How do I convince my mother to pay for surgery?

[HairyHairyBoy]

Constantly have experienced negative feedback from people via weird stares, double takes here went there, and zero iois from women. Been thinking to get bimax and implants but she thinks I’m crazy for thinking to do this, and she says I’m handsome. She told me to go to therapy and the first psychologist I went to said that doing the surgery is smart as it would improve self perception and how you feel about yourself. Then I saw another one and he said ur neurotic it’s all in ur head, you have bdd, mind you it was only a phone call for both psychologists. I don’t know who to believe and what to really do. My looks is the only thing that really is holding me back from being truly happy and it just seems like it will continue to be this way forever unless I do something about it. Idk if I could ignore and like focus on a career and stuff, it would be so hard to do this and exhausting in my eyes. How do I convince my mom exactly? She said like get a haircut and dress better and show confidence but like I did that, although never dressed well (would wear shirt and shorts almost everyday, hot weather) went to college two semester not one ioi and very hard to make friends. I think ima cool dude too but my interactions with people were short lived and I would have to try very hard to make one friend.

Any advice anyone has here I’m open to, cause almost all my anxiety and sadness derives from this solely.

I’m 22 btw and wasting almost everyday just researching at home and doing school work. So brutal, I just want a change. Like what evidence does she need for me to prove it will benefit my life drastically.

This isn’t larp btw, and I had upper jaw surgery a few years ago to correct an underbite but it was fully covered by insurance as it was medically necessary, but I am still LTN for sure. It went well I look better but still below average, I also had clicking in my tmj every time I swallow ever since I had that surgery that has not gone away, it’s so annoying and intensifies when I’m lifting or when I have anxiety, so combining the way I feel about myself plus the tmj it’s quite a brutal life I’m living rn.

 

[India lover 52]

say that its more than just cosmetic and you have severe jaw pain and tmj and your nasal breathing is fucked, she will never understand the cosmetic side of things but u can larp and say its for practical reasons

 

[smoochumsthesoft]

get in control then

 

[itssoover0457]

steal from her im gonna do it

 

[zzzakaa]

Constantly have experienced negative feedback from people via weird stares, double takes here went there, and zero iois from women. Been thinking to get bimax and implants but she thinks I’m crazy for thinking to do this, and she says I’m handsome. She told me to go to therapy and the first psychologist I went to said that doing the surgery is smart as it would improve self perception and how you feel about yourself. Then I saw another one and he said ur neurotic it’s all in ur head, you have bdd, mind you it was only a phone call for both psychologists. I don’t know who to believe and what to really do. My looks is the only thing that really is holding me back from being truly happy and it just seems like it will continue to be this way forever unless I do something about it. Idk if I could ignore and like focus on a career and stuff, it would be so hard to do this and exhausting in my eyes. How do I convince my mom exactly? She said like get a haircut and dress better and show confidence but like I did that, although never dressed well (would wear shirt and shorts almost everyday, hot weather) went to college two semester not one ioi and very hard to make friends. I think ima cool dude too but my interactions with people were short lived and I would have to try very hard to make one friend.

Any advice anyone has here I’m open to, cause almost all my anxiety and sadness derives from this solely.

I’m 22 btw and wasting almost everyday just researching at home and doing school work. So brutal, I just want a change. Like what evidence does she need for me to prove it will benefit my life drastically.

Ask to half the price or smt

 

[Ch1gga]

Constantly have experienced negative feedback from people via weird stares, double takes here went there, and zero iois from women. Been thinking to get bimax and implants but she thinks I’m crazy for thinking to do this, and she says I’m handsome. She told me to go to therapy and the first psychologist I went to said that doing the surgery is smart as it would improve self perception and how you feel about yourself. Then I saw another one and he said ur neurotic it’s all in ur head, you have bdd, mind you it was only a phone call for both psychologists. I don’t know who to believe and what to really do. My looks is the only thing that really is holding me back from being truly happy and it just seems like it will continue to be this way forever unless I do something about it. Idk if I could ignore and like focus on a career and stuff, it would be so hard to do this and exhausting in my eyes. How do I convince my mom exactly? She said like get a haircut and dress better and show confidence but like I did that, although never dressed well (would wear shirt and shorts almost everyday, hot weather) went to college two semester not one ioi and very hard to make friends. I think ima cool dude too but my interactions with people were short lived and I would have to try very hard to make one friend.

Any advice anyone has here I’m open to, cause almost all my anxiety and sadness derives from this solely.

I’m 22 btw and wasting almost everyday just researching at home and doing school work. So brutal, I just want a change. Like what evidence does she need for me to prove it will benefit my life drastically.

DNRD.

 

[copeuntilumakeit]

Constantly have experienced negative feedback from people via weird stares, double takes here went there, and zero iois from women. Been thinking to get bimax and implants but she thinks I’m crazy for thinking to do this, and she says I’m handsome. She told me to go to therapy and the first psychologist I went to said that doing the surgery is smart as it would improve self perception and how you feel about yourself. Then I saw another one and he said ur neurotic it’s all in ur head, you have bdd, mind you it was only a phone call for both psychologists. I don’t know who to believe and what to really do. My looks is the only thing that really is holding me back from being truly happy and it just seems like it will continue to be this way forever unless I do something about it. Idk if I could ignore and like focus on a career and stuff, it would be so hard to do this and exhausting in my eyes. How do I convince my mom exactly? She said like get a haircut and dress better and show confidence but like I did that, although never dressed well (would wear shirt and shorts almost everyday, hot weather) went to college two semester not one ioi and very hard to make friends. I think ima cool dude too but my interactions with people were short lived and I would have to try very hard to make one friend.

Any advice anyone has here I’m open to, cause almost all my anxiety and sadness derives from this solely.

I’m 22 btw and wasting almost everyday just researching at home and doing school work. So brutal, I just want a change. Like what evidence does she need for me to prove it will benefit my life drastically.

i have uneven eyes due eye infections (skin got lose) and my mom refuses surgery EVEN if it s free same situation here. idk you need drastic matters larp self harm or take some meds that will make you cry and let your mom see you in this state

 

[copeuntilumakeit]

i have uneven eyes due eye infections (skin got lose) and my mom refuses surgery EVEN if it s free same situation here. idk you need drastic matters larp self harm or take some meds that will make you cry and let your mom see you in this state

+ are you that rich to pay for a surgery?

 

[copeuntilumakeit]

say that its more than just cosmetic and you have severe jaw pain and tmj and your nasal breathing is fucked, she will never understand the cosmetic side of things but u can larp and say its for practical reasons

yeah what if she says "you haven't complain abt it for 22 years?"

 

[desperatesub5]

Constantly have experienced negative feedback from people via weird stares, double takes here went there, and zero iois from women. Been thinking to get bimax and implants but she thinks I’m crazy for thinking to do this, and she says I’m handsome. She told me to go to therapy and the first psychologist I went to said that doing the surgery is smart as it would improve self perception and how you feel about yourself. Then I saw another one and he said ur neurotic it’s all in ur head, you have bdd, mind you it was only a phone call for both psychologists. I don’t know who to believe and what to really do. My looks is the only thing that really is holding me back from being truly happy and it just seems like it will continue to be this way forever unless I do something about it. Idk if I could ignore and like focus on a career and stuff, it would be so hard to do this and exhausting in my eyes. How do I convince my mom exactly? She said like get a haircut and dress better and show confidence but like I did that, although never dressed well (would wear shirt and shorts almost everyday, hot weather) went to college two semester not one ioi and very hard to make friends. I think ima cool dude too but my interactions with people were short lived and I would have to try very hard to make one friend.

Any advice anyone has here I’m open to, cause almost all my anxiety and sadness derives from this solely.

I’m 22 btw and wasting almost everyday just researching at home and doing school work. So brutal, I just want a change. Like what evidence does she need for me to prove it will benefit my life drastically.

Can we see a picture of you?

 

[midface crisis]

Say she’ll never have grandkids because you refuse to fuck any other girls than Stacies

 

[imlearningdude1]

22 and talking abt asking your mom to pay for surgery like you're 15 get a job dude

 

[avgmtnincel]

Constantly have experienced negative feedback from people via weird stares, double takes here went there, and zero iois from women. Been thinking to get bimax and implants but she thinks I’m crazy for thinking to do this, and she says I’m handsome. She told me to go to therapy and the first psychologist I went to said that doing the surgery is smart as it would improve self perception and how you feel about yourself. Then I saw another one and he said ur neurotic it’s all in ur head, you have bdd, mind you it was only a phone call for both psychologists. I don’t know who to believe and what to really do. My looks is the only thing that really is holding me back from being truly happy and it just seems like it will continue to be this way forever unless I do something about it. Idk if I could ignore and like focus on a career and stuff, it would be so hard to do this and exhausting in my eyes. How do I convince my mom exactly? She said like get a haircut and dress better and show confidence but like I did that, although never dressed well (would wear shirt and shorts almost everyday, hot weather) went to college two semester not one ioi and very hard to make friends. I think ima cool dude too but my interactions with people were short lived and I would have to try very hard to make one friend.

Any advice anyone has here I’m open to, cause almost all my anxiety and sadness derives from this solely.

I’m 22 btw and wasting almost everyday just researching at home and doing school work. So brutal, I just want a change. Like what evidence does she need for me to prove it will benefit my life drastically.

This isn’t larp btw, and I had upper jaw surgery a few years ago to correct an underbite but it was fully covered by insurance as it was medically necessary, but I am still LTN for sure. It went well I look better but still below average, I also had clicking in my tmj every time I swallow ever since I had that surgery that has not gone away, it’s so annoying and intensifies when I’m lifting or when I have anxiety, so combining the way I feel about myself plus the tmj it’s quite a brutal life I’m living rn.

get a job

 

[geese]

Get your money up bro stop begging your parents to pay for ts at the age of 22