
whitebitchslayer
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i hate living like this its like theres a massive glass wall between and the life I want.
So this week i have been on a cruise with my family and for 4 straight days i have walked around the ship in circles as a poor attempt to make my family think i am busy "enjoying myself" they obviously saw through my bullshit and asked why I wasn't with the large groups of people my age to which I didn't have a good answer (just said I am not meant to be social JFL) and through out the day today ive had some pretty down to earth talks to myself. People seem to think I am just trying to make myself a victim and am being autistic which I considered a good amount. I wonder why i do this? why do i do everything I can to avoid other people my age (specifically attractive ones) and take their occasional passing insults like a cuck, yet i will spend time watching them? I tell myself that I am simply not intrested in being social as a cope. I think that i want to be like them and am jealous but am missing something.
I think maybe confidence is actually important, maybe I am so aware about me being unattractive that it is stopping me from associating with people... yet there are subhumans that can do everything I wish I could just fine simply because they truly belive that looks dont matter. I dont even know if being more attractive would make any difference tbh... This would explain why my only 2 irl friends are people ive known since i was 8/9 when I didnt hate myself so much.
Maybe I am so used to being disliked by everyone around me that it has a psychological effect even in a brand new environment. This is pretty feasible since generally people liked in one environment are equally liked in another, but this could also just be another effect of lookism.
Maybe it really is because of my looks and there is no hope, or it is something in my brain that can never be changed?
Today I was at the beach and made a thread or two about how many attractive foids where there, I spent about 6 hours there total I believe and not a single one noticed my presence while I was fantasizing about how they would treat me if I was CL. This was also brutal as multiple people replied to the posts saying I should talk to them and it made me think about why I genuinely couldn't do that... There wouldn't have been any real consequences as I will never see any of them ever again so why was I not able to? Maybe it was my certainty of being laughed at and shot down infront of people, but I have no idea where that came from, considering I have never cold approached a female in my life.
Maybe all of this is due to bad experiences with females in my past such as being ridiculed, talked about relentlessly, and accused of SA.
Damn I really wish I had social skills. Even if i wasnt attractive it would be nice for people to want to associate with me (although that goes hand in hand with attractiveness). Maybe jealously over what others have and are born with (the ablity to make friends everywhere they go, be freindly with girls, have relationships, low inhib, and being attractive) will drive me to extreme actions. Or maybe I will just continue to be a cuck the rest of my life fantasizing about being chad while getting dnred on self pitty threads.
Why the fuck can I not enjoy stuff like this. jfl they would jump at the opportunity to talk to me if I wasn't unattractive.
So this week i have been on a cruise with my family and for 4 straight days i have walked around the ship in circles as a poor attempt to make my family think i am busy "enjoying myself" they obviously saw through my bullshit and asked why I wasn't with the large groups of people my age to which I didn't have a good answer (just said I am not meant to be social JFL) and through out the day today ive had some pretty down to earth talks to myself. People seem to think I am just trying to make myself a victim and am being autistic which I considered a good amount. I wonder why i do this? why do i do everything I can to avoid other people my age (specifically attractive ones) and take their occasional passing insults like a cuck, yet i will spend time watching them? I tell myself that I am simply not intrested in being social as a cope. I think that i want to be like them and am jealous but am missing something.
I think maybe confidence is actually important, maybe I am so aware about me being unattractive that it is stopping me from associating with people... yet there are subhumans that can do everything I wish I could just fine simply because they truly belive that looks dont matter. I dont even know if being more attractive would make any difference tbh... This would explain why my only 2 irl friends are people ive known since i was 8/9 when I didnt hate myself so much.
Maybe I am so used to being disliked by everyone around me that it has a psychological effect even in a brand new environment. This is pretty feasible since generally people liked in one environment are equally liked in another, but this could also just be another effect of lookism.
Maybe it really is because of my looks and there is no hope, or it is something in my brain that can never be changed?
Today I was at the beach and made a thread or two about how many attractive foids where there, I spent about 6 hours there total I believe and not a single one noticed my presence while I was fantasizing about how they would treat me if I was CL. This was also brutal as multiple people replied to the posts saying I should talk to them and it made me think about why I genuinely couldn't do that... There wouldn't have been any real consequences as I will never see any of them ever again so why was I not able to? Maybe it was my certainty of being laughed at and shot down infront of people, but I have no idea where that came from, considering I have never cold approached a female in my life.
Maybe all of this is due to bad experiences with females in my past such as being ridiculed, talked about relentlessly, and accused of SA.
Damn I really wish I had social skills. Even if i wasnt attractive it would be nice for people to want to associate with me (although that goes hand in hand with attractiveness). Maybe jealously over what others have and are born with (the ablity to make friends everywhere they go, be freindly with girls, have relationships, low inhib, and being attractive) will drive me to extreme actions. Or maybe I will just continue to be a cuck the rest of my life fantasizing about being chad while getting dnred on self pitty threads.
Why the fuck can I not enjoy stuff like this. jfl they would jump at the opportunity to talk to me if I wasn't unattractive.