HOW DO I HOMEWRECK A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP? (Manipulators/players GTFIH)

[yochico_yojordan]

So I've homewrecked 3 times, first time the girl i was interested in was in a long distance relationship, second time the relationship was already kinda bad and I spent more time with her than her bf due to our class schedule and extracurriculars, third time the girl I wanted had liked me before she got with her current bf and he was subhuman and their relationship sucked

With all 3 of them it was fairly easy to disrupt the relationship, because I was closer than the bf (whether due to distance, issues, or simply proximity)

BUT the girl I want now is in a relationship and they actually seem to be happy together. They spend a lot of time together, no issues from what I can see AND I don't have any classes with her, only have her added on snap. Not to mention, the bf is already sus of me I think and I haven't talked to her in so long we're barely even friends so it would probably be weird if I asked her to hang out or something

Advantages I do have: I am 3 inches taller, mog him a bit face wise, she had a big crush on me before she got with him and actually asked me out, her family likes me, I might be wealthy soon depending on how things go with a startup I'm in

Only plausible excuse to see her in person I can even think of is if I ask her bf (my friend) to go on a double date with me and I bring my ex, but I feel like it would be hard to make any moves in front of her boyfriend and my date (who is also my ex gf)

How do I handle this? Is it over?

I know you're reading this, lurkerfags reply

 

[green_fn_2033]

fake some screenshots or stage one of those swap phones loyalty tests

 

[yochico_yojordan]

fake some screenshots or stage one of those swap phones loyalty tests

Dude no if I make them swap phones he's gonna see I just added his girl on snap and that we've been talking behind his back through mutual friends

(before I readded her yesterday she would ask me for notes and stuff through a mutual friend, we had one class together last semester but it ended)

 

[yochico_yojordan]

Bump I really need help on this

 

[brutalist0]

honestly the family might be the best method in. Lowkey just show up to her house one day when you KNOW she isnt gonna be there, talk to the parents briefly be like “Hey I was hoping to talk to ___ about some homework (just larp something jfl).” the parents will tell her and she will start thinking of you more

 

[sofarsogood]

Do ruin relationships for ego? If she said she liked you why weren't you together?

 

[yochico_yojordan]

Do ruin relationships for ego? If she said she liked you why weren't you together?

Yes and I was dating a different girl at the time (the third girl I homewrecked)

 

[yochico_yojordan]

honestly the family might be the best method in. Lowkey just show up to her house one day when you KNOW she isnt gonna be there, talk to the parents briefly be like “Hey I was hoping to talk to ___ about some homework (just larp something jfl).” the parents will tell her and she will start thinking of you more

we're in college brah and i don't even know where she lives, she just told me her mom liked me (when we were in hs) and that she approved of me or smth and invited me over to meet her family for dinner (but I said no because my gf was crashing out)

 

[Daniel zacks]

In times of need always turn to ricin and cyanide. everyone needs a shoulder to cry on