No i didn't mind It i Just don't have enough reflexes to do something. I Always let It go because i Just can't put effort into an interaction like that. Like brain fog or something
No shit Easy when you cannot be rejected or anything
I rejected three women that approached me in a group they felt horrible
This. Nothing can go wrong when you do this kinda shit as a woman.
They approached some HTNs a couple mins later and got banged the same night
No maybe they didn't. Real Life Is still hard for ltbs and landwhales
True, they will have to settle for 0 sex appeal soy normies
They were Ltb indeed no HTN for them and I couldn’t use the girlfirne d card cuz I was getting a girl to grind her ass on me just a few minutes before
This is why confidence is and is not a meme. Confidence won't make you attractive, but it creates opportunities for yourself. Without it, you need to be gigachad in looks.
It's not even confidence. Some ppl like me just lack the Spark. I Just become silent even though the iois are pretty clear
Either it's turbo autism or insecurity, and there a 99% chance it's insecurity. If you think you're hot, approaching feels natural. If you're not sure where you stand, then it feels like your feet are stuck in cement.
I'm going to send you a saxophone
What if you live to be 98
No i already got laid multiple times past 6 months. Trust me Is not insecurity. It's more like not wanting to be involved in the interaction at all. Cold approaching Just sucks. I can't do It if i cannot see her on the regular. That's why dating apps saved my ass
I plan on slaying past 100
I'm telling you that feeling comes from insecurity. When you feel attractive, talking gets way easier.
I feel attractive i've Slayed hot chicks from old plus She blew me a kiss. Stop pretending like you know everything Just because you're an old fag. The cold approaching scenario Just isn't Ideal even if everything goes fine. And i'm talking about atmosphere. I Just can't do it
No you Need to not feel awkard talking to a stranger Met on the street which Is not for me. I can only do It warmall you need is a cool ass attitude
So let me get this straight. You 100% knew this girl wanted to fuck, but you didn't think it was worth it if you had to approach and small talk a little bit. You also felt confident in your ability to talk to her and get laid. But you didn't fuck, and this was also an important enough event in your life to post about on looksmax.org.
the IOI in itself isn't worthy to post about. I just realized that if you aren't really horny, even hard IOIs won't make you cold approach. I wasn't thinking i would fail, i was thinking that i wasn't interested in meeting a girl in that moment, even if she was physically perfect for me.
Well that's a lack of desire. If you don't want to fuck, that's up to you, but I don't think that's what keeps most people from approaching.
it does. some ppl just don't want to fuck hard enough. it's really easy to cold approach but you need to be motivated asf
I think most people desire sex. They don't approach because they don't desire it more than they fear humiliation and rejection. If you don't fear rejection, but also don't care for sex, you're in the minority.
ppl don't care so much about rejection, most don't give af, especially if it's a complete stranger. i've seen ppl getting rejected hundreds of times
We just don't agree
i basically lived in clubs for 3 years bro. i can tell you that ppl don't give a shit about rejection, they insist also.
Don't care
yes you do you seem pretty butthurt about that for no reason at all
Not really. I'm perfectly okay with us just holding different opinions. You're the one trying to keep the argument going. Just deal with the fact that I think you're wrong.
ok but i don't understand how can you mantain your opinion when tons of men do cold approach
They don't. I honestly can't remember the last time I saw a cold approach that wasn't me
college campus/ night club scene it's cold approach fest. approaching in broad daylight is not very nt but still saw some ppl doing it. majority of 25+ yo guys have a gf / wife so they don't need to approach
No one approaches on campuses. Night clubs, sure. But that's not really cold approach. It's pretty expected to approach there.
yes they do jfl if you think girls don't get enough irl attention
You know I've taught on college campuses for a decade, right?
