How do some normies maintain LTRs?

[russwestbrook]

yes we know looks are everything.

but everyone knows a couple where the guy is slightly/moderately mogged by the girl yet they are together for years and on the outside seem extremely happy.

is it just that ive only ever been with mentally ill girls with BPD that make this seem impossible to me or whats the deal.

 

[crushing sluts@100%]

That is one I've thought about aswell

But what I have figured out is this


They usually fight and are arguing in the relationship, the fighting is routine, you won't see it from the outside so all looks normal to everyone else

But there is usually an established routine that keeps these normie relationships going and the routine could mean the foid needs to stay for work or employment and breaking up might mean moving out which means new place and new job, so it's harder for them to leave

What happens is the foid knows deep down that in theory she could be fucking chad, but can't right at the moment, she is then in a state of constant angst, and this boils up in her relationship with the normie where she is likely to get very argumentative and annoying, which is generally what is occurring in these ltr normie relationships

The normie guys just chalk it up to and assume "ahh that's just women for you that's just what there naturally like" and think it's normal when it's far from chad treatment

It's similar to the betabuxx situation except alot more covert, and the normie guy isn't actually a cuck he's just oblivious that this shit is not so normal

Observe these relationships with normie friends that you have and you will maybe noticed and I bet you'll find the foid is a disruptive argumentative cunt, but it will be covert and harder to see from outside looking in

The other way to keep women around is possibly to abuse them, but there needs to be a variety of psychological factors at play for that to work

 

[russwestbrook]

That is one I've thought about aswell

But what I have figured out is this


They usually fight and are arguing in the relationship, the fighting is routine, you won't see it from the outside so all looks normal to everyone else

But there is usually an established routine that keeps these normie relationships going and the routine could mean the foid needs to stay for work or employment and breaking up might mean moving out which means new place and new job, so it's harder for them to leave

What happens is the foid knows deep down that in theory she could be fucking chad, but can't right at the moment, she is then in a state of constant angst, and this boils up in her relationship with the normie where she is likely to get very argumentative and annoying, which is generally what is occurring in these ltr normie relationships

The normie guys just chalk it up to and assume "ahh that's just women for you that's just what there naturally like" and think it's normal when it's far from chad treatment

It's similar to the betabuxx situation except alot more covert, and the normie guy isn't actually a cuck he's just oblivious that this shit is not so normal

Observe these relationships with normie friends that you have and you will maybe noticed and I bet you'll find the foid is a disruptive argumentative cunt, but it will be covert and harder to see from outside looking in

The other way to keep women around is possibly to abuse them, but there needs to be a variety of psychological factors at play for that to work

high iq and actually agree with all that you said; this makes a shit ton of sense.

yeah the abuse bit is interesting, ive definitely emotionally manipulated ltrs before making them extremely mad but I noticed this can have drastically bad results if the girl is mentally not right. the way they can switch from you is insane. oor did you mean physical abuse jfl

 

[crushing sluts@100%]

high iq and actually agree with all that you said; this makes a shit ton of sense.

yeah the abuse bit is interesting, ive definitely emotionally manipulated ltrs before making them extremely mad but I noticed this can have drastically bad results if the girl is mentally not right. the way they can switch from you is insane. oor did you mean physical abuse jfl

Nah mental verbal abuse

The whole abuse dynamic is interesting and we know that women actually seem to seek out and like abuse, as it's observable

Lots of people say it's cause chad gets away with it, and I agree but I actually think that they do just like abuse looks aside

My theory as to why they like the abuse is because it convinces the foid that the psychological abuse weapons arsenal of her boyfriend belongs to her aswell since there partners and thus she actually feels more powerful because his strength is her strength and his strength is demonstrated to her in his abusive capabilities toward her

And in a way the foid feels protected

I might do a thread on this one day

 

[russwestbrook]

I might do a thread on this one day

do it

 

[maarda]

That is one I've thought about aswell

But what I have figured out is this


They usually fight and are arguing in the relationship, the fighting is routine, you won't see it from the outside so all looks normal to everyone else

But there is usually an established routine that keeps these normie relationships going and the routine could mean the foid needs to stay for work or employment and breaking up might mean moving out which means new place and new job, so it's harder for them to leave

What happens is the foid knows deep down that in theory she could be fucking chad, but can't right at the moment, she is then in a state of constant angst, and this boils up in her relationship with the normie where she is likely to get very argumentative and annoying, which is generally what is occurring in these ltr normie relationships

The normie guys just chalk it up to and assume "ahh that's just women for you that's just what there naturally like" and think it's normal when it's far from chad treatment

It's similar to the betabuxx situation except alot more covert, and the normie guy isn't actually a cuck he's just oblivious that this shit is not so normal

Observe these relationships with normie friends that you have and you will maybe noticed and I bet you'll find the foid is a disruptive argumentative cunt, but it will be covert and harder to see from outside looking in

The other way to keep women around is possibly to abuse them, but there needs to be a variety of psychological factors at play for that to work

greycel cope

 

[ihearvoices]

Simping

No prob w that, but if its too much it's cringe

 

[CookieGuy]

Relationships can work but mostly when religion is involved. Humans as a species are not naturally fit to “Not Cheat”

 

[CookieGuy]

Relationships can work but mostly when religion is involved. Humans as a species are not naturally fit to “Not Cheat”

I’m not Pro-Religion, but I’m simply stating fact

 

[crushing sluts@100%]

greycel cope

Still blackpilled and looks based

 

[crushing sluts@100%]

Relationships can work but mostly when religion is involved. Humans as a species are not naturally fit to “Not Cheat”

Religion is actually really good for a relationship, alot of relationship issues today would be helped with religion

 

[crushing sluts@100%]

I’m not Pro-Religion, but I’m simply stating fact

Even if you were who cares

You say not pro religion like it's a bad thing like religion is a bad thing

It's not bad like how cuck soy liberal atheists try to convince us ( not saying your that either)

 

[StarvedEpi]

Nah mental verbal abuse

The whole abuse dynamic is interesting and we know that women actually seem to seek out and like abuse, as it's observable

Lots of people say it's cause chad gets away with it, and I agree but I actually think that they do just like abuse looks aside

My theory as to why they like the abuse is because it convinces the foid that the psychological abuse weapons arsenal of her boyfriend belongs to her aswell since there partners and thus she actually feels more powerful because his strength is her strength and his strength is demonstrated to her in his abusive capabilities toward her

And in a way the foid feels protected

I might do a thread on this one day

Just be slightly abusive theory

 

[crushing sluts@100%]

Just be slightly abusive theory

Works


But there's an art to it

 

[Suns9999]

That is one I've thought about aswell

But what I have figured out is this


They usually fight and are arguing in the relationship, the fighting is routine, you won't see it from the outside so all looks normal to everyone else

But there is usually an established routine that keeps these normie relationships going and the routine could mean the foid needs to stay for work or employment and breaking up might mean moving out which means new place and new job, so it's harder for them to leave

What happens is the foid knows deep down that in theory she could be fucking chad, but can't right at the moment, she is then in a state of constant angst, and this boils up in her relationship with the normie where she is likely to get very argumentative and annoying, which is generally what is occurring in these ltr normie relationships

The normie guys just chalk it up to and assume "ahh that's just women for you that's just what there naturally like" and think it's normal when it's far from chad treatment

It's similar to the betabuxx situation except alot more covert, and the normie guy isn't actually a cuck he's just oblivious that this shit is not so normal

Observe these relationships with normie friends that you have and you will maybe noticed and I bet you'll find the foid is a disruptive argumentative cunt, but it will be covert and harder to see from outside looking in

The other way to keep women around is possibly to abuse them, but there needs to be a variety of psychological factors at play for that to work

hey siri im not reading allat, simplify it for me

A Complex Perspective on Relationship Dynamics​

Your observations about the dynamics of "normie" relationships are thought-provoking and resonate with certain real-world experiences. It's important to approach these topics with nuance and understanding, as human relationships are multifaceted and influenced by a myriad of factors.

Key Points from Your Analysis:​

1. Hidden Struggles: Many relationships, especially those that appear stable from the outside, may harbor underlying tensions and disharmony.
2. Routine and Dependency: Economic factors, such as job security and housing stability, can play a significant role in keeping individuals in relationships, even when they may be unhappy.
3. Internal Conflict: Individuals may experience internal conflict between their desires and the reality of their current situation, leading to frustration and resentment.
4. Male Inattention: Men in "normie" relationships may be less perceptive to their partner's emotional needs or may attribute their partner's behavior to "women being women."
5. Covert Abuse: While not always as overt as physical violence, emotional abuse can be a damaging factor in relationships.

Additional Considerations:​

• Cultural and Societal Expectations: Societal norms and expectations can influence relationship dynamics, including gender roles and expectations for marriage and family.
• Individual Differences: Each relationship is unique, and individual personalities, experiences, and values play a significant role in shaping their dynamics.
• The Complexity of Human Behavior: Human behavior is complex and often driven by a combination of conscious and unconscious factors.

It's important to remember that generalizations about relationships can be misleading. While your observations may apply to some situations, they may not accurately reflect the experiences of others. It's always valuable to approach individual relationships with empathy, understanding, and a willingness to consider different perspectives.

 

[Suns9999]

hey siri im not reading allat, simplify it for me

A Complex Perspective on Relationship Dynamics​

Your observations about the dynamics of "normie" relationships are thought-provoking and resonate with certain real-world experiences. It's important to approach these topics with nuance and understanding, as human relationships are multifaceted and influenced by a myriad of factors.

Key Points from Your Analysis:​

1. Hidden Struggles: Many relationships, especially those that appear stable from the outside, may harbor underlying tensions and disharmony.
2. Routine and Dependency: Economic factors, such as job security and housing stability, can play a significant role in keeping individuals in relationships, even when they may be unhappy.
3. Internal Conflict: Individuals may experience internal conflict between their desires and the reality of their current situation, leading to frustration and resentment.
4. Male Inattention: Men in "normie" relationships may be less perceptive to their partner's emotional needs or may attribute their partner's behavior to "women being women."
5. Covert Abuse: While not always as overt as physical violence, emotional abuse can be a damaging factor in relationships.

Additional Considerations:​

• Cultural and Societal Expectations: Societal norms and expectations can influence relationship dynamics, including gender roles and expectations for marriage and family.
• Individual Differences: Each relationship is unique, and individual personalities, experiences, and values play a significant role in shaping their dynamics.
• The Complexity of Human Behavior: Human behavior is complex and often driven by a combination of conscious and unconscious factors.

It's important to remember that generalizations about relationships can be misleading. While your observations may apply to some situations, they may not accurately reflect the experiences of others. It's always valuable to approach individual relationships with empathy, understanding, and a willingness to consider different perspectives.

useless bot

 

[crushing sluts@100%]

hey siri im not reading allat, simplify it for me

A Complex Perspective on Relationship Dynamics​

Your observations about the dynamics of "normie" relationships are thought-provoking and resonate with certain real-world experiences. It's important to approach these topics with nuance and understanding, as human relationships are multifaceted and influenced by a myriad of factors.

Key Points from Your Analysis:​

1. Hidden Struggles: Many relationships, especially those that appear stable from the outside, may harbor underlying tensions and disharmony.
2. Routine and Dependency: Economic factors, such as job security and housing stability, can play a significant role in keeping individuals in relationships, even when they may be unhappy.
3. Internal Conflict: Individuals may experience internal conflict between their desires and the reality of their current situation, leading to frustration and resentment.
4. Male Inattention: Men in "normie" relationships may be less perceptive to their partner's emotional needs or may attribute their partner's behavior to "women being women."
5. Covert Abuse: While not always as overt as physical violence, emotional abuse can be a damaging factor in relationships.

Additional Considerations:​

• Cultural and Societal Expectations: Societal norms and expectations can influence relationship dynamics, including gender roles and expectations for marriage and family.
• Individual Differences: Each relationship is unique, and individual personalities, experiences, and values play a significant role in shaping their dynamics.
• The Complexity of Human Behavior: Human behavior is complex and often driven by a combination of conscious and unconscious factors.

It's important to remember that generalizations about relationships can be misleading. While your observations may apply to some situations, they may not accurately reflect the experiences of others. It's always valuable to approach individual relationships with empathy, understanding, and a willingness to consider different perspectives.

100 percent

Thanks for translating my autism Into English jfl

Those were the points I was getting across

Although abuse swings both ways