stamaster21
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Saw this video and its insane guys still think that fake friend route is the best way to get sexual access from women. These are basically the hostile beta-orbiters of a female friend group. Like i said most men in female friend groups are beta-orbiters hoping for a chance of sex from the women. They tend to be passive-aggressive or hostile to new men who the women meet or invite to group gatherings. Typically this is mostly the case in highschool/college settings. Sometimes these guys will damn near turn violent as if the women in their group is their girlfriend or is dating them, you will be a party or gathering and you ask the women is she seeing anyone and here comes the beta-orbiter yeh she is my girlfriend. They don't realize this mate guarding of a women who isnt even dealing with you sexually only works on lower value men, the women likes it because the beta-orbiter scares off other lower ranking males, and once chad/tyrone comes she tells the beta-orbiter to chill and relax. The beta- orbiter will say things like iam just looking out for you, when hes just trying to limit the sexual competition in hopes one day said women in hes social circle or group will give him a chance.
20 hours ago
@silentnight3192 No, I more or less think that as some guys are, they definitely need to commit the silly act of asking consent to talk to them (but probably be just as obnoxious once they get it). Naturally, I don't follow that recipe. Instead, I never ask consent, and they never reject me. Then again, I'm using the friend angle, and never throwing romance or "flirting" in there, and they love it. And no, I'm no chad, not even close. I have a tone that says, "I like you" as I like women in general, so that starts things off great. For those who haven't figured it out, they're rejecting you using romance on them, yet you don't even know them - IOW, your romance makes them out as CHEAP, because it's being used in the wrong place. Romance is a precious thing, and should be EARNED, till some later stage. Perhaps it can be used that first meeting, but certainly for any comfort level for her, she's going to need a substantial conversation ongoing beforehand, and not just right out of the chute romance/flirting as the cultural garbage tells men to do. Of course, I say all of this in reference to real guys, and not jerks that think like PUA's. I'm sure trash seeking trash, the more out-of-place romance, the better. If good girls have any brains, they'll give the flirt the heave-ho right away. Again, perfectly fine at a later stage, but not right out of the gate. That's what I've picked up anyway.
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@charles2241
20 hours ago@silentnight3192 No, I more or less think that as some guys are, they definitely need to commit the silly act of asking consent to talk to them (but probably be just as obnoxious once they get it). Naturally, I don't follow that recipe. Instead, I never ask consent, and they never reject me. Then again, I'm using the friend angle, and never throwing romance or "flirting" in there, and they love it. And no, I'm no chad, not even close. I have a tone that says, "I like you" as I like women in general, so that starts things off great. For those who haven't figured it out, they're rejecting you using romance on them, yet you don't even know them - IOW, your romance makes them out as CHEAP, because it's being used in the wrong place. Romance is a precious thing, and should be EARNED, till some later stage. Perhaps it can be used that first meeting, but certainly for any comfort level for her, she's going to need a substantial conversation ongoing beforehand, and not just right out of the chute romance/flirting as the cultural garbage tells men to do. Of course, I say all of this in reference to real guys, and not jerks that think like PUA's. I'm sure trash seeking trash, the more out-of-place romance, the better. If good girls have any brains, they'll give the flirt the heave-ho right away. Again, perfectly fine at a later stage, but not right out of the gate. That's what I've picked up anyway.
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