How do people have such huge friend groups?

[Vermilioncore]

I was on IG and this dude from this small band literally has a friend in almost every state. And everyone seems connected. Each friend of his happens to be friends with someone else who follows him and so on.

But I have no social circle whatsoever. Literally my phone contacts are: mom, dad, siblings, gf, gf’s siblings, my boss…

That’s literally my entire circle. The only people I speak to. The only people who even know I exist,

 

[zharupodrugu]

idk how it works, they just talk to me and become part of my circle eventually.
Let me guess - High inhibition, permarotter, avoid social events. If u are not making first move and sitting on ass all day no one gonna come to u.

 

[Suimaxxer]

idk how it works, they just talk to me and become part of my circle eventually.
Let me guess - High inhibition, permarotter, avoid social events. If u are not making first move and sitting on ass all day no one gonna come to u.

I tried making first move many times, i am nt too, didnt manage to keep contact with anyone for more than a week

 

[Vermilioncore]

idk how it works, they just talk to me and become part of my circle eventually.
Let me guess - High inhibition, permarotter, avoid social events. If u are not making first move and sitting on ass all day no one gonna come to u.

I have nothing in common with most people. They all see me as a weirdo

 

[badamj]

Probs just goes to a lot of social events every day

I can’t do that stuff, tried it for a bit but I got mentally exhausted

 

[zharupodrugu]

I tried making first move many times, i am nt too, didnt manage to keep contact with anyone for more than a week

that depends not all people gonna like u. Good way to make friends is to join some interest clubs. I go to airsoft, very fun and socializing.
Mafia and poker clubs are good too. Depends on what u like. The best way to find friends besides college, school environment.

Okay, its pile of bull crap. I dont know how to make friends and circles. Its just im lucky that my giga nt friends carrying me around. Once i move to Canada it will be over for my lonely-introvert ass.

 

[fukmylyf]

a big part of it is starting early, like building a network from high school. It's a lot like investing tbh. It has a compounding effect and becomes self-sustaining once you reach a certain level of popularity (x amount of followers). But the other side is just socializing with as many people as possible.

 

[Deleted member 24940]

You can make one yourself, most people are lonely especially in big cities so if you become group leader and organize shit like outings and events they will follow.

Just make sure it it's 90% female and the few men you recruit into the group are ugly or manlets so they don't steal all the women.

 

[Vermilioncore]

You can make one yourself, most people are lonely especially in big cities so if you become group leader and organize shit like outings and events they will follow.

Just make sure it it's 90% female and the few men you recruit into the group are ugly or manlets so they don't steal all the women.

Unironically I always got along with women more than men. Women were always more understanding, nurturing, and kind to me. They never treated me like shit

 

[Deleted member 24940]

Unironically I always got along with women more than men. Women were always more understanding, nurturing, and kind to me. They never treated me like shit

Befriend some then and run social circle game. The biggest slayers in highschool were always those guys who snuck their way into an all-female friend group and fucked them all.