how do i exit out of my shell

Ted Bundy

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it isnt even like im autistic im NT its just im socially inept i cannot continue conversation out of the basic questions like

how are you

how are you doing

how is your day

what did you do yesterday

how is your grades?

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what do i need to do
 
300mg pregabalin & 40mg baclofen
 
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Ur just low IQ tbh
 
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u jus gotta go with the flow
Literally
there's no set questions u use to talk to people
U adapt to the convo and the more u talk to people the better u get
 
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GO OUT, that is the only real thing you can do. Keep going out. Eventually you'll pick up from trial and error
 
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it isnt even like im autistic im NT its just im socially inept i cannot continue conversation out of the basic questions like

how are you

how are you doing

how is your day

what did you do yesterday

how is your grades?

:feelswhy:


what do i need to do
I'd say the best way to continue having good conversation is share your experience or opinion on some matter
for instance talk about how you had a really nice time on the trip you went with your friends something like that
if u don't have any and u ldar in your bedroom
lie about it and potentially have a good conversation.
 
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it isnt even like im autistic im NT its just im socially inept i cannot continue conversation out of the basic questions like

how are you

how are you doing

how is your day

what did you do yesterday

how is your grades?

:feelswhy:


what do i need to do
you sound a bit boring no offence, maybe try to hobby and nichemax
 
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GO OUT, that is the only real thing you can do. Keep going out. Eventually you'll pick up from trial and error
last time i went out for something besides school ( and gym) was months ago jfl
 
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if you dont do anything then conversation will naturally be dry lol
 
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Watch julian RSD, UMP (ultimate man project). watch tengame and pimp for Julien. But the truth is you have to GO OUT and fucking talk to people. Dont build a shadow and stay alone for so long bro.
 
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It takes time man I’ve been there (although im ND as shit). Pay attention around you and see what other people do and learn from it. As for convos, try to branch off of what someone says. Don’t give closed responses with nothing to build off of. For example if someone asks you how you’re day was, and you wanna build off of it, describe something you did instead of just saying “good”.
 
last time i went out for something besides school ( and gym) was months ago jfl
Even at school and at the gym just try to find common interests that you can talk about. Talk about a class, talk about your bench pr, it can be anything.
 
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