How did the dating market get so bad

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When did it flip from men being the one valued in a relationship to girls being the one chased, like a ltb getting with hmtn/htn is just a looks match now, and you have to have a great career and sometimes be really charismatic, how did this happen???
 
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because incels and unattractive normie gooners put ugly girls on pedestals
 
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because horny men and other girls raise girls ego but other men and horny girls dont raise mens egos
 
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because horny men and other girls raise girls ego but other men and horny girls dont raise mens egos
Ohh of course ya, I can’t be the only one who gets slightly annoyed seeing girls call there chopped friends a “10”
 
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Ohh of course ya, I can’t be the only one who gets slightly annoyed seeing girls call there chopped friends a “10”
girls feel better when they complatment chopped girls, also to many guys watch porn so they date chopped girls
 
Ohh of course ya, I can’t be the only one who gets slightly annoyed seeing girls call there chopped friends a “10”
not many things make me more angry, fat girls deserve 0 likes and 0 comments not like hundreds of like and dozens of comments calling them stunning im so sick of it
 
Well one thing I've noticed in college is that even the most attractive guys will fuck rather middle of the pack looking girls because they're easy to slay, so this makes the overall hypergamy of college completely fucked. Basically all my college slays come from weekend nights where it's a competition as to who ends up talking to a chick last. Dating is absolutely down the gutter though unless you are a top 1% male.
 
not many things make me more angry, fat girls deserve 0 likes and 0 comments not like hundreds of like and dozens of comments calling them stunning im so sick of it
Facts it’s actually so annoying because why do they get so uplifted just because there female, while there male version would be told to jump
 
When did it flip from men being the one valued in a relationship to girls being the one chased, like a ltb getting with hmtn/htn is just a looks match now, and you have to have a great career and sometimes be really charismatic, how did this happen???
Simps
 
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Well one thing I've noticed in college is that even the most attractive guys will fuck rather middle of the pack looking girls because they're easy to slay, so this makes the overall hypergamy of college completely fucked. Basically all my college slays come from weekend nights where it's a competition as to who ends up talking to a chick last. Dating is absolutely down the gutter though unless you are a top 1% male.
Ya it’s insane, what happens to htb and Stacys do they just pick and get what they want? How does anyone even get a long lasting relationship
 
Ya it’s insane, what happens to htb and Stacys do they just pick and get what they want? How does anyone even get a long lasting relationship
Well at the higher echelons of attractiveness for both men and women in college no one dates, they mainly just fuck. I have seen a couple actual chads (6'4 blonde aryan mf's) with girlfriends but they probably will just eventually cheat on them anyways. When you have so many options there's no point to dating, and both sides feel this way. It's actually more around the mhtn-hhtn area that shit is an absolute warzone.
 
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Well at the higher echelons of attractiveness for both men and women in college no one dates, they mainly just fuck. I have seen a couple actual chads (6'4 blonde aryan mf's) with girlfriends but they probably will just eventually cheat on them anyways. When you have so many options there's no point to dating, and both sides feel this way. It's actually more around the mhtn-hhtn area that shit is an absolute warzone.
That’s actually sad, because there literally undateable after 3+ men
 
That’s actually sad, because there literally undateable after 3+ men
That's why I don't date in college. It's bad but I've completely desensitized myself to the point that I can be with a girl for about a month and feel absolutely nothing when we part ways, because from the day I meet them I'm wise enough to know that this is an attractive western university college girl. My competition are the most attractive men I will ever be around in my life, and I'm around mhtn. It's like being around a bunch of millionaires and sticking with a guy who makes 200k a year. Like yea 200k is good and above average, but he's not a millionaire.
 
When did it flip from men being the one valued in a relationship
when women started joining the workforce.

but honestly dating isn't so bad if it comes to you naturally, don't worry about it
 
It started with the first Christians
 
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