how common is it to have never had a friend)

[isis_Bleach]

i mean genuinely how common is that cojdition? gotta be somebody else rightv?

 

[ey88]

Pretty uncommon

 

[isis_Bleach]

Pretty uncommon

why if it happened to me then it mustve happeend to someone else right?

 

[ibzygo]

why if it happened to me then it mustve happeend to someone else right?

yeah it had for sure, its rare still

 

[MaghrebGator]

Man, when you people say "never" it doesn't mean really never. It usually means "In the last years i don't know someone face to face that i can speak with about my personal issues, but i know decent people on the internet, i speak with cool people on Playstation, etc"

 

[isis_Bleach]

Man, when you people say "never" it doesn't mean really never. It usually means "In the last years i don't know someone face to face that i can speak with about my personal issues, but i know decent people on the internet, i speak with cool people on Playstation, etc"

nigga kys u dont understand yhat nobody likes me or wants to talk to me no i dont talk to ppl online or on playstation the only things i do are solitary

 

[isis_Bleach]

wh

yeah it had for sure, its rare still

y why? is everyone iust hanging outvwith each other why arent they solitary?

 

[MaghrebGator]

nigga kys u dont understand yhat nobody likes me or wants to talk to me no i dont talk to ppl online or on playstation the only things i do are solitary

Do you go to school or university?

 

[isis_Bleach]

Do you go to school or university?

yes and i have a job

 

[ibzygo]

wh

y why? is everyone iust hanging outvwith each other why arent they solitary?

because they are nt, extroverted and share similar interests.

 

[Alucard69]

Very giga rare

 

[MaghrebGator]

yes and i have a job

Damn thats more socializing than 80% of the forum. You should be giving us advise.

 

[isis_Bleach]

because they are nt, extroverted and share similar interests.

but those are vague terms i need an ecplanation of why they talk to each other? u can learn most info from books no need to talk i mean i

Damn thats more socializing than 80% of the forum. You should be giving us advise.

i only talk abt the task at hand and at school in my group im giga non nt even tho im somehow yhe only person who cares and tries to talk abt the project. but yea likecin tersm of making a friend nobody evervliked me so nobody ever will online or off

 

[MaghrebGator]

but those are vague terms i need an ecplanation of why they talk to each other? u can learn most info from books no need to talk i mean i

i only talk abt the task at hand and at school in my group im giga non nt even tho im somehow yhe only person who cares and tries to talk abt the project. but yea likecin tersm of making a friend nobody evervliked me so nobody ever will online or off

Do you have family?

 

[isis_Bleach]

Do you have family?

nah

 

[MaghrebGator]

nah

Really? Dont you have a mother or father or uncles or siblings?

 

[isis_Bleach]

Really? Dont you have a mother or father or uncles or siblings?

my mom is crippled my dad is homeless i have no siblings and my uncles are living their own life

 

[MaghrebGator]

my mom is crippled my dad is homeless i have no siblings and my uncles are living their own life

Man talk with your mother, socialize with her even if its just talking and staying with her some time. Watch some TV with her, you can't just let her be alone, she wants to be with you and talk with you even if its some minutes a day, even if she doesnt tell you.

 

[isis_Bleach]

Man talk with your mother, socialize with her even if its just talking and staying with her some time. Watch some TV with her, you can't just let her be alone, she wants to be with you and talk with you even if its some minutes a day, even if she doesnt tell you.

i do but im still a friendless nobody. she tells me to just talk to people in my classes and ask to hangout

 

[Entschuldigung]

Not even as a kid?

 

[isis_Bleach]

Not even as a kid?

nah. i hung out alone and walked around a tree in elementary. once a branch fell on me and i said to some kid “see nobody likes me not even yhe tree” and that kid is my neighbor now and he told me that. literally a random kid tho not a friend

 

[noodlelover]

i do but im still a friendless nobody. she tells me to just talk to people in my classes and ask to hangout

Are you lean? Probably no one wants to hang out with you if you're not lean.

 

[isis_Bleach]

Are you lean? Probably no one wants to hang out with you if you're not lean.

1) other people can be 15% bodyfat and habe a normal unimprwssive body and have friends
2) im already lean

 

[Entschuldigung]

nah. i hung out alone and walked around a tree in elementary. once a branch fell on me and i said to some kid “see nobody likes me not even yhe tree” and that kid is my neighbor now and he told me that. literally a random kid tho not a friend

Bro got cancelled by a tree

 

[noodlelover]

1) other people can be 15% bodyfat and habe a normal unimprwssive body and have friends

To make friends you have to provide a lot of value to them.

Some guys provide value by being super social, funny, charismatic, good at being friends. But that takes thousands of hours of hanging out with friends to grow.

So you, having low social skills have to looksmax to get your first friend, and that friend will most likely be obease and a terrible human being that treats you like shit. Then you can practice being social, and slowly move on to better and better friends.

Life's not fair but this is how it is. Friendship = Temporary transaction of value.

2) im already lean

ok. You need to be looksmaxed. IF that's not enough then moneymax.

 

[isis_Bleach]

To make friends you have to provide a lot of value to them.

Some guys provide value by being super social, funny, charismatic, good at being friends. But that takes thousands of hours of hanging out with friends to grow.

So you, having low social skills have to looksmax to get your first friend, and that friend will most likely be obease and a terrible human being that treats you like shit. Then you can practice being social, and slowly move on to better and better friends.

Life's not fair but this is how it is. Friendship = Temporary transaction of value.

cope other ppl just hangout cuz they like each other. nobody likes me because of things i cant xhange so ill never have a friend.

ok. You need to be looksmaxed. IF that's not enough then moneymax.

u know its over when u have to work super hard to have smth wverybody else has automaticalh and on top of that i dn have friends whole looksmaxxed

 

[Shahnameh]

If ur a man in the west, very common

If ur a woman very uncommon

 

[isis_Bleach]

If ur a man in the west, very common

If ur a woman very uncommon

true. ive never met a woman who sat alone at lunch because nobody liked them. they either chose to be like that, either by telling ppl to go away (typical rude foid) or bcuz theyre giga ugly. like foids literally have dudes over at their house at age 10-14 and they hang out with friends like its so crazy to me that a majority of ppl were doing this stuff while i just read 4chan and books and although i approached many ppl nobody liked me weird tbh at least ill die someday.

 

[noodlelover]

cope other ppl just hangout cuz they like each other. nobody likes me because of things i cant xhange so ill never have a friend.

u know its over when u have to work super hard to have smth wverybody else has automaticalh and on top of that i dn have friends whole looksmaxxed

you sound like a terrible human being. I wouldn't want to hangout with you.

Your entire outlook is "Life's not fair, guess I'll give up". I provided you a solution. If it's to much for you, then give up and stop complaining. It doesn't matter that other people have it easier. And you really don't know what other people have been through or how easy or hard their lives were.

 

[isis_Bleach]

you sound like a terrible human being. I wouldn't want to hangout with you.

Your entire outlook is "Life's not fair, guess I'll give up". I provided you a solution. If it's to much for you, then give up and stop complaining. It doesn't matter that other people have it easier. And you really don't know what other people have been through or how easy or hard their lives were.

lol u must be indian to be this dumb. thats not a solution hcuz obviously i tried hard to make friends and do all that shit and it never worked. the reason being im an inferior whose life isnt worth living.

 

[fluoride1337]

If ur a man in the west, very common

If ur a woman very uncommon

I still wouldn't say very common. Even the biggest chuds usually have a few online buddies they met from gaming

 

[isis_Bleach]

I still wouldn't say very common. Even the biggest chuds usually have a few online buddies they met from gaming

thats whats crazy to me. even dudes who are ugly, non nt, bad backstories, etc have friends its weird that i have none oh well

 

[Shahnameh]

I still wouldn't say very common. Even the biggest chuds usually have a few online buddies they met from gaming

I mean real friends not casual acquaintances

Theres a difference between acquaintances,work buddies,activity buddies and friends.

For example i have a bunch of buddies i play tennis with every weekend,

Would i invite any of them to my wedding? NO

 

[isis_Bleach]

I mean real friends not casual acquaintances

Theres a difference between acquaintances,work buddies,activity buddies and friends

in my case i have no buddies or real friends i dont talk to other ppl in my house and at work school etc

 

[Shahnameh]

in my case i have no buddies or real friends i dont talk to other ppl in my house and at work school etc

That's more common than u think, a lot of people go years like this.

I'm honestly okay with having no friends in life

Family and a wife/kids is all that really matters.

I don't need to play tennis with a bunch of buddies, i can adopt more solo hobbies

 

[isis_Bleach]

That's more common than u think, a lot of people go years like this.

I'm honestly okay with having no friends in life

Family and a wife/kids is all that really matters.

I don't need to play tennis with a bunch of buddies, i can adopt more solo hobbies

it sucks when u do play tennis like i do but u dont have anyone to play with for like 3+ years. and orher activties

 

[fluoride1337]

I mean real friends not casual acquaintances

Theres a difference between acquaintances,work buddies,activity buddies and friends.

For example i have a bunch of buddies i play tennis with every weekend,

Would i invite any of them to my wedding? NO

Based, I played tennis in hs, I should get back into it

 

[Shahnameh]

it sucks when u do play tennis like i do but u dont have anyone to play with for like 3+ years. and orher activties

I basically just joined a meetup group for tennis, i might try pickleball later

I used to do rock climbing but it was too much of a sausage fest

 

[isis_Bleach]

I basically just joined a meetup group for tennis, i might try pickleball later

I used to do rock climbing but it was too much of a sausage fest

yea beo fuck rock climbing do nt sports. tennis is great cuz hot girls play it.

 

[Shahnameh]

yea beo fuck rock climbing do nt sports. tennis is great cuz hot girls play it.

Redditors kept reccomending rock climbing so i gave it a shot, honestly big mistake

They claimed its really social but it clearly wasn't the case