How can I be more NT, my backstory at 15yo

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Hey guys,
This is my first post here on this forum and I have a question. Before I turned 12, I was a morbidly obese kid. I was treated like shit and no one wanted to be friends with me. Thats when I woke up. I started dieting and exercising while I was young and before puberty hit I was at a normal ffmi (Hooray). During puberty, my facial structure shifted and I currently have a marpe device to fix my overbite. I also started gymmaxxing around the same time my puberty began so I have around a year and a half of experience and am currently lifting more weight than most people at my gym (apart from the REALLY big guys). Currently, I am around 5,11 175lbs lean with abs, korean, and around hmtn-lhtn. I status-maxxed in school and now have a bunch of friends (only after I moved to a different highschool on the other side of the state). This is all new to me as I never had many friends and I've had mild autism since birth. This is the main reason why I've been concerned about fitting in with my new friends and how I can seem like I am NT like the rest of them. Any tips on how to seem NT is appreciated. Please help me and thank you for listening.
 
fake adhd to get adderall if that doesnt work take selank if you are scared to talk to people (high dose or its placebo)
 
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fake adhd to get adderall if that doesnt work take selank if you are scared to talk to people (high dose or its placebo)
Oh yea, I dont gotta fake ADHD because I'm alr diagnosed, forgot to mention. And are there any long term side affects to selank that I should be worried about?
 
My story is very similar to yours. Working jobs over the years helped me a lot. Youโ€™re 15 so old enough to work, at least in America. Get a part time job at a restaurant or grocery store. Trust me on this. Iโ€™m pretty sure clavicular has given this advice out too.
 
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you cant hide autism but you can mask it search on youtube for tips
 
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My story is very similar to yours. Working jobs over the years helped me a lot. Youโ€™re 15 so old enough to work, at least in America. Get a part time job at a restaurant or grocery store. Trust me on this. Iโ€™m pretty sure clavicular has given this advice out too.
Will working jobs help me be more social? Apparently everyone thinks I'm nonchalant and hard to approach. I want to be friends with everyone
 
Hey guys,
This is my first post here on this forum and I have a question. Before I turned 12, I was a morbidly obese kid. I was treated like shit and no one wanted to be friends with me. Thats when I woke up. I started dieting and exercising while I was young and before puberty hit I was at a normal ffmi (Hooray). During puberty, my facial structure shifted and I currently have a marpe device to fix my overbite. I also started gymmaxxing around the same time my puberty began so I have around a year and a half of experience and am currently lifting more weight than most people at my gym (apart from the REALLY big guys). Currently, I am around 5,11 175lbs lean with abs, korean, and around hmtn-lhtn. I status-maxxed in school and now have a bunch of friends (only after I moved to a different highschool on the other side of the state). This is all new to me as I never had many friends and I've had mild autism since birth. This is the main reason why I've been concerned about fitting in with my new friends and how I can seem like I am NT like the rest of them. Any tips on how to seem NT is appreciated. Please help me and thank you for listening.
Sorry to hear that man, just ascend and forget you dont need to act NT
 
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Oh yea, I dont gotta fake ADHD because I'm alr diagnosed, forgot to mention. And are there any long term side affects to selank that I should be worried about?
jsut do addi then. if you get it prescribed its not harmful if you do it in good doses
 
My story is very similar to yours. Working jobs over the years helped me a lot. Youโ€™re 15 so old enough to work, at least in America. Get a part time job at a restaurant or grocery store. Trust me on this. Iโ€™m pretty sure clavicular has given this advice out too.
Getting any sort of interaction with humans is what makes u adapt to the current social norms so I agree that its a good idea to get a job where ur forced to talk to other people and just build an profile/identity for urself
 
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Sorry to hear that man, just ascend and forget you dont need to act NT
Can I just be ND then? I've made some conversations really awkward sometimes and people js stare at me like I'm retarded. Do you think they can tell that I'm different?
 
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Getting any sort of interaction with humans is what makes u adapt to the current social norms so I agree that its a good idea to get a job where ur forced to talk to other people and just build an profile/identity for urself
Oh okay I will try my best.
 
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Hey guys,
This is my first post here on this forum and I have a question. Before I turned 12, I was a morbidly obese kid. I was treated like shit and no one wanted to be friends with me. Thats when I woke up. I started dieting and exercising while I was young and before puberty hit I was at a normal ffmi (Hooray). During puberty, my facial structure shifted and I currently have a marpe device to fix my overbite. I also started gymmaxxing around the same time my puberty began so I have around a year and a half of experience and am currently lifting more weight than most people at my gym (apart from the REALLY big guys). Currently, I am around 5,11 175lbs lean with abs, korean, and around hmtn-lhtn. I status-maxxed in school and now have a bunch of friends (only after I moved to a different highschool on the other side of the state). This is all new to me as I never had many friends and I've had mild autism since birth. This is the main reason why I've been concerned about fitting in with my new friends and how I can seem like I am NT like the rest of them. Any tips on how to seem NT is appreciated. Please help me and thank you for listening.
Dnr i suggest roping
 
Can I just be ND then? I've made some conversations really awkward sometimes and people js stare at me like I'm retarded. Do you think they can tell that I'm different?
When people look at you weirdly their wrong, like fake friends yk. Be friends with those who understand you and maybe are also NT. But infact you cant hide it
 
When people look at you weirdly their wrong, like fake friends yk. Be friends with those who understand you and maybe are also NT. But infact you cant hide it
Oh ok. I have a hard time distinguishing whether or not someone is being genuine or not. Ill try look around
 
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Oh ok. I have a hard time distinguishing whether or not someone is being genuine or not. Ill try look around
If you have a really close friend to trust, just ask him and if u dont then make yourself one u can do this. You have my blessings good luck man
 
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np bro autism is brutal but cant let us stop living brocel.
I appreciate you a lot. Glad some people could help me ๐Ÿ‘
 
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I appreciate you a lot. Glad some people could help me ๐Ÿ‘
np bro i had my struggles with it myself and it was very confusing and i did a lot of deep dive into it so i can assess what was up w/me until official diag
 
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