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I know that being an overly apologetic downplaying jester doesnt work, so what should your behaviour actually look like? What attracts girls.
Im not socially awkward, im actually really outgoing and often get the chance with girls, but I fumble. What causes this?
 
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looks,confidence and humour
 
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I know that being an overly apologetic downplaying jester doesnt work, so what should your behaviour actually look like? What attracts girls.
Im not socially awkward, im actually really outgoing and often get the chance with girls, but I fumble. What causes this?
they want you to look good.
 
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Pretend you're Chad and order them to do what you want. Not literally. But make sure you set that tone
 
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I know that being an overly apologetic downplaying jester doesnt work, so what should your behaviour actually look like? What attracts girls.
Im not socially awkward, im actually really outgoing and often get the chance with girls, but I fumble. What causes this?
I have read book "Life without panties" by belarussian guy named Alex Lesley. I dont know if its available in english, but the book is written by nd belarussian nerd mathematician, so he describes the right psychology towards women pretty good, with logic, not just be yourself. You can buy it I think on amazon, it is 300 page, so i will resay it to you
 
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I have read book "Life without panties" by belarussian guy named Alex Lesley. I dont know if its available in english, but the book is written by nd belarussian nerd mathematician, so he describes the right psychology towards women pretty good, with logic, not just be yourself. You can buy it I think on amazon, it is 300 page, so i will resay it to you
Nigga really came on here to promote his book like hes handing out copies for his mixtapes while posted up on the block corner
 
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I can write a book on this solely based on experience.

My take is nowadays Instagram reels forces you to become a ‘gentleman’, which these tiktok fags promote for female engagement. Don’t fall for it. You should only give just as much as energy as they are willing to reciprocate, you can experiment ofc you can slightly better your tone in a flirty way but make sure it’s just enough that they notice you only turned it up a notch.

Any physical gestures should only be done once the flirty tone is reciprocated enough. Remember “thank you” as a response for your compliment isn’t reciprocation. That’s zero real engagement.

Don’t handle even minor disrespects if it’s done three times in a row. If it’s a major disrespect (say on your looks, personality or a serious jab on something you cant change) pull back immediately. Females are quick to notice the shift. They will atleast internally respect you. Well, that’s my code atleast.
 
Looks, tall height, low inhib and NT
 
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Only i know what to do, but i'm gatekeeping
 
I know that being an overly apologetic downplaying jester doesnt work, so what should your behaviour actually look like? What attracts girls.
Im not socially awkward, im actually really outgoing and often get the chance with girls, but I fumble. What causes this?
Being extroverted and not the "nice guy". Women like it when you're unique. Not like your average Joe.
 

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