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nobodyspecial369
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I’ve gotten less likes and matches recently than ever before even though i’ve gotten better looking, some people have told me i’m low chadlite and handsome. I put 6 ft in bio bro
The girls i match with are girls i don’t even wanna date. Like MTBs, but they have the audacity to have high standards and some have unmatched at the slightest little thing. One girl had an ice breaker on her bio of where you see yourself in 5 years and i mentioned wanting to do youtube as a side thing. She asked what type of content and i told her sports music and maybe asmr and she unmatched me right after…
another girl i literally said nothing wrong. she opened with “hiii”, and i asked “any first date ideas”, and she said “acquarium or dinner idk haha what do you wanna do”, and i said that either works and suggested couple times and days. And she unmatched me. Like wtf tbh i was settling by even matching w her. It may be unrelated to me tho since i did nothing wrong
Ok final one, this girl had liked my pic back in february and double texted a bit. I finally just got back to her. she double texts again and then i explain in a nice way that her pics do an awful job of showcasing what she actually looks like- she had the dog snapchat filter, covering her face a bit, angles, sunglasses and not looking directly at camera in several. But she was a decently cute blonde i could tell. Anyways, i guess she isn’t getting any likes or matches which is why she kept reaching out
Right after i send below text she unmatches? like bro, i’m trying to give her friendly advice and i didn’t insult her. i just want a better idea of what she looks like.
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There’s a couple other girls who i would feel i’m settling for but giving a chance and they still ghosted, as expected
Anyways, i know there’s lots of other better guys in my high competition area, but this was a good reminder at how lame dating apps are nowadays. Ya i’m at least getting some likes, but so what if they either act peeved at the slightest thing or it’s low quality smh
what’s your experience? i already know i should leave the dating apps and not look back, so i’m just asking for confirmation. Do you guys even get anything anymore
it seems dating apps are pretty dead at least in my area
Last pet peeve is they literally just say “hey” or “hiii” or boring stuff most of the time even if they are several points beneath you in looks, yet they complain all the time “will not respond to hey, put in effort”
The girls i match with are girls i don’t even wanna date. Like MTBs, but they have the audacity to have high standards and some have unmatched at the slightest little thing. One girl had an ice breaker on her bio of where you see yourself in 5 years and i mentioned wanting to do youtube as a side thing. She asked what type of content and i told her sports music and maybe asmr and she unmatched me right after…
another girl i literally said nothing wrong. she opened with “hiii”, and i asked “any first date ideas”, and she said “acquarium or dinner idk haha what do you wanna do”, and i said that either works and suggested couple times and days. And she unmatched me. Like wtf tbh i was settling by even matching w her. It may be unrelated to me tho since i did nothing wrong
Ok final one, this girl had liked my pic back in february and double texted a bit. I finally just got back to her. she double texts again and then i explain in a nice way that her pics do an awful job of showcasing what she actually looks like- she had the dog snapchat filter, covering her face a bit, angles, sunglasses and not looking directly at camera in several. But she was a decently cute blonde i could tell. Anyways, i guess she isn’t getting any likes or matches which is why she kept reaching out
Right after i send below text she unmatches? like bro, i’m trying to give her friendly advice and i didn’t insult her. i just want a better idea of what she looks like.
screenshot
There’s a couple other girls who i would feel i’m settling for but giving a chance and they still ghosted, as expected
Anyways, i know there’s lots of other better guys in my high competition area, but this was a good reminder at how lame dating apps are nowadays. Ya i’m at least getting some likes, but so what if they either act peeved at the slightest thing or it’s low quality smh
what’s your experience? i already know i should leave the dating apps and not look back, so i’m just asking for confirmation. Do you guys even get anything anymore
it seems dating apps are pretty dead at least in my area
Last pet peeve is they literally just say “hey” or “hiii” or boring stuff most of the time even if they are several points beneath you in looks, yet they complain all the time “will not respond to hey, put in effort”
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