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i need irl friends but i don't know how as an ugly incel
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i've befriended you in record timeu dont need irl friends buddy boyo u have us
do i just talk to them and say hey and stuff?? i'll try it out to this guy in the row infront of meIt’s hard but the formula is pretty simple:
Be a a regular at something and talk to people, take an interest in them and try to find common ground.
It’s much easier if you are still in education as you can talk to people in your classes, there are lots of clubs to join, and everyone is about the same age.
I guess this is reddit-tier advice but it’s true.
However, you do need to appear NT and not be super ugly if you want to befriend normies and not be forced to join the rejects.
Yeah, obviously you need some kind of topic, ask if they’ve done the assignment or something. Shared suffering is great for bondingdo i just talk to them and say hey and stuff?? i'll try it out to this guy in the row infront of me
i'm not in school.Yeah, obviously you need some kind of topic, ask if they’ve done the assignment or something. Shared suffering is great for bonding
After repeated interactions you can start asking shit like what they’re doing at the weekend and take an interest in them by asking questions about their hobbies and shit.
Admittedly it all takes practice for this stuff to feel natural. It is very autistic if you just spam questions or ask them something too personal too soon or in the wrong context.
Just observe the interactions of NT people I guess, but understand that most interactions you see are between people that already have familiarity.
I made an assumption when you said guy in the row of front of you.i'm not in school.
i'm on public busI made an assumption when you said guy in the row of front of you.
Still, whatever the context, the concept is the same. Start by making small talk about your work. Or if you’ve hardly seen them before and know nothing about them, you can introduce yourself and ask what they do, etc.
Oh right so this is a live eventi'm on public bus
i don't live in this country or continent, i'll use him as practiceOh right so this is a live event
You’re probably not gonna make a friend on the bus, but it can happen. It’s still good to talk to people in situations like that and if nothing else, you get practice. Maybe comment on the weather, ask if they’re going anywhere fun or something.