How can I stop caring about what other people think?

Deleted member 8244

Deleted member 8244

white/ 6'0/🇺🇸
Joined
Jul 7, 2020
Posts
10,245
Reputation
10,134
wtf do I do, I can’t get therapy though.

any suggestions would be helpful, it doesn’t have to be based in science.
 
  • +1
  • So Sad
Reactions: Pietrosiek, Deleted member 9670, Deleted member 6427 and 1 other person
same here. All my classmates hate me, but because of my personality not so much my looks. I shouldnt really care since it's just a bunch of subhumans but inside I suffer a bit. Im sure they have some "gigachang hate group chat"
 
  • So Sad
Reactions: Deleted member 8244
Inject
 
  • +1
Reactions: Deleted member 8244
same here. All my classmates hate me, but because of my personality not so much my looks. I shouldnt really care since it's just a bunch of subhumans but inside I suffer a bit. Im sure they have some "gigachang hate group chat"
My class has a group chat I’m in, but I think they have another one where they post party invites and stuff, I have no proof but it’s possible
 
  • +1
Reactions: Pietrosiek and Deleted member 11748
My class has a group chat, but I think they have another one where they post party invites and stuff, I have no proof but it’s possible
I have proof. I saw my classmates scrolling his phone with a group chat with my face as an icon (didnt manage to read the title, but I assume it's something against me).
 
Last edited:
  • So Sad
  • JFL
  • +1
Reactions: horizontallytall, nestivv, turkproducer and 3 others
Idk i mean even if you stop caring it's still a bad thing, i dont think you should
 
  • +1
Reactions: Deleted member 8244
still trying to figure that out
 
  • +1
Reactions: Deleted member 8244
Idk i mean even if you stop caring it's still a bad thing, i dont think you should
I think this too, but it’s to a point where I can’t be myself because of high inhib so I can’t take in new criticism
 
  • +1
Reactions: Matthias8272
honestly just focus on your own shit. that helped me out a lot back in high school. you’ll eventually just stop giving a fuck.

if you are better looking than most faggots at ur school or work then its all good
 
  • +1
Reactions: Deleted member 8244
I’m probably low T then
actually it's more about having a healthy balanced hormone profile, so having high T without the rest of the hormones in check is useless
 
  • Woah
Reactions: Deleted member 8244
Just live - socialize a lot, meet new people, talk and hang out with them, go to parties, events, trips, etc... When you have a very rich social life, you will care less about what some people think, if some of them insulted you or did something bad - you will focus more on your friends and the things you do...
If you are lonely however, every little thing can ruin your day: someone gives you a certain look, acts annoyed when you talk to him, or simply ignores you - you will only think all day only to that little event.
 
  • +1
Reactions: Deleted member 30411 and Deleted member 8244
If you are lonely however, every little thing can ruin your day: someone gives you a certain look, acts annoyed when you talk to him, or simply ignores you - you will only think all day only to that little event.
That’s too accurate
 
  • +1
Reactions: Gonthar
I care more about what I think than what other people think
 
  • +1
Reactions: Deleted member 30411 and Deleted member 8244
inject and dance like zyzz brah

u probably think ur more important than you really are in other's people's minds this is called the spotlight effect btw in reality most ppl are the same so they focus on themselves more than they do on you
 
  • +1
Reactions: Boxingfan and Deleted member 8244
inject and dance like zyzz brah

u probably think ur more important than you really are in other's people's minds this is called the spotlight effect btw in reality most ppl are the same so they focus on themselves more than they do on you
Hell yeah
 
You can't. We always care about the opinion of others.

You can still make your own decisions without needing the approval of others, but you will never stop caring. The best possible way to make the best out of it is to hang out with people who like and respect you.
 
  • +1
Reactions: lilhorizontal32, boIin, mogstar and 1 other person
same here. All my classmates hate me, but because of my personality not so much my looks. I shouldnt really care since it's just a bunch of subhumans but inside I suffer a bit. Im sure they have some "gigachang hate group chat"
Oh no
Oh no
Oh no no no no no
 
B1A9C5A8 3C9E 4514 9A69 27BB8F0AE743
 
I have proof. I saw my classmates scrolling his phone with a group chat with my face as an icon (didnt manage to read the title, but I assume it's something against me).
you’re probably annoying or rude as fuck if people go out of their way to do that
My class has a group chat I’m in, but I think they have another one where they post party invites and stuff, I have no proof but it’s possible
same with u most likely
 
  • +1
Reactions: Deleted member 8244 and Deleted member 11748
Phenibut or if you're feeling more low inhib lsd
 
  • +1
Reactions: Deleted member 8244
you’re probably annoying or rude as fuck if people go out of their way to do that

same with u most likely
sometimes I can be narcy when I'm high on confidence and can be a dick
 
stop caring bro
 
  • +1
Reactions: Deleted member 8244

Similar threads

ToryToad
Replies
4
Views
91
ToryToad
ToryToad
TheVoidInside
Replies
29
Views
295
TheVoidInside
TheVoidInside
D
Replies
18
Views
211
pprimus43
pprimus43
Cleetus Cornfield
Replies
8
Views
433
Roul
Roul
TheVoidInside
Replies
18
Views
246
TheVoidInside
TheVoidInside

Users who are viewing this thread

Back
Top