How do I convince an older girl to pursue a romantical relationship with me?

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I cold approached this girl at gym that was obv older than me a few days ago. She was flattered and interested enough to ask me for my age. I told her age is just a number, she laughed and then asked again ”I’m turning 18 in three months” I said. She was 21, I’m actually 16 :feelsokman:. Forgot the rest (and her name oops) but I ended up not getting her snap.

Planning on doing small talk next time I see her and hopefully getting something out of it

Any tips?
 
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You don’t and you move on
 
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Why? You won’t be able to compete and she’s probably ran through
 
Because I am underage
So? 16 is legal in most of the world, and its only a 5 year age difference anyway. That's nothing
 
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So? 16 is legal in most of the world, and its only a 5 year age difference anyway. That's nothing
Yes I know and I think so too, but how do I convince her that our age gap doesn’t matter?
 
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Yes I know and I think so too, but how do I convince her that our age gap doesn’t matter?
Just don't call attention to it and act like its nothing special. You probably won't have to "convince" her if she's into you anyways.
 
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Just be casual about it. And act mature and well adjusted.
 
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I cold approached this girl at gym that was obv older than me a few days ago. She was flattered and interested enough to ask me for my age. I told her age is just a number, she laughed and then asked again ”I’m turning 18 in three months” I said. She was 21, I’m actually 16 :feelsokman:. Forgot the rest (and her name oops) but I ended up not getting her snap.

Planning on doing small talk next time I see her and hopefully getting something out of it

Any tips?
If you look good enough she'll want you if you don't she ain't gonna give u shit.
 
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Why? You won’t be able to compete and she’s probably ran through
Pussy is pussy. And especially if you're a virgin you should get any experience and practice you can get. Doesn't matter how short term it is.
 
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Bruh
I cold approached this girl at gym that was obv older than me a few days ago. She was flattered and interested enough to ask me for my age. I told her age is just a number, she laughed and then asked again ”I’m turning 18 in three months” I said. She was 21, I’m actually 16 :feelsokman:. Forgot the rest (and her name oops) but I ended up not getting her snap.

Planning on doing small talk next time I see her and hopefully getting something out of it

Any tips?
bruh mirin the inhib
Yeah Ull be fine if she thinks your 18.
But why didnt u just say im turning 19 in 3 months atp:lul:
 
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Step 1: Turn 18

Step 2: Get into a time machine

Step 3: Take your 18 your old self to 2012

Step 4: Post a Craigslist ad
 
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Bruh

bruh mirin the inhib
Yeah Ull be fine if she thinks your 18.
But why didnt u just say im turning 19 in 3 months atp:lul:
She knows I’m underage anyway because I said it kind of jokingly, but I can cope with that truth always lasts longer than lies
 
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you cant convince attraction
 
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