thecel
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I've been texting a girl. But not on my own. The vast majority of the messages I sent her were from several guys with dating experience who're helping me. I send them screenshots of the girl's texts, and they suggest things I can say to her. I didn't get left on read thanks to their help.
The texts I've sent her have like 10 different personalities mixed together. So far she hasn't said anything about it—IDK if she notices it. The texts also have so much more confidence, charisma, and humor in them than my own brain could ever produce. So, as soon as I talk to the girl over the phone, through video chat, or in person, she'll definitely notice a difference in personality—and not for the better. I'll come off as awkward, boring, socially inept, and just weird. That's gonna be hella sus.
One way to mitigate this problem (not a very good way) is to gradually stop using my friends for help, so that my text personality becomes just as boring as the real me. But a better solution is to change my real personality to match my text personality. How do I do that in as little time as possible?
The texts I've sent her have like 10 different personalities mixed together. So far she hasn't said anything about it—IDK if she notices it. The texts also have so much more confidence, charisma, and humor in them than my own brain could ever produce. So, as soon as I talk to the girl over the phone, through video chat, or in person, she'll definitely notice a difference in personality—and not for the better. I'll come off as awkward, boring, socially inept, and just weird. That's gonna be hella sus.
One way to mitigate this problem (not a very good way) is to gradually stop using my friends for help, so that my text personality becomes just as boring as the real me. But a better solution is to change my real personality to match my text personality. How do I do that in as little time as possible?
