how do i numb my feelings for her and detach

[ceasar3x]

long story short

- she’s clearly not over her ex and i’m struggling to cope with that.

- she’s transparent about it but still claims she wants to be with me (not dating but talking romantically) what should i even do drop her i don’t want to as the chances of me getting another girl is highly slim especially a girl like this man

 

[ER1887]

long story short

- she’s clearly not over her ex and i’m struggling to cope with that.

- she’s transparent about it but still claims she wants to be with me (not dating but talking romantically) what should i even do drop her i don’t want to as the chances of me getting another girl is highly slim especially a girl like this man

 

[UrFavSub5]

cannibalize your neighbor

 

[ceasar3x]

cannibalize your neighbor

my neighbor daughter is a 5’10 german girl

 

[commander.is.ur.co]

long story short

- she’s clearly not over her ex and i’m struggling to cope with that.

- she’s transparent about it but still claims she wants to be with me (not dating but talking romantically) what should i even do drop her i don’t want to as the chances of me getting another girl is highly slim especially a girl like this man

Talk to her but don’t be exclusive, try subtly talking to more girls while keeping her. It’s not fair for you to be dedicated and for her to be rumbling about her ex.

 

[topology]

Talk to her but don’t be exclusive, try subtly talking to more girls while keeping her. It’s not fair for you to be dedicated and for her to be rumbling about her ex.

You're a moron. She's transparent about it all. What more do you want from her..? You would clearly see the warning signs before getting into the relationship. The guy has no right to speak to other girls.

 

[ceasar3x]

Talk to her but don’t be exclusive, try subtly talking to more girls while keeping her. It’s not fair for you to be dedicated and for her to be rumbling about her ex.

i do talk to her
she has him blocked and i check her phone but still
we used to talk earlier but she left me for her ex then left him for me i don’t know
i genuinely do feel like she cares for me and likes me but at the same time if he comes back im fucked
i cant talk to other women because im ugly an high inhib its a miracle i got a girl like her to even approach me

 

[alladinbvs]

dont get attached too quickly faggot

 

[ceasar3x]

You're a moron. She's transparent about it all. What more do you want from her..? You would clearly see the warning signs before getting into the relationship. The guy has no right to speak to other girls.

we are not in a official relationship although it practically is that
we both decided that it’s best if i just give her some time before making shit official and to decide if i want to commit
keep in mind im 15 and low T asf i clearly can’t think very logically without my emotions getting better of me

 

[commander.is.ur.co]

i do talk to her
she has him blocked and i check her phone but still
we used to talk earlier but she left me for her ex then left him for me i don’t know
i genuinely do feel like she cares for me and likes me but at the same time if he comes back im fucked
i cant talk to other women because im ugly an high inhib its a miracle i got a girl like her to even approach me

Ig then oneitis max, and take the risk

 

[ceasar3x]

dont get attached too quickly faggot

hard too when you’ve been an abused dog whole life
especially when it’s a pretty white passing MTB with a crazy body and nice personality (unlike other boring ratchet hoes)

 

[commander.is.ur.co]

You're a moron. She's transparent about it all. What more do you want from her..? You would clearly see the warning signs before getting into the relationship. The guy has no right to speak to other girls.

Damn bro what is this prey mentality. If a girl has another guy on her mind why would I be exclusive. Like “yes I want to be with you but btw I still like my ex”.

 

[topology]

Damn bro what is this prey mentality. If a girl has another guy on her mind why would I be exclusive. Like “yes I want to be with you but btw I still like my ex”.

It's called knowing what you're getting yourself into..? What a moronic comment. Break up if you wish, cheating is degenerate.

 

[cryptt]

Desperate faggot

 

[commander.is.ur.co]

i do talk to her
she has him blocked and i check her phone but still
we used to talk earlier but she left me for her ex then left him for me i don’t know
i genuinely do feel like she cares for me and likes me but at the same time if he comes back im fucked
i cant talk to other women because im ugly an high inhib its a miracle i got a girl like her to even approach me

It's called knowing what you're getting yourself into..? What a moronic comment. Break up if you wish, cheating is degenerate.

why tf would you get into something like that

 

[alladinbvs]

not dating but talking romantically

i notice she likes the attention while she looks for a guy

 

[ceasar3x]

Desperate faggot

unfortunately true
im a lonely 15 year old who hasnt experienced affection in forever

 

[cryptt]

unfortunately true
im a lonely 15 year old who hasnt experienced affection in forever

Drop her bruv you're gonna be exhausted

 

[ceasar3x]

i notice she likes the attention while she looks for a guy

i did obviously think this at first
but i don’t know if it’s this situation
i have been in this situation with the first girl i’ve been with but it doesn’t feel like that way at all
maybe i’m blinded and not thinking rationally
would the best method to be to just cut my losses and drop her?

 

[ceasar3x]

Drop her bruv you're gonna be exhausted

do you think the feeling of exhaustion is worse than the loneliness

 

[trueagarthanwarrior]

long story short

- she’s clearly not over her ex and i’m struggling to cope with that.

- she’s transparent about it but still claims she wants to be with me (not dating but talking romantically) what should i even do drop her i don’t want to as the chances of me getting another girl is highly slim especially a girl like this man

Bro it’s so not worth it to chase a girl that’s not over her ex, you’ll just end up hating yourself. It might be a while to find another girl but it’ll be much better for yourself

 

[alladinbvs]

i did obviously think this at first
but i don’t know if it’s this situation
i have been in this situation with the first girl i’ve been with but it doesn’t feel like that way at all
maybe i’m blinded and not thinking rationally
would the best method to be to just cut my losses and drop her?

yes cut your losses and try to stop the romantic shit and investing emotionnally, and then see if she's willing, i don't know ur stats but look around you for more options

 

[ceasar3x]

Bro it’s so not worth it to chase a girl that’s not over her ex, you’ll just end up hating yourself. It might be a while to find another girl but it’ll be much better for yourself

if the pattern continues with the last 2 girls i’ve talked too it takes me
6-9 months for a girl too approach me

 

[topology]

why tf would you get into something like that

she’s transparent about it

i did obviously think this at first

He had many red flags.. He's just an idiot. Did you not read anything he posted..?

 

[trueagarthanwarrior]

if the pattern continues with the last 2 girls i’ve talked too it takes me
6-9 months for a girl too approach me

Worth it to take time for yourself and practice approaching girls than chasing some bummy girl that’s doesn’t want you

 

[cryptt]

do you think the feeling of exhaustion is worse than the loneliness

Exhaustion imo you'll regret it too eventually

 

[ceasar3x]

Worth it to take time for yourself and practice approaching girls than chasing some bummy girl that’s doesn’t want you

to be honest that’s the thing
i do believe she likes me
a very good sign is she a very sexual with me and we share a lot of interests
it’s not just one sided attention and validation from my end

 

[sm2j]

long story short

- she’s clearly not over her ex and i’m struggling to cope with that.

- she’s transparent about it but still claims she wants to be with me (not dating but talking romantically) what should i even do drop her i don’t want to as the chances of me getting another girl is highly slim especially a girl like this man

if shes a good enough girl that you dont want to ruin the friendship that you guys have I would just leave it how it is because if she is still attached to her ex there is 0 point in even talking to her romantically bc that wont benefit your mental at all

 

[trueagarthanwarrior]

to be honest that’s the thing
i do believe she likes me
a very good sign is she a very sexual with me and we share a lot of interests
it’s not just one sided attention and validation from my end

Ever considered that she’s manipulating you or using you? You’re thinking exactly what she wants you to think. Do what you want man but really think about it

 

[ceasar3x]

Ever considered that she’s manipulating you or using you? You’re thinking exactly what she wants you to think. Do what you want man but really think about it

yes i consider everything
its a small possibility i believe it would be very hard to fake a connection like that but honestly could be because im ugly the only thing i have going for me is niche appeal ig and a decent personality tbh

 

[trueagarthanwarrior]

yes i consider everything
its a small possibility i believe it would be very hard to fake a connection like that but honestly could be because im ugly the only thing i have going for me is niche appeal ig and a decent personality tbh

Yeah archetypes and personality are really good for specific types of girls all though it is a little cope. If u keep that same archetype you’ll attract that same kind of girl but if you really like that girl honestly in my opinion just leave it alone and give it time, maybe come back to it in a few months and see how she’s doing

 

[commander.is.ur.co]

He had many red flags.. He's just an idiot. Did you not read anything he posted..?

Lower your attitude lil bitch, I am just saying this guy should stop being so desperate and drop her.

 

[topology]

Lower your attitude lil bitch, I am just saying this guy should stop being so desperate and drop her.

You stated he should cheat on her..? I am the one stating he should leave her. Get a grip.

 

[commander.is.ur.co]

how is he cheating, he literally said romantic but not dating. It means the bitch jus don’t want to commit rn and this mfer drooling over her. Why wouldn’t you want to have other options in case things go south

 

[ceasar3x]

how is he cheating, he literally said romantic but not dating. It means the bitch jus don’t want to commit rn and this mfer drooling over her. Why wouldn’t you want to have other options in case things go south

i wouldn’t say i’m drooling over her
the affection is mutual
she is very sexual with me im not sure i would want to risk having other options or that i even could lol im too high inhibition and im short

 

[commander.is.ur.co]

i wouldn’t say i’m drooling over her
the affection is mutual
she is very sexual with me im not sure i would want to risk having other options or that i even could lol im too high inhibition and im short

Aight bro than why you tryna detach and numb if you think she gen the best you can have

 

[clavicular2.0]

long story short

- she’s clearly not over her ex and i’m struggling to cope with that.

- she’s transparent about it but still claims she wants to be with me (not dating but talking romantically) what should i even do drop her i don’t want to as the chances of me getting another girl is highly slim especially a girl like this man

cut her off man she is using you as a placeholder while she waits for him to come back

 

[jdksjfejwlek]

you are lowkey just jester for her

 

[Ihatemylooks12]

long story short

- she’s clearly not over her ex and i’m struggling to cope with that.

- she’s transparent about it but still claims she wants to be with me (not dating but talking romantically) what should i even do drop her i don’t want to as the chances of me getting another girl is highly slim especially a girl like this man

I might sound clingy but don't get attached to something you aren't willing to walk away from in 20 minutes bhai

 

[kisslessvirgin]

move on. imagine getting chad treat from a different sloot

 

[ceasar3x]

thanks for the advice guys
i knew what i needed to do but i just needed other people to convince me
girls really are all the same man