How do I fix this social issue

[wsada]

The more people I'm with the quieter I become

Like yesterday I was with 3 friends I was social and active and stuff

Now I'm with 4 and suddenly I'm very quiet n shit

And 5+ even if I know all of em I become a mathématicien

 

[Darkeningstar]

The more people I'm with the quieter I become

Like yesterday I was with 3 friends I was social and active and stuff

Now I'm with 4 and suddenly I'm very quiet n shit

And 5+ even if I know all of em I become a mathématicien

Do you feel uncomfortable when the number of people increases, or are you unable to manage communication?

 

[horsefacin]

posts like these are the .org equivalent of reddit niggas writing essays about not being able to talk to women

the answer to basically any question like this is the damage is done bruh. no fraud for your years of trauma

 

[wsada]

Do you feel uncomfortable when the number of people increases, or are you unable to manage communication?

Both
Maybe second more

 

[wsada]

posts like these are the .org equivalent of reddit niggas writing essays about not being able to talk to women

the answer to basically any question like this is the damage is done bruh. no fraud for your years of trauma

Let me cope fag

 

[Samuel Jackson]

The more people I'm with the quieter I become

Like yesterday I was with 3 friends I was social and active and stuff

Now I'm with 4 and suddenly I'm very quiet n shit

And 5+ even if I know all of em I become a mathématicien

That's normal I don't think anyone likes to be in group with more than 3 niggas even if they're close asf because they'll always be a mutual friend there you don't fw or you just don't wanna say the wrong thing or yap too much to make them think your a weirdo I guess.

 

[Darkeningstar]

Both
Maybe second more

Abused dog
Unfortunately, it is simply mainly a problem of when you are not a leader in a social context. you give more weight to it though

 

[silencio]

Remember what you have done

 

[wsada]

Abused dog
Unfortunately, it is simply mainly a problem of when you are not a leader in a social context. you give more weight to it though

Any solution?

 

[NorwoodAscender]

i’m the same

 

[wsada]

i’m the same

Looks like this more common Dan I thought it's over

 

[Suns9999]

Every friend matters

 

[horsefacin]

That's normal I don't think anyone likes to be in group with more than 3 niggas even if they're close asf because they'll always be a mutual friend there you don't fw or you just don't wanna say the wrong thing or yap too much to make them think your a weirdo I guess.

100%, but imo you are focusing on the symptom and not the cause. i wouldn’t have any of these awkward situations among people i know if i looked better or they looked better, there would be far more respect all around. as gay as it sounds, the slippery slope of an oofy doofy marriage (wife slowly gets annoyed at everything you do) applies to friendships as well. i’ve found myself getting pissed at ugly friends subconsciously for things i let fly with everyone else, and apply myself to these same standards. i keep my head low when i know there’s a looks gap between me and someone else

 

[wsada]

100%, but imo you are focusing on the symptom and not the cause. i wouldn’t have any of these awkward situations among people i know if i looked better or they looked better, there would be far more respect all around. as gay as it sounds, the slippery slope of an oofy doofy marriage (wife slowly gets annoyed at everything you do) applies to friendships as well. i’ve found myself getting pissed at ugly friends subconsciously for things i let fly with everyone else, and apply myself to these same standards. i keep my head low when i know there’s a looks gap between me and someone else

I'm a strong chadlite this isn't related to looks

 

[horsefacin]

I'm a strong chadlite this isn't related to looks

good for you, but respectfully it might as well be. something as innate as being non NT since birth or having trauma from being ugly as a kid is something that sticks with you for life, just like your looks for the most part

 

[depressionmaxxing]

Muh become the alpha

 

[Nvero]

The more people I'm with the quieter I become

Like yesterday I was with 3 friends I was social and active and stuff

Now I'm with 4 and suddenly I'm very quiet n shit

And 5+ even if I know all of em I become a mathématicien

Honestly getting a retail job as a cashier helps with this

 

[wsada]

Honestly getting a retail job as a cashier helps with this

Im 11 I can't get a job

 

[Nvero]

Im 11 I can't get a job

Try to find social friends at schoo, it can help boost the confidence

 

[wsada]

Try to find social friends at schoo, it can help boost the confidence

Impossible

 

[Nvero]

Impossible

Remember it’s all confidence

 

[IAMNOTANINCEL]

Try to find social friends at schoo, it can help boost the confidence

making friends is impossible after childhood

 

[Nvero]

making friends is impossible after childhoo

making friends is impossible after childhood

If it helps make friends with co workers

 

[Samuel Jackson]

100%, but imo you are focusing on the symptom and not the cause. i wouldn’t have any of these awkward situations among people i know if i looked better or they looked better, there would be far more respect all around. as gay as it sounds, the slippery slope of an oofy doofy marriage (wife slowly gets annoyed at everything you do) applies to friendships as well. i’ve found myself getting pissed at ugly friends subconsciously for things i let fly with everyone else, and apply myself to these same standards. i keep my head low when i know there’s a looks gap between me and someone else

Yh that's called a social hierarchy the better looking and more nt you are in your friend group the more power you have over them sounds corny asf but you get what I mean "power imbalances" sub5s are at the bottom normies in the middle and chads at the top I've never seen a group leader who's sub5.