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Of course this would not happen if I was Chad and tall.
But even with lifts Im around 5'11"ish and I try to get dates with lower level Beckys
Well it happens many times they start with ' shit tests ', I dont believe that much in shit tests but they get totally in the disrespect territory.
They start nagging, they start making fun my appereance, they start annoying me and Im there sometimes I even manage to get sex but at what cost?
How to call out/set boundaries people that disrespect you in dates without leaving?
The only thing I can do is walking away which is the right solution but sometimes it looks like Im running away because I cant handle it...which is true. Its not all about shit tests, I had some girls I dated in the past who showed me no respect.
Ex. They use to comments my phisical appereance in an annoying way.
Remember, not shit tests but they leep making these comments and they act like they can go away with this behavior since I'm too docile, weak and soft.
" you're so short ''
'' I have already told you, why do you keep asking the same questions? I will not reply because you dont listen to me " ( if I ask her something I already aaked her before)"
If I touch her hair
" dont touch my hair, remember? We already talked about it "
" look how tiny are your legs/waist exc...you're so tiny/short "
All these times I just walked away from the girl because she kept saying these kind of shit for all the date and she didnt look interested except fpr some kisses ( no sex ).but again I want to know what reaction I should have with all these shit test.
Keep in mind usually I have no reaction and few times I commented their weight with the result of them being even lower interest.
What can I do to avoid these situations other than walking away?
They dont respect me at all, and same happens in many other situation like job place where they have no problems making me pass for the stupidest in the roon ir they try to belittle me for everything I do.
I already lift but the problem is in too soft spoken and weak to replybto people treating mr in certain ways
But even with lifts Im around 5'11"ish and I try to get dates with lower level Beckys
Well it happens many times they start with ' shit tests ', I dont believe that much in shit tests but they get totally in the disrespect territory.
They start nagging, they start making fun my appereance, they start annoying me and Im there sometimes I even manage to get sex but at what cost?
How to call out/set boundaries people that disrespect you in dates without leaving?
The only thing I can do is walking away which is the right solution but sometimes it looks like Im running away because I cant handle it...which is true. Its not all about shit tests, I had some girls I dated in the past who showed me no respect.
Ex. They use to comments my phisical appereance in an annoying way.
Remember, not shit tests but they leep making these comments and they act like they can go away with this behavior since I'm too docile, weak and soft.
" you're so short ''
'' I have already told you, why do you keep asking the same questions? I will not reply because you dont listen to me " ( if I ask her something I already aaked her before)"
If I touch her hair
" dont touch my hair, remember? We already talked about it "
" look how tiny are your legs/waist exc...you're so tiny/short "
All these times I just walked away from the girl because she kept saying these kind of shit for all the date and she didnt look interested except fpr some kisses ( no sex ).but again I want to know what reaction I should have with all these shit test.
Keep in mind usually I have no reaction and few times I commented their weight with the result of them being even lower interest.
What can I do to avoid these situations other than walking away?
They dont respect me at all, and same happens in many other situation like job place where they have no problems making me pass for the stupidest in the roon ir they try to belittle me for everything I do.
I already lift but the problem is in too soft spoken and weak to replybto people treating mr in certain ways
