how do i friendmax

Nodesbitch

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i need irl friends but i don't know how as an ugly incel :Comfy:
 
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u dont need irl friends buddy boyo u have us
 
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we are autistic so its impossible, maybe try to find other autists and talk to them
 
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Slowly approach a guy and then tickle his knee.
 
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It’s hard but the formula is pretty simple:

Be a a regular at something and talk to people, take an interest in them and try to find common ground.

It’s much easier if you are still in education as you can talk to people in your classes, there are lots of clubs to join, and everyone is about the same age.

I guess this is reddit-tier advice but it’s true.

However, you do need to appear NT and not be super ugly if you want to befriend normies and not be forced to join the rejects.
 
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It’s hard but the formula is pretty simple:

Be a a regular at something and talk to people, take an interest in them and try to find common ground.

It’s much easier if you are still in education as you can talk to people in your classes, there are lots of clubs to join, and everyone is about the same age.

I guess this is reddit-tier advice but it’s true.

However, you do need to appear NT and not be super ugly if you want to befriend normies and not be forced to join the rejects.
do i just talk to them and say hey and stuff?? i'll try it out to this guy in the row infront of me :feelsautistic:
 
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do i just talk to them and say hey and stuff?? i'll try it out to this guy in the row infront of me :feelsautistic:
Yeah, obviously you need some kind of topic, ask if they’ve done the assignment or something. Shared suffering is great for bonding :lul:

After repeated interactions you can start asking shit like what they’re doing at the weekend and take an interest in them by asking questions about their hobbies and shit.

Admittedly it all takes practice for this stuff to feel natural. It is very autistic if you just spam questions or ask them something too personal too soon or in the wrong context.

Just observe the interactions of NT people I guess, but understand that most interactions you see are between people that already have familiarity.
 
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Yeah, obviously you need some kind of topic, ask if they’ve done the assignment or something. Shared suffering is great for bonding :lul:

After repeated interactions you can start asking shit like what they’re doing at the weekend and take an interest in them by asking questions about their hobbies and shit.

Admittedly it all takes practice for this stuff to feel natural. It is very autistic if you just spam questions or ask them something too personal too soon or in the wrong context.

Just observe the interactions of NT people I guess, but understand that most interactions you see are between people that already have familiarity.
i'm not in school.
 
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i'm not in school.
I made an assumption when you said guy in the row of front of you.

Still, whatever the context, the concept is the same. Start by making small talk about your work. Or if you’ve hardly seen them before and know nothing about them, you can introduce yourself and ask what they do, etc.
 
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I made an assumption when you said guy in the row of front of you.

Still, whatever the context, the concept is the same. Start by making small talk about your work. Or if you’ve hardly seen them before and know nothing about them, you can introduce yourself and ask what they do, etc.
i'm on public bus
 
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i'm on public bus
Oh right so this is a live event :lul:

You’re probably not gonna make a friend on the bus, but it can happen. It’s still good to talk to people in situations like that and if nothing else, you get practice. Maybe comment on the weather, ask if they’re going anywhere fun or something.
 
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Oh right so this is a live event :lul:

You’re probably not gonna make a friend on the bus, but it can happen. It’s still good to talk to people in situations like that and if nothing else, you get practice. Maybe comment on the weather, ask if they’re going anywhere fun or something.
i don't live in this country or continent, i'll use him as practice 😏👌🏻
 
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