How do I even talk to girls on instagram?

[Nome]

I know the most typical advice is "reply to their stories" but I couldn't care less about what they post, I just want to go out with them. How do y'all reply without coming off forced or fake?

 

[Asoka]

I know the most typical advice is "reply to their stories" but I couldn't care less about what they post, I just want to go out with them. How do y'all reply without coming off forced or fake?

ask straight up, but don't take advice from me

 

[Orka]

Threats & Just meet them irl

go to a location where you know they'll be at and walk up saying "Hey, are you @bezuzex_.sd on instagram?"

They'll usually be a bit frightened and say "y-yeah?"

using their fear establish yourself as the good guy, subconsciously making them like you more by saying

''Oh i've seen your instagram stories, u look like the submissive kinda girl if ykwim"

from here the conversation usually goes positively and smoothly

 

[mikeperry271]

Threats & Just meet them irl

go to a location where you know they'll be at and walk up saying "Hey, are you @bezuzex_.sd on instagram?"

They'll usually be a bit frightened and say "y-yeah?"

using their fear establish yourself as the good guy, subconsciously making them like you more by saying

''Oh i've seen your instagram stories, u look like the submissive kinda girl if ykwim"

from here the conversation usually goes positively and smoothly

jailtime advice

 

[mikeperry271]

make sure u have profile with good pics on it and it's open
then just dm em and strike up a some convo and see if they are interested tbh
numbers game

 

[whitecelcoper]

I know the most typical advice is "reply to their stories" but I couldn't care less about what they post, I just want to go out with them. How do y'all reply without coming off forced or fake?

just "hey" her and hope for a reply

 

[TheOneTrveCel]

Try calling them atleast once a hour, keep doing this until they pick up, and ask them to go out to *specified location*. Simple as that works like a charm

 

[TheOneTrveCel]

just "hey" her and hope for a reply

 

[Nome]

just "hey" her and hope for a reply

Nobodys replying to that

 

[whitecelcoper]

Nobodys replying to that

if ure attractive enough they will

 

[KB_maxxer]

I know the most typical advice is "reply to their stories" but I couldn't care less about what they post, I just want to go out with them. How do y'all reply without coming off forced or fake?

Is Instagram realy where you Want to meet girls?

 

[Nome]

Is Instagram realy where you Want to meet girls?

For me it's better than the hassle of making a Tinder profile

 

[mikeperry271]

Nobodys replying to that

yes they are
it's all down to how good ur profile is

 

[mikeperry271]

For me it's better than the hassle of making a Tinder profile

tinder is 100000x easier

 

[Nome]

make sure u have profile with good pics on it and it's open
then just dm em and strike up a some convo and see if they are interested tbh
numbers game

What do you usually talk about?

 

[mikeperry271]

What do you usually talk about?

nothing much tbh
just hit em with heart emojis on their story and if they reply I ask for their snap most of the time

 

[Nome]

tinder is 100000x easier

I'm getting tired just thinking about taking quality pictures

 

[mikeperry271]

I'm getting tired just thinking about taking quality pictures

i was the same tbh but try to get like at least 2-3 good pics when you go out
like when u go to a restaurant get maybe 1 candid pic at the table and 1 mirror pic in the bathroom
then also add maybe like 1 group pic with some friends and 1 (non autistic) selfie

 

[Nome]

nothing much tbh
just hit em with heart emojis on their story and if they reply I ask for their snap most of the time

What would they reply if u just send emojis?

 

[mikeperry271]

What would they reply if u just send emojis?

like "thanksss" or sometimes an emoji back
and sometimes nothing lol

 

[Nome]

like "thanksss" or sometimes an emoji back
and sometimes nothing lol

Do you think Snapchat is a must?

 

[mikeperry271]

Do you think Snapchat is a must?

nah but I prefer it since it doesn't save chats and in general convos on there are more loose

 

[Nome]

nah but I prefer it since it doesn't save chats and in general convos on there are more loose

Aight thanks for how long do you talk until you invite them out?

 

[KB_maxxer]

For me it's better than the hassle of making a Tinder profile

But i mean, this sounds bumb, but isnt going outside Better ? Idk

 

[mikeperry271]

Aight thanks for how long do you talk until you invite them out?

depends on the vibe she gives off
if she's feeling me then I'll ask like the same day what she's doing in the weekend
if not, I'll just snap for a few days and see how it goes

 

[Nome]

But i mean, this sounds bumb, but isnt going outside Better ? Idk

And cold approaching? I don t have that big of a social circle to meet women through friends.

 

[Nome]

depends on the vibe she gives off
if she's feeling me then I'll ask like the same day what she's doing in the weekend
if not, I'll just snap for a few days and see how it goes

Cool

 

[Localcat12345]

I know the most typical advice is "reply to their stories" but I couldn't care less about what they post, I just want to go out with them. How do y'all reply without coming off forced or fake?

Respond to her highlights if she has them to like a pet highlight they usually have those. Just make small talk tbh

 

[Nome]

Respond to her highlights if she has them to like a pet highlight they usually have those. Just make small talk tbh

Can you give an example? I m horrible at texting. I do way better talking irl

 

[Localcat12345]

Can you give an example? I m horrible at texting. I do way better talking irl

What i usually did was respond to her highlight of her cat or something and say. "Cute cat what's their name?" and until then you can see if it snowballs into something or not

 

[KB_maxxer]

And cold approaching? I don t have that big of a social circle to meet women through friends.

Yeah cold appeosching Is bad, only Way Is circles or in hobbies, i was personally thinking of going on a Cruise 7-8 days and these meet some girls

 

[Nome]

What i usually did was respond to her highlight of her cat or something and say. "Cute cat what's their name?" and until then you can see if it snowballs into something or not

Aight I m probably overthinking it

 

[Nome]

Yeah cold appeosching Is bad, only Way Is circles or in hobbies, i was personally thinking of going on a Cruise 7-8 days and these meet some girls

What are good hobbies for meeting girls?

 

[Deleted member 76088]

I know the most typical advice is "reply to their stories" but I couldn't care less about what they post, I just want to go out with them. How do y'all reply without coming off forced or fake?

Just come off as fake, they don’t give a shit about you not caring

 

[Deleted member 76088]

What are good hobbies for meeting girls?

Anything were you’re forced to talk to one

 

[KB_maxxer]

What are good hobbies for meeting girls?

Im guessing, try to find some, yoga, maybe back packing, beach volley i this this Is good.

 

[NudeSelfiesTilliDie]

Just compliment them if its a phtoo fo thwemselves

 

[clearpillcel]

I know the most typical advice is "reply to their stories" but I couldn't care less about what they post, I just want to go out with them. How do y'all reply without coming off forced or fake?

make a small talk then say that you prefer irl she will think your diffrent (if your a htn if not your a wierdo) and meet up

 

[tunisianropemaxxer]

I know the most typical advice is "reply to their stories" but I couldn't care less about what they post, I just want to go out with them. How do y'all reply without coming off forced or fake?

Tbh just reply to their stories,and then go on with that dude