How do I get people to respect me irl?

[Deleted member 18012]

Serious question @TrestIsBest
I don't like the way people look at me or talk to me. why are 5'3 manlet cashiers and gym trainers rude to me?

 

[thecel]

just be 7 feet tall and yoked

 

[Deleted member 18012]

just be 7 feet tall and yoked

I need practical guidelines
gymcelling will take forever, do I have to roid now?

Ditch my glasses? Puff my chest out and speak in a deep voice and walk around like i own the place? Train my neck? Wear black leather jackets all the time?

It makes me pissed when people don't respect me, that's just me being narcy but still

 

[Deleted member 18012]

@FailedNormieManlet

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Just tell them not to show you sass

 

[Deleted member 18012]

Just tell them not to show you sass

"don't show me sass bro" just rolls right off the tongue

 

[Deleted member 15674]

"don't show me sass bro" just rolls right off the tongue

Just say “there’s no need to show sass, you just look immature”

 

[TrestIsBest]

Serious question @TrestIsBest
I don't like the way people look at me or talk to me. why are 5'3 manlet cashiers and gym trainers rude to me?

Not sure bro but I hate being disrespected too.

I think the key might be to be so obsessed and content with yourself that you mostly pick up the good reactions you get and ignore the negative feedback (ie being disrespected).

When I feel confident in how I look, that's exactly how my brain works, it tries to validate the belief that I look good. When I am down on myself/depressed/haven't showered and made my hair and aren't dressed well, my brain focuses mostly on supposedly negative feedback. So I think this is partly an issue of paying attention to the "wrong" thing which is connected to your self-worth/how you feel about yourself.

There obviously is an objective component to this as well, because me being confident is dependent on me liking how I look in the mirror before going out which in turn is correlated to how good I actually objectively look to other people and therefore the quality of reactions I receive from the people around me.

 

[Deleted member 17829]

Be as tall as possible

Put on as much weight and muscle as possible without looking like a giga bloat lord

Have visible tattoos

Dont have a prettyboy haircut

Dont smile