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TylertheLooksmaxer

TylertheLooksmaxer

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The past couple years I have ascended quite a bit, as you can see here:

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Still got a lot of work to do, but I look better then a lot of guys I see, yet I get absolutely no hoes, like cmon now. I am 18 years old and I’m going to community college, zero baddies there maybe I could find a couple if I just walked around campus all day, but cold approaching is hard, only other place I go is the gym, occasionally baddies there, never talked to a single one. Need advice guys I hate this shit.
 

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The past couple years I have ascended quite a bit, as you can see here:

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Still got a lot of work to do, but I look better then a lot of guys I see, yet I get absolutely no hoes, like cmon now. I am 18 years old and I’m going to community college, zero baddies there maybe I could find a couple if I just walked around campus all day, but cold approaching is hard, only other place I go is the gym, occasionally baddies there, never talked to a single one. Need advice guys I hate this shit.
Also btw, not looking for short term hookups really, I want a gf
 
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Lowkey cold approaching is the best way. In the gym for you especially. You could definitely go up to girls in the gym and they could slide their number.
 
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Attend college parties. You don't even need to drink, they'll be all over you when they're drunk.
 
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Also btw, not looking for short term hookups really, I want a gf
go to church bub, imma try that soon as i also dont wanna be with no sluts no more.

u look good so its either ur personality or u dont put urself out there enough. u seem chill tho, just volunteer or sum.
 
Lowkey cold approaching is the best way. In the gym for you especially. You could definitely go up to girls in the gym and they could slide their number.
I could try that, also branching out to different gyms with different girls. I’ve never really tried that and I assume girls don’t rlly come up to me bc ppl say I look scary and unapproachable, what would be a good line to say though haha
 
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Attend college parties. You don't even need to drink, they'll be all over you when they're drunk.
Went down to WSU for halloweekend, drank and shit and went to hella parties yet somehow got zero girls, I looked hella good there and all the guys were glazing the fuck out of me, yet still zero girls besides a couple mtbs who asked for my snap, didn’t approach like any tho
 
lmk how that goes, might try that.
yes bro, seems like the method to me, legit thought about it mathematically in my head :ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO:. but also finding girls aint realy my issue i got other bad neurodivergence bullshit lmfaooooooooooooooo. but im a nice and good looking dude so all i gotta do is try really hard and get out there.

like most dudes on this forum aint too bad looking, especially the greys. so we should just go outside honestly
 
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go to church bub, imma try that soon as i also dont wanna be with no sluts no more.

u look good so its either ur personality or u dont put urself out there enough. u seem chill tho, just volunteer or sum.
My personality is decent guys fw me, I can be funny and chill. Put myself out there a lot on social media though I look kinda uncanny in my shit and ppl think I’m like ai generated, other than that don’t put myself out there in person whatsoever, never been to church before considering it though, a girl id find at church is the exact type of girl I want.
 
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Went down to WSU for halloweekend, drank and shit and went to hella parties yet somehow got zero girls, I looked hella good there and all the guys were glazing the fuck out of me, yet still zero girls besides a couple mtbs who asked for my snap, didn’t approach like any tho
I mean you gotta try a lil bit my guy
 
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I could try that, also branching out to different gyms with different girls. I’ve never really tried that and I assume girls don’t rlly come up to me bc ppl say I look scary and unapproachable, what would be a good line to say though haha
damn u gotta like stylemaxx, just wear some goofy shit like rick and morty lmfao. if they think u look scary just wear cool and nice looking outfits, i legit bet u could pull off a hello kitty shirt and girls would love that.
 
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Went down to WSU for halloweekend, drank and shit and went to hella parties yet somehow got zero girls, I looked hella good there and all the guys were glazing the fuck out of me, yet still zero girls besides a couple mtbs who asked for my snap, didn’t approach like any tho
if they were mtb why u dont talk to them? Like i get u wanna find a good girl but they aint gonna be at parties.
 
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I mean you gotta try a lil bit my guy
You right, I caught a couple hot girls looking at me and I’d just look away and not talk to them lmao, though these girls in pullman are total sluts, plus its 2 hrs from me so if I find an actual gf there then they’d prolly cheat on me, not to mention spending all that time and money driving down there (I also end up drinking and doing drugs and getting relatively no sleep everytime I go down there) makes it a huge setback for achieving my goals.
 
if they were mtb why u dont talk to them? Like i get u wanna find a good girl but they aint gonna be at parties.
Ik lmao thats why ive decided im done with parties and shit, but there were hot girls there and none of them talked to me
 
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You right, I caught a couple hot girls looking at me and I’d just look away and not talk to them lmao, though these girls in pullman are total sluts, plus its 2 hrs from me so if I find an actual gf there then they’d prolly cheat on me, not to mention spending all that time and money driving down there (I also end up drinking and doing drugs and getting relatively no sleep everytime I go down there) makes it a huge setback for achieving my goals.
I agree with the guys saying that you might find someone at a church, but if you just want some hoes, you could probably slay most of the college foids.
 
I agree with the guys saying that you might find someone at a church, but if you just want some hoes, you could probably slay most of the college foids.
Thats the thing though dawg I legit did just that last weekend, went to big college parties in a slutty halloween costume and still somehow didn’t slay a single foid
 
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Ik lmao thats why ive decided im done with parties and shit, but there were hot girls there and none of them talked to me
they were prolly just nervous around u or sumthing idk. thats happened to me b4, im quiet also.

fuck women tho i hate them kinda so thats y i get no long term relationships, they can tell i dont enjoy their company and would rather do lines of coke and crush xanax.
 
Thats the thing though dawg I legit did just that last weekend, went to big college parties in a slutty halloween costume and still somehow didn’t slay a single foid
Sometimes you gotta take what you can. Personally Idk what to do about that, usually the girls start a convo with me, and im just acting severely autistic, and they like that for some reason, so idk.
 
they were prolly just nervous around u or sumthing idk. thats happened to me b4, im quiet also.

fuck women tho i hate them kinda so thats y i get no long term relationships, they can tell i dont enjoy their company and would rather do lines of coke and crush xanax.
I honestly enjoyed doing drugs w my ex girlfriend around more lmao, I’d smoke some weed and rip some ket then turn on some bullshit like family guy and just geek my ass off, after we brokeup I tried doing that same shit alone and I just thought “what the fuck am i doing bro I am a total loser” 😭, though I am way more locked in without a girl, with a girl idrc while without a girl rn im manically looksmaxing and tryna improve my life, yet im not really happy at all and hella lonely, also most of my friends left for college so I only have like 2 friends now
 
Sometimes you gotta take what you can. Personally Idk what to do about that, usually the girls start a convo with me, and im just acting severely autistic, and they like that for some reason, so idk.
Maybe you have more appeal than me, especially being taller, I lowkey think I might just be chopped bro 😭
 
Maybe you have more appeal than me, especially being taller, I lowkey think I might just be chopped bro 😭
mby bro idk. Unrelated, but you look insane, you're not natty right?
 
mby bro idk. Unrelated, but you look insane, you're not natty right?
I’m not haha, have only been on trt for a while now though, sometimes sprinkle a little var in for pre workout
 
and yeah height pill is brutal.
Im like 5’10 though and I sometimes fraud up to 6’, I don’t rlly know if heights the problem lmao I think I just look kinda uncanny and scary
 
Im like 5’10 though and I sometimes fraud up to 6’, I don’t rlly know if heights the problem lmao I think I just look kinda uncanny and scary
Maybe not, face, height and physique are the most important, in that order. You don't look uncanny to me. Maybe you're unapproachable because of your size. Which just means you have to approach first.
 
yes bro, seems like the method to me, legit thought about it mathematically in my head :ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO:. but also finding girls aint realy my issue i got other bad neurodivergence bullshit lmfaooooooooooooooo. but im a nice and good looking dude so all i gotta do is try really hard and get out there.

like most dudes on this forum aint too bad looking, especially the greys. so we should just go outside honestly
yea I feel that. I dont have a problem finding girls, I just have a problem finding a loyal girl. When you go to church and try it out, how are you gonna approach them? Anything different because its at a church or no?
 
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yea I feel that. I dont have a problem finding girls, I just have a problem finding a loyal girl. When you go to church and try it out, how are you gonna approach them? Anything different because its at a church or no?
I am most definitely going to approach them! I have always been decent at that, i walk in with a kind sort of lil smile and good attitude, girls naturally gravitate toward me. I wear whatever, usually in public, white, grey or blue outfits with jeans and boots/air forces.

Havent gone to church or signed up to volunteer there yet, but should prolly get on it soon as it would be nice to help out around Christmas time. Hopefully it all works out for us, were all really tough on ourselves tbh.
 
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I am most definitely going to approach them! I have always been decent at that, i walk in with a kind sort of lil smile and good attitude, girls naturally gravitate toward me. I wear whatever, usually in public, white, grey or blue outfits with jeans and boots/air forces.

Havent gone to church or signed up to volunteer there yet, but should prolly get on it soon as it would be nice to help out around Christmas time. Hopefully it all works out for us, were all really tough on ourselves tbh.
gotchu man sounds good. Anything different about approaching them in a church though?
 
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gotchu man sounds good. Anything different about approaching them in a church though?
hmm to be honest, im white but not super religious and have never actually been to a church before. Not even inside i dont think.

So i would probably just be kind and help out as much as i can, eventually i will run into girls (they are 50% of the population after all) Play the long game with this, as your wife is a long term investment for a good life and children, yk?

thats my plan atleast, seems decent enough and only way i could find girls now that im outta HS
 
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hmm to be honest, im white but not super religious and have never actually been to a church before. Not even inside i dont think.



thats my plan atleast, seems decent enough and only way i could find girls now that im outta HS
Yeah for sure, it seems like a pretty good way imo. Ive been pretty christian my whole life, if you have any questions about christianity or on how to "fit in", lmk. Id be happy to help.
 
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Yeah for sure, it seems like a pretty good way imo. Ive been pretty christian my whole life, if you have any questions about christianity or on how to "fit in", lmk. Id be happy to help.
hell yes dude, thank u.
 
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The past couple years I have ascended quite a bit, as you can see here:

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Still got a lot of work to do, but I look better then a lot of guys I see, yet I get absolutely no hoes, like cmon now. I am 18 years old and I’m going to community college, zero baddies there maybe I could find a couple if I just walked around campus all day, but cold approaching is hard, only other place I go is the gym, occasionally baddies there, never talked to a single one. Need advice guys I hate this shit.
Cold approach women, get a photographer to take some pics of you doing activities and use them on hinge

Getting girls is a Product + numbers game

You have a good product how are you going to sell it? By talking to as many girls as you can

Talk to every hot girl you see and ask for their number. Swipe on apps buy premium and get the best photos you can
 
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The past couple years I have ascended quite a bit, as you can see here:

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Still got a lot of work to do, but I look better then a lot of guys I see, yet I get absolutely no hoes, like cmon now. I am 18 years old and I’m going to community college, zero baddies there maybe I could find a couple if I just walked around campus all day, but cold approaching is hard, only other place I go is the gym, occasionally baddies there, never talked to a single one. Need advice guys I hate this shit.
Also btw, not looking for short term hookups really, I want a gf
Look
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Cold approach women, get a photographer to take some pics of you doing activities and use them on hinge

Getting girls is a Product + numbers game

You have a good product how are you going to sell it? By talking to as many girls as you can

Talk to every hot girl you see and ask for their number. Swipe on apps buy premium and get the best photos you can
practically everything you need to know. Do you think premium is worth it on hinge?
 
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practically everything you need to know. Do you think premium is worth it on hinge?
Yes absolutely

The more likes you send the more you’ll get laid
 
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