How do I change my mentality back?

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Ever since I joined this place I can’t look at couples or families the same anymore. I got outside and I get angry and depressed and distraught whenever I see any sort of couple or anybody with a friend group.

I hate being a loser but at least before I was somewhat happy with my life.

It’s even worse because I’m a sub 5 and all the complexity to looking better is killing me and I hate school and I hate the fact I have to work at some job in a few years that I don’t like and I can’t enjoy games anymore as for someone reason I can’t find entertainment in them anymore.

Being a loser sucks I wish I could go back in time and start earlier.

I hate watching porn because all I’m seeing is something I’ll never get currently.



I fail at school because I can’t pay attention for the life of me unless there is literally nothing else to do which they’re never is.

The people I try socialise with don’t even like me that much and just set me up for everything cause they know I’m not that smart so I never take they’re word for anything cause they made me do some actions I wish I didn’t.

How do I become less of loser
 
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I hate being a loser as I know I’m not gonna achieve anything like this
And it isn’t the mentality of anyone who is successful or feels happy
 
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I’m broke as well throughout my whole life.
 
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I don’t know how long it’s been since I’ve been thinking like this but it definitely existed before I got onto this website but it got worse since I got here
 
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Sure then bro. Don’t read. Don’t read anything. Never develop the cognitive ability to read and understand more complex topics
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Nothing it's over you have to accept it and choose a course of action (hardmaxx typically) or nothing at all and whitepill at best but you'll always remember this deep down.

I would focus on moneymaxxing cause that's the onr thing everyobe needs and it opens up the only viable pathways to ascension/happiness even as a sub 5
 
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Best looksmaxxing guide created by me, just do everything from here and you will mog
 
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Nothing it's over you have to accept it and choose a course of action (hardmaxx typically) or nothing at all and whitepill at best but you'll always remember this deep down.

I would focus on moneymaxxing cause that's the onr thing everyobe needs and it opens up the only viable pathways to ascension/happiness even as a sub 5
So should I give up on looksmaxing as a 17 year old and just focus on money and come back when I’m a bit older
 
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So should I give up on looksmaxing as a 17 year old and just focus on money and come back when I’m a bit older
obviously softmax and maintain proper habits but yeah for a real substantial change you're gonna need thousands upon thousands of dollars and rotting on this forum only fucks your mental up which in turn fucks your looks up too
 
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obviously softmax and maintain proper habits but yeah for a real substantial change you're gonna need thousands upon thousands of dollars and rotting on this forum only fucks your mental up which in turn fucks your looks up too
What habits do I maintain?
And what softmax?
 
obviously softmax and maintain proper habits but yeah for a real substantial change you're gonna need thousands upon thousands of dollars and rotting on this forum only fucks your mental up which in turn fucks your looks up too
I’ll never be capable of affording surgery and what are the chances they botch it and I end up worse.
 
What habits do I maintain?
And what softmax?
just the typical like diet, skin, gym, teeth whitening, brows, etc as for habits just proper posture and mew (it won't ascend you to chad but its proper tongue posture so no shit it helps), swallow properly, nasal breathe, all the typical shit you might have missed as an adolescent.
 
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Best looksmaxxing guide created by me, just do everything from here and you will mog

I can’t grow out long hair?
I am working on Gym.
I just need face muscles.
My hair is black.
I’m 188CM tall and I can wear Air forces to get an extra 5CM.
I’m 17 so I don’t know how much more my bones of my face can change. Since my Jaw and chin is recessed and that made my face long
 
just the typical like diet, skin, gym, teeth whitening, brows, etc as for habits just proper posture and mew (it won't ascend you to chad but its proper tongue posture so no shit it helps), swallow properly, nasal breathe, all the typical shit you might have missed as an adolescent.
I’m 17 now so I don’t have many more years of adolescence left in me.

I don’t want to try shim for chad since I’m not built for it.

Mewing is hard because I can’t seem to get my tongue at the right place and I struggle to keep it in place.
 
I’ll never be capable of affording surgery and what are the chances they botch it and I end up worse.
That's extremely fair, personally I'd evaluate based on when and if you ever have the money for it (obviously return on invesment too), I'm waiting to see as the industry advances what becomes more and more plausible and just how the price fluctuates. Although if I were to ever hardmaxx I'd never go for the dirt-cheap clinics I don't trust that shit with even the tiniest fragment of my conscious.
 
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I can’t grow out long hair?
I am working on Gym.
I just need face muscles.
My hair is black.
I’m 188CM tall and I can wear Air forces to get an extra 5CM.
I’m 17 so I don’t know how much more my bones of my face can change. Since my Jaw and chin is recessed and that made my face long
Everything you said is fine, although the face muscles part is entirely genetic so whether you'll develop what you desire who knows, the height is exceptional though.
 
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That's extremely fair, personally I'd evaluate based on when and if you ever have the money for it (obviously return on invesment too), I'm waiting to see as the industry advances what becomes more and more plausible and just how the price fluctuates. Although if I were to ever hardmaxx I'd never go for the dirt-cheap clinics I don't trust that shit with even the tiniest fragment of my conscious.
I’m 17 so I don’t understand how money works that well.
Hopefully they become more plausible but that feels so defeating to have to get surgery so I’ll try everything I can naturally first. I also don’t think I want to use SARMS or steroids or peptides without me trying at gym for a considerable time first
 
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Everything you said is fine, although the face muscles part is entirely genetic so whether you'll develop what you desire who knows, the height is exceptional though.
Yeah I’ll try go gym and change my diet and try swallow correctly and put my tongue at the roof of my mouth for about a year and get my braces. I’ll see what effect it has in about 2 years time when I’m 19.
 
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shrooms helped some people
 
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I’m 17 now so I don’t have many more years of adolescence left in me.

I don’t want to try shim for chad since I’m not built for it.

Mewing is hard because I can’t seem to get my tongue at the right place and I struggle to keep it in place.
Even as an adult I'd recommend all the habits just to reduce any further deterioration, also I would seriously look at a CBCT scan some time in the future to check if your palate is narrow or high arched or even both. This also helps evaluate airway space and the maxillary bone structure. Although usually it does get better with practice even if your palate isn't ideal.
 
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it will just try
I will just live to have shrooms and will never make progress.
If I just take shrooms it won’t move me forwards.
 
Even as an adult I'd recommend all the habits just to reduce any further deterioration, also I would seriously look at a CBCT scan some time in the future to check if your palate is narrow or high arched or even both. This also helps evaluate airway space and the maxillary bone structure. Although usually it does get better with practice even if your palate isn't ideal.
Alright I’ll try get that scan done but for the mean time I’ll just try everything I can.
They throw around all these crazy hormones and extra stuff like that but it feels way to complex for me
 
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maxx hard
 
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Alright I’ll try get that scan done but for the mean time I’ll just try everything I can.
They throw around all these crazy hormones and extra stuff like that but it feels way to complex for me
I mean you can check with a doctor for any deficiencies but I doubt you have anything, I also think peptides and roids are cope but to each their own.
 
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I mean you can check with a doctor for any deficiencies but I doubt you have anything, I also think peptides and roids are cope but to each their own.
I probably have some nutritional ones and my previous bad habits when I was younger messed me up but outside of that I think I’m fine.

I am not going to use Peptides and Roids
 
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Büt at least ü can cöpe by saying that ü tried
 
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Title.

Ever since I joined this place I can’t look at couples or families the same anymore. I got outside and I get angry and depressed and distraught whenever I see any sort of couple or anybody with a friend group.

I hate being a loser but at least before I was somewhat happy with my life.

It’s even worse because I’m a sub 5 and all the complexity to looking better is killing me and I hate school and I hate the fact I have to work at some job in a few years that I don’t like and I can’t enjoy games anymore as for someone reason I can’t find entertainment in them anymore.

Being a loser sucks I wish I could go back in time and start earlier.

I hate watching porn because all I’m seeing is something I’ll never get currently.



I fail at school because I can’t pay attention for the life of me unless there is literally nothing else to do which they’re never is.

The people I try socialise with don’t even like me that much and just set me up for everything cause they know I’m not that smart so I never take they’re word for anything cause they made me do some actions I wish I didn’t.

How do I become less of loser
Depression is self aggression

You need to find purpose and work hard, the life of slayer is not universal
 
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Depression is self aggression

You need to find purpose and work hard, the life of slayer is not universal
How do I find purpose man.
I haven’t done anything in the past 2 years since I was 15.
 
Will it make me happy
Since you're already blackpilled, assuming it goes well then more likely than not yes, even if you know it's not your gene expression just the ascension in quality of life is worth it. Take Tom Cruise for example. It will feel dystopian at first though.
 
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How do I find purpose man.
I haven’t done anything in the past 2 years since I was 15.
Exactly

You hate yourself, you don't hate these random couples

Do you really deserve a girlfriend? Forget looks, are you worth dating. Would you date yourself?

If you're a jobless bum the answer should be obvious
 
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Since you're already blackpilled, assuming it goes well then more likely than not yes, even if you know it's not your gene expression just the ascension in quality of life is worth it. Take Tom Cruise for example. It will feel dystopian at first though.
I’m not really that blackpilled IMO I’m just bored with how people treat me so I assumed it was looks.

I really am striving more for the improve in my quality of life rather than just looks but looks will be ideal.
I hopefully can reach some level of average
 
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How do I find purpose man.
I haven’t done anything in the past 2 years since I was 15.
Right now focus strictly on college/community college/trade school all you need right now is a good career path foundation. That's something you need to decide on your own based on passion, fiscal matters, etc but you need this asap.
 
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Exactly

You hate yourself, you don't hate these random couples

Do you really deserve a girlfriend? Forget looks, are you worth dating. Would you date yourself?

If you're a jobless bum the answer should be obvious
Well no I wouldn’t really date myself
Personally speaking.

In terms of Jobs, well I’m 17 so I still have to complete a form of education up until 18 or when I finish my level 3 Education(I’m in the UK) which for me is going to be 19.
I should be capable of getting a job at that point but I really have just reselling right now
 
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Right now focus strictly on college/community college/trade school all you need right now is a good career path foundation. That's something you need to decide on your own based on passion, fiscal matters, etc but you need this asap.
100%

Giving up on everything due to lack of pussy is ridiculous

You could get surgery after becoming accomplished, men don't age like women do

There is time, so get after it.

If sex is whisky, imagine how nice it would taste after aging for years (working vigilantly)
 
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I’m not really that blackpilled IMO I’m just bored with how people treat me so I assumed it was looks.

I really am striving more for the improve in my quality of life rather than just looks but looks will be ideal.
I hopefully can reach some level of average
The looks work in tandem with the quality of life usually but yeah they're also not exclusively mutual.
 
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