how can i stop being validation seeking

[Cheek0]

idk what validation seeking means but apparently i do this alot

 

[Deleted member 21052]

its a extrovert trait

 

[zharupodrugu]

its a extrovert trait

no, i do it too. Im introvert

 

[Cheek0]

its a extrovert trait

im insecure alot but ive been improving mental health with sups and proper sleep

i dont want to be a dick and i want to care about people.


ive just been a terrible friend / not having any friends

 

[Deleted member 22611]

Either seek validation, but in a way that improves your station in life, i.e. statusmaxing, or be aware of the problem and consciously act against these kinds of behaviours.

 

[Cheek0]

Either seek validation, but in a way that improves your station in life, i.e. statusmaxing, or be aware of the problem and consciously act against these kinds of behaviours.

yeah id rather do the latter

sometimes my intentions are innocent but i do it anyways

 

[DoctorPMA]

im insecure alot but ive been improving mental health with sups and proper sleep

i dont want to be a dick and i want to care about people.


ive just been a terrible friend / not having any friends

This basically answers your question