Parminder Singh
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Social Context:
It is first of all important to understand the social dynamics of India, which I wrote about in-depth in this post: https://looksmax.org/threads/an-in-depth-look-at-the-dating-culture-of-india.1674957/
But long story short, India is a conservative, patriarchal, low-trust society where women are not that safe. Excluding metro cities, approaching women directly, PDA, and asking for a girl’s number are completely forbidden. Alpha behavior is mostly ineffective and men seduce women by slowly winning their trust. Pre-marital sex is rare bcuz most people live with their parents. Women’s sexuality isn’t openly discussed. You have a small window to date (from school to college) before you are arranged to get married.
The Approach:
That’s it.
It is first of all important to understand the social dynamics of India, which I wrote about in-depth in this post: https://looksmax.org/threads/an-in-depth-look-at-the-dating-culture-of-india.1674957/
But long story short, India is a conservative, patriarchal, low-trust society where women are not that safe. Excluding metro cities, approaching women directly, PDA, and asking for a girl’s number are completely forbidden. Alpha behavior is mostly ineffective and men seduce women by slowly winning their trust. Pre-marital sex is rare bcuz most people live with their parents. Women’s sexuality isn’t openly discussed. You have a small window to date (from school to college) before you are arranged to get married.
The Approach:
- Since improving one’s looks is considered a woman’s concern in India, you just have to be well groomed and have basic fashion sense to be a suitable match for a chick. Habits like getting a haircut and beard trim every two weeks, dressing in well fitting and trendy clothes, wearing perfume, trimming your nails, wearing basic accessories like a watch or bracelet or a ring, having clean skin and teeth, and wearing a half-sleeve undershirt so your sweat does not show on your clothes (India is humid), are enough. Being a clean MTN is fire in India.
- Genetically, you have to be at least 5 ’9 and above to be attractive. Even 5 '7 would do in some states where people are short (observe the average height in your area).
- You NEED social skills. Learn the social norms of your area and act accordingly. Make friends (men and women), practice small talk, spend time with people instead of yourself, build a reputation for at least being chill if not friendly, and try to be firm not dominant. This way you can meet and befriend women and being well known in your circle in a positive way makes you safe to women (remember women are not safe in India). If you are distant or awkward, you’d remain single. Don’t be an asshole.
- Choose friends who are friends with girls or have girlfriends. They’d introduce you to girls, chicks will trust you since they already trust them. Absolutely be friendly to those who are friendly with everyone, they’d ruin your reputation. Be aware of gossip, try to put an end to bad rumours about you by firmly and politely confronting people. Gossip is a major cockblocker in low trust societies like India.
- Attend your college or school regularly. Nothing would help you if you don’t show up. Girls will end up with someone else.
- Less important but build a decent Instagram profile. Take good photos, learn to pose and edit, go to places or for fun times (Starbucks, cafes, night outs, etc). Show personality somehow. The goal is to show that you are social, have a life, and can afford to take a girl out on a date. Have at least 150 followers.
- Most importantly, learn to talk to women. Your friends with girlfriends will help you. Respect women, be a little cringe about love, learn to read cues, and how to text. Your grooming and reputation can carry you but at least learn some game. It would not matter even if you have the prettiest cock, your cock will remain unused if you don’t improve in this department.
- It is very rare for women to approach guys but it can happen. If it happens to you even if you don’t follow the above points properly, that is a major sign. Follow the above steps and become Chad.
That’s it.
