How do I come to terms with being unlovable

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slavic.cel

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I am sub5 on a good day and would need to change about everything about my bone structure to even have a chance of achieving a rating of above mtn. I know no woman will ever love me but still it hurts so much to think about. It’s so hard to come to terms with having to give up on this essential part of the human expirience and no amount of “self improvement” and “focusing on myself can change that”. No matter how many creative outlets I have, how healthy I eat and sleep, how much physical exercise and sunlight I get, how many good deeds I do, the reality of my unfortunate existence stabs me through the heart every single day.
 
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Get penis enlargement surgery to have a 11x9 and be a pornstar
 
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You have to tighten up your schedule, routine, habits & work towards something that is separate from women. Otherwise your mental state will get real bad real quick!
 
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LDAR and cope. Tell yourself you will get rich, get surgeries, etc to cope even though it probably won't happen. That's what I do and its working for me. But honestly it doesn't get a lot easier, it will always be hard to cope. Distracting myself with video games, music, eating, writing etc helps me
 
You have to tighten up your schedule, routine, habits & work towards something that is separate from women. Otherwise your mental state will get real bad real quick!
I am doing all that. I am literally almost always busy. I’m learning a language, doing physiotherapy exercises daily because I have scoliosis, working on my grades and getting ready for the IGCSE’s, working a part time job, getting 8 hours of sleep, eating healthy food and drinking enough water, I have a group of good friends and interact socially a lot but still I cannot shake of this feeling of dread. Imagining just how much better my life would be if a few millimetres of bone were different. If I was born more lucky, I would have everything I ever wished for
 
LDAR and cope. Tell yourself you will get rich, get surgeries, etc to cope even though it probably won't happen. That's what I do and it’s working for me. But honestly it doesn't get a lot easier, it will always be hard to cope. Distracting myself with video games, music, eating, writing etc helps me
I can’t do unrealistic copes like “get rich and have surgeries” since if I give the idea any depth I realise how stupid it is
 
I am doing all that. I am literally almost always busy. I’m learning a language, doing physiotherapy exercises daily because I have scoliosis, working on my grades and getting ready for the IGCSE’s, working a part time job, getting 8 hours of sleep, eating healthy food and drinking enough water, I have a group of good friends and interact socially a lot but still I cannot shake of this feeling of dread. Imagining just how much better my life would be if a few millimetres of bone were different. If I was born more lucky, I would have everything I ever wished for
wait wait wait you haven’t done igcses yet? Then I would assume you’re 16 or under…im not one to be bluepilled, but you DO change from 16-25. Everybody does. If you don’t incorporate any bluepill ideas at all, it’s as stupid as blindly following bluepill. This is one of those times to bluepill.
 
you’ll lose your mind eventually like i did
 
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wait wait wait you haven’t done igcses yet? Then I would assume you’re 16 or under…im not one to be bluepilled, but you DO change from 16-25. Everybody does. If you don’t incorporate any bluepill ideas at all, it’s as stupid as blindly following bluepill. This is one of those times to bluepill.
Yeah I’m 16 but my nose won’t get any smaller. Neither will my forehead. My chin might grow more forward since I have braces and elastics but that’s about it. I won’t grow more than a few centimetres in height
 
Get penis enlargement surgery to have a 11x9 and be a pornstar
Would love to but surgery great enough to get me past 7 inches doesn’t exist rn. Maybe 20 years from now we will all have robo megacocks tho
 

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