How do I become a more interesting person?

[Deleted member 16958]

it's basement cope to think that you don't need to be somewhat interesting to get along with normies and have a stable social circle. I don't really do anything other than rot on incel forums, go to college and the gym though. Whenever I hear people talk to each other, I notice that they're able to have a back and forth conversation and they can all add something to it. They all have general knowledge on a wide range of topics. I can barely go beyond "how, are you? good, and you?" in a conversation. I'm a boring cunt with no personality. Doesn't help that i'm high inhib as fuck also.

What can I do to get better at conversations? Should I read up on current events? Read normie books? Watch normie movies and listen to normie music? The few friends I have basically use me to vent their problems even though I barely have anything to say back.

 

[Deleted member 4430]

The few friends I have basically use me to vent their problems even though I barely have anything to say back.

mogs me to dirt

 

[Deleted member 16958]

mogs me to dirt

Not really, the whole time i'm just like "mmm, oh wow, cool, damn that sucks bro, really? oh shit". It's kinda exhausting.

 

[nosemaxxing]

it's basement cope to think that you don't need to be somewhat interesting to get along with normies and have a stable social circle. I don't really do anything other than rot on incel forums, go to college and the gym though. Whenever I hear people talk to each other, I notice that they're able to have a back and forth conversation and they can all add something to it. They all have general knowledge on a wide range of topics. I can barely go beyond "how, are you? good, and you?" in a conversation. I'm a boring cunt with no personality. Doesn't help that i'm high inhib as fuck also.

What can I do to get better at conversations? Should I read up on current events? Read normie books? Watch normie movies and listen to normie music? The few friends I have basically use me to vent their problems even though I barely have anything to say back.

unironically focus on yourself, found things you like, gym, motorcycle, cooking, shit like this, live like you are the main character and have some background story and shit, found people you are miring and copy what they doing

 

[Deleted member 8016]

If you are a student try to get a job as a waiter/barman in a crowded place, you'll have endless stories to tell because shit always happens in those places especially when people are drunk.

If you have nothing to says right now is because you spend too much time alone and probably thinking "I'm boring how to get interesting".
You should try to always go out, at first if you have nothing to say you could talk about imaginary stuff like wwyd if you won the lottery or random stuff like that, you can also play drinking games it helps socializing and lowers your inhibition.
You can always make up things that happened to you but be careful not to lie too much because people will notice eventually.

So the main things are keep moving, always be around people, get drunk in bars etc.
Don't stay all week at home wondering how you could get interesting

 

[Deleted member 16958]

If you are a student try to get a job as a waiter/barman in a crowded place, you'll have endless stories to tell because shit always happens in those places especially when people are drunk.

If you have nothing to says right now is because you spend too much time alone and probably thinking "I'm boring how to get interesting".
You should try to always go out, at first if you have nothing to say you could talk about imaginary stuff like wwyd if you won the lottery or random stuff like that, you can also play drinking games it helps socializing and lowers your inhibition.
You can always make up things that happened to you but be careful not to lie too much because people will notice eventually.

So the main things are keep moving, always be around people, get drunk in bars etc.
Don't stay all week at home wondering how you could get interesting

Thanks bro. Yeah, i'm really trying to work on myself socially. I'm 20 and in my first year of college atm. I did meet a group of people and I went out clubbing with them for the first time last week. It went alright and I was a bit more talkative than usual in college but still not great. They kinda joke about how quiet and shy I am, hopefully I don't get kicked out of the group.

 

[Deleted member 8016]

Thanks bro. Yeah, i'm really trying to work on myself socially. I'm 20 and in my first year of college atm. I did meet a group of people and I went out clubbing with them for the first time last week. It went alright and I was a bit more talkative than usual in college but still not great. They kinda joke about how quiet and shy I am, hopefully I don't get kicked out of the group.

Ok you are at the perfect time to make friends and "change" your personality.
Try to see them often, if you don't you'll regress and go back to being shy, the more human contact you have, the less inhibited you'll be.
So keep clubing, going to bars. Try to have coffees with smaller groups of friends or even solo (I mean in a friendly way not a date).

Join a club or a sport team in your university, choose a cool club not some D&D weirdos club.
It will greatly help you encounter new people and give you some status depending on the club you're in.
You must have money to socialize, if you aren't richcel get a job, preferably in a bar as I said earlier.
If your boss isn't a jew he won't notice if you give freedrinks to your friends once in a while.