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I don't know about female homosexuals, but male homosexuals are disproportionally, by many times, more likely than heterosexual males to have been sexually molested during childhood. We often think about this as some creepy 50 year old monster, but it's more likely to be a boy a few years older than him.
Here is the most incidious things about boys who are molested and subsequently grow up to feel same sex attraction...
If you are molested as a prepubescent teen, in the moment it happens, it doesn't necessarily feel like a negative experience. Victims will often report that it felt like play. And although it is a sexual experience, when a child is not of an age when he has developed sexual attraction, it's not an experience similar to where an adult feels sexual attraction and expresses it through sexual activity. A child is too naive to understand this. However, a child is capable of experiencing sexual pleasure through simulation. He doesn't feel sexual attraction towards his abuser, but he does know that what his abuser is doing feels good.
This is an example of the most common exploitative sexual interactions between young boys and teenage boys, that don't involve more serious abuse such as penetration, and only include "fooling around."
This is way more common than a lot of people think. And the effect on growing boys' brains when they experience this is profound. When you are prepubescent or at the age of puberty, when your brain is still developing and you're only just beginning to develop your sexual awareness, if you throw molestation into the mix, there is a much greater chance that you're brain will be wired towards homosexuality. Because the things that the abuser did to you made you feel good.
Even though we are not allowed to say that there is a link between homosexuality and child molestation, the link is clear, and few clinical phycologists will disagree, even if they aren't allowed to openly say so. Childhood sexual abuse turns boys into homosexuals.
And as I said before, this is not usually creepy adults predating upon boys. It is more often than not boys just a few years older, who have themselves most likely been molested.
Children's brains are extremely maleable. Early life experiences can all but set things in stone for the rest of their lives. Abusive homosexual experiences at a vulnerable age can absolutely set them up for a life of same sex attraction.
Parents need to protect their prepubescent children. Usually we think primarily about protecting our daughters, but most people don't realize how common it is for older boys to molest younger boys. It is much more harmful for a boy to be molested by a man than for a girl to be molested by a man for this very reason.
Here is the most incidious things about boys who are molested and subsequently grow up to feel same sex attraction...
If you are molested as a prepubescent teen, in the moment it happens, it doesn't necessarily feel like a negative experience. Victims will often report that it felt like play. And although it is a sexual experience, when a child is not of an age when he has developed sexual attraction, it's not an experience similar to where an adult feels sexual attraction and expresses it through sexual activity. A child is too naive to understand this. However, a child is capable of experiencing sexual pleasure through simulation. He doesn't feel sexual attraction towards his abuser, but he does know that what his abuser is doing feels good.
This is an example of the most common exploitative sexual interactions between young boys and teenage boys, that don't involve more serious abuse such as penetration, and only include "fooling around."
This is way more common than a lot of people think. And the effect on growing boys' brains when they experience this is profound. When you are prepubescent or at the age of puberty, when your brain is still developing and you're only just beginning to develop your sexual awareness, if you throw molestation into the mix, there is a much greater chance that you're brain will be wired towards homosexuality. Because the things that the abuser did to you made you feel good.
Even though we are not allowed to say that there is a link between homosexuality and child molestation, the link is clear, and few clinical phycologists will disagree, even if they aren't allowed to openly say so. Childhood sexual abuse turns boys into homosexuals.
And as I said before, this is not usually creepy adults predating upon boys. It is more often than not boys just a few years older, who have themselves most likely been molested.
Children's brains are extremely maleable. Early life experiences can all but set things in stone for the rest of their lives. Abusive homosexual experiences at a vulnerable age can absolutely set them up for a life of same sex attraction.
Parents need to protect their prepubescent children. Usually we think primarily about protecting our daughters, but most people don't realize how common it is for older boys to molest younger boys. It is much more harmful for a boy to be molested by a man than for a girl to be molested by a man for this very reason.
