how do i improve social skills

[Deleted member 120976]

im slightly above average and finally i had my growth spurt, im average height but im not finished growing. My problem is that i have no social skills i get nervous around girls, my brain is so fried that when a girl walks towards my direction to get past me i dont know where to look, i think about how am i walking, how do i look like and all stuff like that. And i never had a real conversation with a girl. Is there something i can do or anything i can take to fix this?

 

[JordanFagget271]

im slightly above average and finally i had my growth spurt, im average height but im not finished growing. My problem is that i have no social skills i get nervous around girls, my brain is so fried that when a girl walks towards my direction to get past me i dont know where to look, i think about how am i walking, how do i look like and all stuff like that. And i never had a real conversation with a girl. Is there something i can do or anything i can take to fix this?

first step is to get 500 posts and escape grey status and then talking to girls becomes easy

 

[Grievous]

first step is to get 500 posts and escape grey status and then talking to girls becomes easy

Friendly fire

 

[Deleted member 120976]

first step is to get 500 posts and escape grey status and then talking to girls becomes easy

i stay very little time on this forum. im on other forums since 2023 and have more posts than 500, its still considered grey but a little better

 

[dex0bp]

Reconnect with nature and go for walks, maybe watch some known high school tv show and try to copy how other guys move and act (optional but it worked for me)

 

[F4k3c3L]

im slightly above average and finally i had my growth spurt, im average height but im not finished growing. My problem is that i have no social skills i get nervous around girls, my brain is so fried that when a girl walks towards my direction to get past me i dont know where to look, i think about how am i walking, how do i look like and all stuff like that. And i never had a real conversation with a girl. Is there something i can do or anything i can take to fix this?

As an extrovert it’s often a subconscious battle because even I have social anxiety but I don’t let it bother me when I talk to girls or when they talk to me, if a situation comes up when your in conversation with a girl in a group just speak as if your speaking to anyone and try to speak to people who you know are social so it boosts your social skills

 

[JustPilled]

They can’t be learned it’s something you were born with, either you are nt or nd brain

 

[iBlameWilly]

Reconnect with nature and go for walks, maybe watch some known high school tv show and try to copy how other guys move and act (optional but it worked for me)

high school tv show and copying the retarded ass characters is not working for you bro

 

[iBlameWilly]

They can’t be learned it’s something you were born with, either you are nt or nd brain

tiktok knowledge

 

[Lefty Rankin]

im slightly above average and finally i had my growth spurt, im average height but im not finished growing. My problem is that i have no social skills i get nervous around girls, my brain is so fried that when a girl walks towards my direction to get past me i dont know where to look, i think about how am i walking, how do i look like and all stuff like that. And i never had a real conversation with a girl. Is there something i can do or anything i can take to fix this?

Shut up.

 

[LTNUser]

Reconnect with nature and go for walks, maybe watch some known high school tv show and try to copy how other guys move and act (optional but it worked for me)

Girls don't like talking with me and I realised this yesterday
So there's no point in socializing for girls

 

[Meteor21]

By socializing you idiot

 

[fishinthesee]

im slightly above average and finally i had my growth spurt, im average height but im not finished growing. My problem is that i have no social skills i get nervous around girls, my brain is so fried that when a girl walks towards my direction to get past me i dont know where to look, i think about how am i walking, how do i look like and all stuff like that. And i never had a real conversation with a girl. Is there something i can do or anything i can take to fix this?

Was in same situation as you bhai, semi late bloomer aswell

Considering you just had ur growth spurt ur probably like 15/16? at that age its the age where you should start to lock in socially, no stress tho bc its never too late to social skill maxx and ive seen other people irl and on this forum do that in the last months of even their senior year

The biggest regrets I have are not talking to people and women as much as I should have. When I was 15/16 I was doing way better socially after I ascended through puberty but Im an NDcel so I stopped trying to socialmaxx even more because it felt forced and I just stuck with what I was doing. I went to like 1 total party as a sophomore jfl. Missed out on so much, and my case is only a small extent of what people are missing out on.

Women are just real people, if it takes nofap to view them as normal to you (i did that for a while and it definitely helped confidence boosted) then do that, in highschool the reason most people are incels is usually their personality unironically, or just being shy to the extent they dont even talk to women and when they do theyre surprised when they get rejected.

Don't let this forum make it seem like foids standards for looks arent lowered in highschool. And their standards for personality are aswell, especially at that young of an age, your shyness wont be nearly as bad as you think, just act like a normal human being, and if it takes making "girl" friends to help you do this then do it. Do you think its easier for a woman to find you attractive before or after she is used to hundreds of men swiping right on her and calling her pretty as the amount of compliments and validation she has gotten acculumates. Its very easy actually and if you feel shy dont think its your fault its normal.

If you are really shy use snapchat or something and just quickadd the girls from ur school, im sure since ur on this forum u can text people decently, and then snap ur face or smth and just act normal have a normal conversation dont be weird too

Hope this helped

 

[RichardSpencel]

i stay very little time on this forum. im on other forums since 2023 and have more posts than 500, its still considered grey but a little better

Gonna have to change that if you want girls set buddyboyo