How do deal with a crazy mother

[retardedcel]

Doesn't let me do anything
Just study study study
Doesn't even let me go out with my friends
Doesn't let me talk to girls ( jfl )

And she's insane btw mentally
Help I'm almost 17 and can't wait 1 year to move out

 

[Mess]

Lit stand up to her man, she pushes you around because she thinks she can

 

[Idontknowlol]

Invite me over so I can give her a good dicking session

 

[retardedcel]

Lit stand up to her man, she pushes you around because she thinks she can

U think I already haven't done that
Lol even the family supports her over for me

 

[Zukiteru]

Honestly, there's nothing you can do about it. I'm in a somewhat similar situation, and I came to terms with it years ago. I do still love my mother dearly, but I realized it wasn't worth stressing myself over, nor was it worth stressing her over since I'll have the chance to do what I want eventually anyway.



The main conclusion I came to that finally made me realize why it wasn't worth it was when I considered that although she's my mother, she is still a human being. It's her first ever being a human. She believes what she is doing is right because she doesn't know any better because nobody was there to teach her any better. She is a reflection of her own upbringing, or maybe lack thereof, and as a result has had to figure everything out on her own.



Look on the bright side though; as a result of getting robbed of most of your teenagehood, you'll get to be a teenager all over again when you do get out. Just hang in there, bro. It'll get better eventually.

 

[retardedcel]

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Honestly, there's nothing you can do about it. I'm in a somewhat similar situation, and I came to terms with it years ago. I do still love my mother dearly, but I realized it wasn't worth stressing myself over, nor was it worth stressing her over since I'll have the chance to do what I want eventually anyway.



The main conclusion I came to that finally made me realize why it wasn't worth it was when I considered that although she's my mother, she is still a human being. It's her first ever being a human. She believes what she is doing is right because she doesn't know any better because nobody was there to teach her any better. She is a reflection of her own upbringing, or maybe lack thereof, and as a result has had to figure everything out on her own.



Look on the bright side though; as a result of getting robbed of most of your teenagehood, you'll get to be a teenager all over again when you do get out. Just hang in there, bro. It'll get better eventually.

Thanks Bhai good answer

 

[keepcopingboyo]

Rough, I had a similar experience. Shitty childhood. My case was not that severe as most people's online, nor was it I think as bad as yours, but it was bad enough to ruin my childhood and leave lasting impacts. There is not much you can do, because standing up to her or trying to tell her anything won't change anything, parents like this are usually extremely stubborn and never change their opinions.

You need to grab your own life by the ballsack, and realise that there is nothing in your life but yourself. Its a hard realisation to make, but lots of ppl in spots like urs, mine and others have to make this call, and realise your life is in your own hands, and not a single fucking person in this world can properly change or help it: even parents. We have to help ourselves. I think after learning this, I managed to solve a lot of issues, problems and concerns on my own and decided everything like what I wanted to do in life/how to find success for the future myself and took initiative.

Once I started doing this, significantly improved my performance at school, improved social skills, looks and such, my parents treated me like I was a different person, suddenly treating me all nice and such. I think in the inside I've realised I need to move past their parenting in the past, but it has affected me in such a big way to this day, and I still am trying to fix what has been done.


In short, we just have to work harder in life. Having rough parents is a same disadvantage as being born poor, or being born ugly. Its a disadvantage we can't control, but we can work harder than others to overcome it.