How do i get the loml back

[siamese]

I know this sounds pathetic but my life has been so dull since we stopped talking. We got into an argument 5 days ago because i thought she cheated on me — she kind of did, but thats besides the point. One of our mutual friends told me that she was talking to someone just before she hit me up again, and i gave her multiple chances for her to tell me about it without pressuring it out of her, but eventually i just had to ask her. She ended up saying that they did talk, but he ghosted her and so i was like “wtf so ur only talking to me again cause he ghosted u” and she denied denied denied of course. She ended up giving me some bullshit excuse that she was messaging me while talking to him but that just made me feel even more upset and played. I said some pretty nasty words to her and we haven’t spoken since then. I miss her so much and am unsure of where to go from here. I know this is cope but i actually think that she’s serious about me and talking to other guys for fun. Any suggestions are wanted

Edit: i accidentally skipped out on the parts where i was also chatting to some other people while we were in a rough patch, she also said that she was speaking to other guys because i was flirting with girls first, but she knows i just joke around like that and one of the “girls” i flirt with is literally non binary so i dont see the problem with that

 

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[uglybrownskinman]

dnrd

 

[eyes33]

dee en are

 

[soapbubble]

I know this sounds pathetic but my life has been so dull since we stopped talking. We got into an argument 5 days ago because i thought she cheated on me — she kind of did, but thats besides the point. One of our mutual friends told me that she was talking to someone just before she hit me up again, and i gave her multiple chances for her to tell me about it without pressuring it out of her, but eventually i just had to ask her. She ended up saying that they did talk, but he ghosted her and so i was like “wtf so ur only talking to me again cause he ghosted u” and she denied denied denied of course. She ended up giving me some bullshit excuse that she was messaging me while talking to him but that just made me feel even more upset and played. I said some pretty nasty words to her and we haven’t spoken since then. I miss her so much and am unsure of where to go from here. I know this is cope but i actually think that she’s serious about me and talking to other guys for fun. Any suggestions are wanted

so she cheated on you and you know she gave you bullshit excuses to cover up for it and you still want her back and think she’s the love of your life? cuck

 

[Sandriguez]

 

[siamese]

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Alright bruh

 

[vi24v_]

Any man that wants the foid that cheated on them back is a low t cuck

 

[pslvin]

ascend.

 

[siamese]

so she cheated on you and you know she gave you bullshit excuses to cover up for it and you still want her back and think she’s the love of your life? cuck

But she also put it ong, which i know she takes seriously, and in the time that she did “cuck” me, we were barely talking but it still felt intimate to me

 

[ZanderMaxxed]

I know this sounds pathetic but my life has been so dull since we stopped talking. We got into an argument 5 days ago because i thought she cheated on me — she kind of did, but thats besides the point. One of our mutual friends told me that she was talking to someone just before she hit me up again, and i gave her multiple chances for her to tell me about it without pressuring it out of her, but eventually i just had to ask her. She ended up saying that they did talk, but he ghosted her and so i was like “wtf so ur only talking to me again cause he ghosted u” and she denied denied denied of course. She ended up giving me some bullshit excuse that she was messaging me while talking to him but that just made me feel even more upset and played. I said some pretty nasty words to her and we haven’t spoken since then. I miss her so much and am unsure of where to go from here. I know this is cope but i actually think that she’s serious about me and talking to other guys for fun. Any suggestions are wanted

Just let her go bro, ive been in a similar situation that shits not worth it, she seems like a whore and u dont want that in the long run

 

[siamese]

Any man that wants the foid that cheated on them back is a low t cuck

Shes not just a foid

 

[siamese]

ascend.

Its over for me

 

[pslvin]

Its over for me

you accepting your fate isnt you trying to ascend

 

[siamese]

Just let her go bro, ive been in a similar situation that shits not worth it, she seems like a whore and u dont want that in the long run

Its so much easier said than done, were in a friend group together and i feel such immense sadness whenever i see that shes happy without me. Nobody sees me like she does

 

[siamese]

you accepting your fate isnt you trying to ascend

I must be realistic im so fucking chopped

 

[pslvin]

I must be realistic im so fucking chopped

show i’ll give you tips

 

[ZanderMaxxed]

Its so much easier said than done, were in a friend group together and i feel such immense sadness whenever i see that shes happy without me. Nobody sees me like she does

It doesnt sound like she sees u the way u think she sees u if shes happy without you, ik it sounds easier said than done but if u put ur feelings aside and think more logically about it then it will become extremely easy, do what u will im just saying this doesnt seem worth ur time or stress at all

 

[copemaxingll]

dee en are

 

[tyler1234]

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Bro joined 1 month ago and already 2500 posts

 

[browridge]

Its so much easier said than done, were in a friend group together and i feel such immense sadness whenever i see that shes happy without me. Nobody sees me like she does

not even tryna cope, youre young. she isnt the loyl, she isnt the mother of your kids. shes not the only girl thatll ever love you. be upset about it yes thats normal but dont try and fight for her. the love of your life wouldnt lie to you, cheat on you, or do some weird shit behind your back. youre young, someone will make you feel happier and 10x more loved. take time to come to terms with your emotion, give it a couple weeks and youll be back to normal.

 

[User28823]

sounds similar to when i broke up with my first gf....

lowkey wish i didnt so i would just text her n apologize n then get back together

n then if u ever find out she is cheating.. <redacted>

 

[siamese]

not even tryna cope, youre young. she isnt the loyl, she isnt the mother of your kids. shes not the only girl thatll ever love you. be upset about it yes thats normal but dont try and fight for her. the love of your life wouldnt lie to you, cheat on you, or do some weird shit behind your back. youre young, someone will make you feel happier and 10x more loved. take time to come to terms with your emotion, give it a couple weeks and youll be back to normal.

 

[siamese]

Thank you for writing this, but i have to say that i wasnt an angel in the relationship either. We argued, we made up, but this time we are cold turkey and i feel awful

 

[siamese]

sounds similar to when i broke up with my first gf....

lowkey wish i didnt so i would just text her n apologize n then get back together

n then if u ever find out she is cheating.. <redacted>

Tell me more about it

 

[User28823]

Tell me more about it

i too thought she was cheating / lied to me but she wasnt...

so i told the bitch to fuck off its over n then went to the skating rink and sent her pics of me making out with another foid

but now looking back she was wifey material / loyal..

 

[siamese]

i too thought she was cheating / lied to me but she wasnt...

so i told the bitch to fuck off its over n then went to the skating rink and sent her pics of me making out with another foid

but now looking back she was wifey material / loyal..

It be like that

 

[foidslayer84]

DNR + tuff avi might steal it

 

[foidslayer84]

read a little actually and noticed that you said that she cheated on you! Its already over bruh just let her go

 

[siamese]

read a little actually and noticed that you said that she cheated on you! Its already over bruh just let her go

But i cheated too

 

[foidslayer84]

i say you just find a new foid dude

 

[siamese]

i say you just find a new foid dude

Shes not just a foid

 

[Ascending2Tyrone]

sheesh I remember my first girl too man but this sounds like young dumb immature "love" it comes down to self respect at the end of the day I mean really think about it if that guy didnt ghost her do you think she would still be talking to you? Also you said you cheated on her aswell can you really call her the love of your life if you cheat on her? I feel like you would have the utmost loyalty for the love of your life but maybe thats just me. Yall both messed up and I know the attachment is strong af i've been there we all have but it doesn't sound like this could turn into anything healthy or anything long term then again the heart wants what it wants. Yall could both be mature and communicate and set boundaries trying to mend it if yall BOTH really wanted it to work. but she gave you cold turkey for 5 days it doesnt seem like shes mature or even ready to make it work and healthy. You're young asf you'll find other girls. you're free to do whatever you want but you cant be the only one to make the relationship want to work, it doesn't seem like she wants it as badly as you do.