How did your parents react to you contemplating surgery, (and dyeing ur brows,minox etc)

[albanianblackguy]

Tryna get ready for my moms reaction when i tell her im getting a genioplasty, she already thinks im sick etc and me dying my brows/lashes doesnt help at all, ofc we all know moms are trying to looksmin you all the time subconciously but i still dont want her to fall into depression cuz her son is getting plastic surgery.

 

[albanianblackguy]

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[albanianblackguy]

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[Raphysm]

Tryna get ready for my moms reaction when i tell her im getting a genioplasty, she already thinks im sick etc and me dying my brows/lashes doesnt help at all, ofc we all know moms are trying to looksmin you all the time subconciously but i still dont want her to fall into depression cuz her son is getting plastic surgery.

Tell her its your bad posture that caused difficulty to breath so you need genioplasty

 

[Raphysm]

Tryna get ready for my moms reaction when i tell her im getting a genioplasty, she already thinks im sick etc and me dying my brows/lashes doesnt help at all, ofc we all know moms are trying to looksmin you all the time subconciously but i still dont want her to fall into depression cuz her son is getting plastic surgery.

Tell her its your bad posture that caused difficulty to breath so you need genioplasty

Just mind your own life bro youre an adult right ?

 

[albanianblackguy]

Just mind your own life bro youre an adult right ?

im 19 tho u still gotta inform ur parents about surgeries, she is going to notice anyways so its better if i just tell her beforehand

 

[dreamcake1mo]

I would agree with your mom. I think your kind of sick and worried about the wrong shit.

I also do not think you expanded all of your softmaxxing options that do not require surgery. Generally, if your ugly and need surgery-no real amount of surgery will make you look good enough to actually reach any new level of beauty. Men naturally look less "beautiful" than women facially too, so beauty maxxing from a surgery perspective is actually diminishing for a male in most cases. You might want to keep your advantage which is male dimorphism from a women gaze and not average yourself out through male gaze surgery tricks and lose your strategic "edge".

Soft maxxing include braces, teeth, skin quality, hair quality (transplants), dyes etc. Even making sure you are sexually fit. This generally will boost you enough to reach your genetic peak. If you are a (subjective) 5/10 you can go to a 6/10, which is not that drastically different than being a 7/10-8/10 at your age. But the kicker is that you still keep your male dimorphism edge. And softmaxxing tends to show class. This is important.

Ferment the shit and put it in a pretty package and it is prized/respected as a fertilizer. Leave it on the street and it is detestable -me.
A dog turns into a mans best friend when you groom it-me. Bleach the teeth of a wicked man and he becomes an emperor overnight-me.

The workings of todays sexual strategies are far more complex than just aesthetics for a man. You have this whole forum and this world handing you endless issues of society, and yet you believe looks surgery can piledrive through them all? This would be my worry as a parent

 

[albanianblackguy]

I would agree with your mom. I think your kind of sick and worried about the wrong shit.

I also do not think you expanded all of your softmaxxing options that do not require surgery. Generally, if your ugly and need surgery-no real amount of surgery will make you look good enough to actually reach any new level of beauty. Men naturally look less "beautiful" than women facially too, so beauty maxxing from a surgery perspective is actually diminishing for a male in most cases. You might want to keep your advantage which is male dimorphism from a women gaze and not average yourself out through male gaze surgery tricks and lose your strategic "edge".

Soft maxxing include braces, teeth, skin quality, hair quality (transplants), dyes etc. Even making sure you are sexually fit. This generally will boost you enough to reach your genetic peak. If you are a (subjective) 5/10 you can go to a 6/10, which is not that drastically different than being a 7/10-8/10 at your age. But the kicker is that you still keep your male dimorphism edge. And softmaxxing tends to show class. This is important.

Ferment the shit and put it in a pretty package and it is prized/respected as a fertilizer. Leave it on the street and it is detestable -me.
A dog turns into a mans best friend when you groom it-me. Bleach the teeth of a wicked man and he becomes an emperor overnight-me.

The workings of todays sexual strategies are far more complex than just aesthetics for a man. You have this whole forum and this world handing you endless issues of society, and yet you believe looks surgery can piledrive through them all? This would be my worry as a parent

i am good looking, i follow a strict diet and exercise, i try to have a low stress life, but i still think surgery can ascend me to even greater levels, i dont see a problem with it since i will pay for it by myself, just want to know how other parents react to that stuff since i have no intention of changing my decision depending on my moms answer, just trying to make her less histeric when she finds out

 

[MoggerGaston]

Cant relate because i have no contact with family

 

[HostSamurai]

My mom said she doesn't mind what I do as long as I have the money for it. She seems supportive of it overall. Granted, her reactions to my plastic surgeries once I get them I have no clue.

 

[The Homelander]

Tell her its your bad posture that caused difficulty to breath so you need genioplasty

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[albanianblackguy]

My mom said she doesn't mind what I do as long as I have the money for it. She seems supportive of it overall. Granted, her reactions to my plastic surgeries once I get them I have no clue.

a bit strange, its rare for a mom to have this kind of reaction

 

[HostSamurai]

a bit strange, its rare for a mom to have this kind of reaction

Well my mom was also pretty into things like skincare and such growing up, so it's only natural I guess. Granted skincare to plastic surgery is a big jump but I mean I think she supports the idea of her son taking care of his looks, which is a rare thing to see in curry culture as most men are quite bluepilled and oofie doofie maxxing.

 

[albanianblackguy]

Cant relate because i have no contact with family

i dont talk to anyone from my dads side so i can partially relate, couldnt care less bout them tho

 

[brownmutt42]

They beat my ass.

 

[albanianblackguy]

Well my mom was also pretty into things like skincare and such growing up, so it's only natural I guess. Granted skincare to plastic surgery is a big jump but I mean I think she supports the idea of her son taking care of his looks, which is a rare thing to see in curry culture as most men are quite bluepilled and oofie doofie maxxing.

seems like a great mother and son relationship

 

[PSL DEMON]

i am good looking, i follow a strict diet and exercise, i try to have a low stress life, but i still think surgery can ascend me to even greater levels, i dont see a problem with it since i will pay for it by myself, just want to know how other parents react to that stuff since i have no intention of changing my decision depending on my moms answer, just trying to make her less histeric when she finds out

She won’t find out, if she notices something changed just hit her with “puberty”

 

[albanianblackguy]

She won’t find out, if she notices something changed just hit her with “puberty”

she will definitely notice since its a hardmaxx and i will do it when im like 21-22 (im 19 rn) so no muh puberty card

 

[dreamcake1mo]

a bit strange, its rare for a mom to have this kind of reaction

Well if you are good looking like you said, its normal. I mean, look at the reaction i typed. Its genuinely a dumb idea.

I personally think its a bad idea, especially at your age. I look drastically different than i did at 19. I would say i look better or reached my genetic dimorphism prime mid 20s. 19 you still kind of look like a baby and lack a lot of bone development. Surgery at that age is honestly ridiculous.

Akin to cutting your dick off and going through gender surgery before a teen. This is basically what your contemplating to her, especially through her female gaze

I know your question was how did your parents react and not one on the moral/logical intricacies of your choice. Just highlighting her perspective, as someone also good looking. I never really considered surgery because the options for softmaxxing are far more extensive and forgiving. It would make no sense. And i do not trust the intelligence or creative ability of another person above mines to carve myself better than my imagination

 

[beyondbirthday]

they thought I turned into a homo

 

[Ziaoni]

Negatively -water

But since I got a gf they quieted down a lot.

Looksmaxing and all that gay shit without having accomplished anything will make them question you

You won't get kick d out of the house, normies do shit way worse than dyeing your brows and they're parents still love them

Just be low inhib and do it

 

[chadisbeingmade]

Do it at the age where you don’t have to inform your parents.

Till then you may still develop more, who knows. IDK how people came up with you’re done at 18. Just because you are legally an adult at 18 you must automatically stop growing is BS to me.