 5 seconds maybe and I pull out. Second date more of the same. Now third date everything is set up to have a long make out session at least or whatever, we kiss for like 30s then she pulls back and ask me if im tense or some shit(ouch). After this date she asks me what my intentions are and I tell her I dont want anything serious and she says she also is not looking for anything serious. However I feel like I kinda fucked up in that scenario and maybe im looking at the friend zone( again this girl was super into me), since then its been like a week were we've continued chatting in the same manner since before but I've been a little bit less talkative and kinda went my own way in a bit, she has hinted at seeing me again(idk if as a friend or what).

Now im 99% sure I can see her again, so I will probably have another chance at kissing her, I highly doubt im at a point of no return, but HOW do I not fuck this up. I feel I have one more shot where I get to make out w her and drop her panties or else she loses all sexual interest in me.

Fuck this is so cringe to ask but HOW the fuck do I learn to makeout, like I genuinely feel much more confident in fucking her than in making out w her. This thought of being bad at kissing also comes from some other experiences I've had.

 

[Deleted member 20370]

toss her salad!

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Eye contact, wait for her to look at your lips, then look at hers so she sees it, and go in

I have the most god tier advice all the time and in KHHV this is a brutal curse

Coaches don't play I suppose

 

[chadriguez]

Eye contact, wait for her to look at your lips, then look at hers so she sees it, and go in

I have the most god tier advice all the time and in KHHV this is a brutal curse

Coaches don't play I suppose

Fuck man How the fuck do i trust your advice then i think i can still fuck her but I cant fuck it up

 

[bourgeoizyzz]

Ok so, long story short im at a place I can go on dates and feel confident in myself and have quite good looks, low inhibitions and all that. However inexperience is holding me back. I feel like the only thing im self conscious about is the kissing aspect. I haven't been straight up told im a bad kisser but some of these experiences(there are a few more than the case in hand) have kinda fked me a bit and since Kissing is the thing that leads to fucking I kinda feel self conscious about it.

There is this girl I've been talking to, we've been on 3 dates/hangouts , all dates went pretty fine like I said im good in dates and im chill and have no problem escalating TILL I gotta make out lol. Like I was convinced this girl was full onto me. First date I kiss her and touch her and shit and when it comes to say goodbye we make out for like 5 seconds maybe and I pull out. Second date more of the same. Now third date everything is set up to have a long make out session at least or whatever, we kiss for like 30s then she pulls back and ask me if im tense or some shit(ouch). After this date she asks me what my intentions are and I tell her I dont want anything serious and she says she also is not looking for anything serious. However I feel like I kinda fucked up in that scenario and maybe im looking at the friend zone( again this girl was super into me), since then its been like a week were we've continued chatting in the same manner since before but I've been a little bit less talkative and kinda went my own way in a bit, she has hinted at seeing me again(idk if as a friend or what).

Now im 99% sure I can see her again, so I will probably have another chance at kissing her, I highly doubt im at a point of no return, but HOW do I not fuck this up. I feel I have one more shot where I get to make out w her and drop her panties or else she loses all sexual interest in me.

Fuck this is so cringe to ask but HOW the fuck do I learn to makeout, like I genuinely feel much more confident in fucking her than in making out w her. This thought of being bad at kissing also comes from some other experiences I've had.

practice on your pillow, or better yet, your mom

 

[chadriguez]

practice on your pillow, or better yet, your mom

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Fuck man How the fuck do i trust your advice then i think i can still fuck her but I cant fuck it up

Bro this is solid asf

Coaches don't play what I just tell you

 

[chadriguez]

Bro this is solid asf

Coaches don't play what I just tell you

Yea ig, but I dont think the act before kissing is my problem its the actual kissing. Like this bitch said I was tense or some shit… or u think if im chill before the Kiss it will trick her

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Yea ig, but I dont think the act before kissing is my problem its the actual kissing. Like this bitch said I was tense or some shit… or u think if im chill before the Kiss it will trick her

Its obviously the kissing itself

Give me a run down, play by play, do you grab her head?

 

[chadriguez]

Its obviously the kissing itself

Give me a run down, play by play, do you grab her head?

Grab by the neck, I guess I hold eye contact. I try to be slow af w the kissing since I heard bad kissers are usually just super fast.

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Grab by the neck, I guess I hold eye contact. I try to be slow af w the kissing since I heard bad kissers are usually just super fast.

Bro hold the back of her head lightly while brushing your hand through the hairs before you finally find a good spot to hold and maintain it, use your other hand to wrap around and get it close to the belly button as that's a sensitive spot, after having made out for a fair bit

Coaches do NOT play

 

[manletfuel]

Ok so, long story short im at a place I can go on dates and feel confident in myself and have quite good looks, low inhibitions and all that. However inexperience is holding me back. I feel like the only thing im self conscious about is the kissing aspect. I haven't been straight up told im a bad kisser but some of these experiences(there are a few more than the case in hand) have kinda fked me a bit and since Kissing is the thing that leads to fucking I kinda feel self conscious about it.

There is this girl I've been talking to, we've been on 3 dates/hangouts , all dates went pretty fine like I said im good in dates and im chill and have no problem escalating TILL I gotta make out lol. Like I was convinced this girl was full onto me. First date I kiss her and touch her and shit and when it comes to say goodbye we make out for like 5 seconds maybe and I pull out. Second date more of the same. Now third date everything is set up to have a long make out session at least or whatever, we kiss for like 30s then she pulls back and ask me if im tense or some shit(ouch). After this date she asks me what my intentions are and I tell her I dont want anything serious and she says she also is not looking for anything serious. However I feel like I kinda fucked up in that scenario and maybe im looking at the friend zone( again this girl was super into me), since then its been like a week were we've continued chatting in the same manner since before but I've been a little bit less talkative and kinda went my own way in a bit, she has hinted at seeing me again(idk if as a friend or what).

Now im 99% sure I can see her again, so I will probably have another chance at kissing her, I highly doubt im at a point of no return, but HOW do I not fuck this up. I feel I have one more shot where I get to make out w her and drop her panties or else she loses all sexual interest in me.

Fuck this is so cringe to ask but HOW the fuck do I learn to makeout, like I genuinely feel much more confident in fucking her than in making out w her. This thought of being bad at kissing also comes from some other experiences I've had.

Go with flow and close ur eyes when ur kissing her

 

[[BASED]mogger]

Go with flow and close ur eyes when ur kissing her

oh yea im sure an LTN 400+ post incel would know

 

[manletfuel]

oh yea im sure an LTN 400+ post incel would know

Hop off this site fakecel
Also 400 posts is still graycel territory buddy so idk what ur complaning about

 

[Deleted member 32410]

If you’ve never kissed a girl it’ll probably be bad unless ur like high and drunk and having a good trip alr. It’s one of those things that you only learn by doing it. Can’t just do it in most cases lol