How do you ask people in person to rate you/assess your face?

[FrothySolutions]

Suppose I wanted to ask a woman if she thought my jaw was recessed. How my forward growth was and stuff. How would I do that?

Because putting people on the spot, few people want to be mean on the spot. So they'll likely say whatever they think I wanna hear. So that I leave them alone. How do I get honest answers from people?

Because I have to suspect, even on the Internet, people are trying to be nice when they can. Especially women if EyeMe is any metric. They'll see a guy who is obviously putting in effort, and though she might not fuck him she'll tell herself "Well I have to appreciate that he takes care of himself. High rating."

How do I learn the truth about myself?

 

[khvirgin]

you learn the truth like anybody else: by asking a bunch of autistic incels on an obscure forum

 

[Dusty]

you dont because it makes you look extremely insecure

 

[Sens]

ask aspies here, women don't know shit and would tell that you are fine

 

[FrothySolutions]

ask aspies here, women don't know shit and would tell that you are fine

Don't they know when they find a man attractive? I understand knowing but lying, but if lookism is true you don't have to know WHY a person is attractive, you'll be attracted to them regardless.

you learn the truth like anybody else: by asking a bunch of autistic incels on an obscure forum

No one here can see my face.

 

[Anomaly]

God I wish I knew someone from this forum irl. Hardcore autistic and honest to the bone. But we need to accept it's never going to happen.

 

[Deleted member 16552]

Men will never truly know what women think of their appearance because if a woman likes you romantically you will automatically become more attractive to her. And most "female friends" won't hurt your feelings because if you have to ask if you're attractive, you're probably not.

However I know females who think Seth Rogan is hot so there's a lid for every pot. Probably because he's funny and famous.

 

[darkness97]

the only person you can really ask is a doctor. other than that, people will never tell you the truth. they don't want to hurt your feelings and also have no idea what you're going to do after you tell them. they will never tell you honestly.

 

[Deleted member 16552]

No one is going to be honest.

If a heavy or fat woman you liked as a person asked if you thought they looked ok , you're not going to be like "no you're fat and gross"