How do you casually fuck / fwb chicks without getting them pissed / wanting a relationship

[Mill]

any strats for this? just lookin for ideas. It seems like alot of women feel like they are getting "played" if you want to fuck but aren't interested in settling down with them.

I feel like one interesting way to do this is to basically make her not want to be in a real relationship with you, through methods such as: making her think you don't have a lot of money, make her think you have a drug/alcohol/gambling problem or something of that nature. This way you get it in her mind that she doesn't want to actually settle down with you, and she basically does the work for you. It's like reverse psychology essentially

What are your guys ideas?

 

[LiteralCaucasian]

M8 you're on Looksmax.org, people here don't go outside and definitely don't touch grass and especially women

 

[Mill]

M8 you're on Looksmax.org, people here don't go outside and definitely don't touch grass and especially women

That's perfect man, they should know exactly what kind of stuff would make a woman not want to be in a relationship with you.

 

[Artemis]

any strats for this? just lookin for ideas. It seems like alot of women feel like they are getting "played" if you want to fuck but aren't interested in settling down with them.

I feel like one interesting way to do this is to basically make her not want to be in a real relationship with you, through methods such as: making her think you don't have a lot of money, make her think you have a drug/alcohol/gambling problem or something of that nature. This way you get it in her mind that she doesn't want to actually settle down with you, and she basically does the work for you. It's like reverse psychology essentially

What are your guys ideas?

It is because FWB does not really exist. It is a LEGEND.

There are 3 types of this arrangement:

1) Guy and girl meet once in half a year, when she wants to fuck, but has no one else atm. She gives him a call as last option. Happens RARELY. This FwB is NOT really friends, and the benefits are rare and shit. You can call it like that, but it is NOT.

2) Regular sex BUT, the catch is that you NEVER tell the woman she is disposable. So SHE thinks it is going to a relationship eventually. SHe MIGHT suspect you are not reliable, but she does not question you. TRY TELLING HER you are FWB and she has NO CHANCE. I promise you, even the hoest of hoes will tell you go fuck yourself instead of "official fwb".

3) ALl types of cheating wives/girlfriends. Their partner does not satisfy them, and they cannot use Tinder for quick fucks, because it is too obvious. They need DESCRETENESS, so that her husband NEVER KNOWS. THe best option for this is FwB with some guy.

If you want a good FwB you HAVE to go for option 3. Because the other 2 arrangements are FwB only in name tbh.

 

[Cigarette]

M8 you're on Looksmax.org, people here don't go outside and definitely don't touch grass and especially women

welcome home

 

[Mill]

It is because FWB does not really exist. It is a LEGEND.

There are 3 types of this arrangement:

1) Guy and girl meet once in half a year, when she wants to fuck, but has no one else atm. She gives him a call as last option. Happens RARELY. This FwB is NOT really friends, and the benefits are rare and shit. You can call it like that, but it is NOT.

2) Regular sex BUT, the catch is that you NEVER tell the woman she is disposable. So SHE thinks it is going to a relationship eventually. SHe MIGHT suspect you are not reliable, but she does not question you. TRY TELLING HER you are FWB and she has NO CHANCE. I promise you, even the hoest of hoes will tell you go fuck yourself instead of "official fwb".

3) ALl types of cheating wives/girlfriends. Their partner does not satisfy them, and they cannot use Tinder for quick fucks, because it is too obvious. They need DESCRETENESS, so that her husband NEVER KNOWS. THe best option for this is FwB with some guy.

If you want a good FwB you HAVE to go for option 3. Because the other 2 arrangements are FwB only in name tbh.

ok so if i'm going for #2 I would basically have to lead her on in your opinion? What's a scenario in which we have a casual relationship for 1-2 years and then we separate without her being pissed off and feeling like I used her for sex? Also, how would I respond when she asks where i see the relationship going and stuff like that

 

[zharupodrugu]

It is because FWB does not really exist. It is a LEGEND.

fwb dont exist for u

any strats for this? just lookin for ideas. It seems like alot of women feel like they are getting "played" if you want to fuck but aren't interested in settling down with them.

I feel like one interesting way to do this is to basically make her not want to be in a real relationship with you, through methods such as: making her think you don't have a lot of money, make her think you have a drug/alcohol/gambling problem or something of that nature. This way you get it in her mind that she doesn't want to actually settle down with you, and she basically does the work for you. It's like reverse psychology essentially

What are your guys ideas?

just looksmax as hard as u can. U will reach this level eventually if u have good base

 

[Artemis]

fwb dont exist for u

Ok chief

 

[szolliontaraelis]

I matched with an alt girl on tinder and drank four beers with her last week. She asked me to come to her house to explain calculus to her jfl.

FIND AN ALT GIRL THEY ARE CRAZY

 

[Mill]

I matched with an alt girl on tinder and drank four beers with her last week. She asked me to come to her house to explain calculus to her jfl.

FIND AN ALT GIRL THEY ARE CRAZY

are u gonna just ghost her now or where does it go from here

 

[Deleted member 19036]

act scared and neurotic. girl will intantly get turned off from you

 

[Mill]

act scared and neurotic. girl will intantly get turned off from you

im down lol, but i dont want her callin the police or something

 

[szolliontaraelis]

are u gonna just ghost her now or where does it go from here

Idk. I’ll go to her and if she makes it obvious I’ll make a move. Otherwise she is not boring. I can stay normal friends with her and not be fwb.

 

[Deleted member 19036]

im down lol, but i dont want her callin the police or something

kys faggot. even an autist knows what to do

 

[Mill]

kys faggot. even an autist knows what to do

What if i get someone to stage an arrest on me, or act like they are the irs and im deep into tax fraud

 

[Deleted member 19036]

What if i get someone to stage an arrest on me, or act like they are the irs and im deep into tax fraud

what the fuck are you saying man? Are you schizo or sumn? Turn back to reality. Just act like a high inhib autsitst and shell leave you

 

[Incel Afterlife]

Usually my personality is so awful they don't even want ANYTHING to do with me. I remember I had a girl who I was fucking on and off for a couple of months, wound up pregnant and she was confused who the father was. I might have went too far in demanding an abortion. Last I recall she was sticking her finger up at me at the supermarket and had the kid (6 or 7 years old now I guess) and hasn 't pursued any of the potential fathers for money. It looks like me.

 

[Mill]

what the fuck are you saying man? Are you schizo or sumn? Turn back to reality. Just act like a high inhib autsitst and shell leave you

dude that's just as schizo if I'm fucking normal for the entire relationship and then all of a sudden i start acting like fucking smeagol from lord of the rings. In that case she might think im on drugs and try to get me help or something, yknow? It might not end the relationship like you think

 

[Deleted member 21044]

Just be chad.

 

[Deleted member 19036]

dude that's just as schizo if I'm fucking normal for the entire relationship and then all of a sudden i start acting like fucking smeagol from lord of the rings. In that case she might think im on drugs and try to get me help or something, yknow? It might not end the relationship like you thin

are you aware of you are asking to have an socioromantic advice from a literal autist?

 

[Deleted member 21044]

It is because FWB does not really exist. It is a LEGEND.

There are 3 types of this arrangement:

1) Guy and girl meet once in half a year, when she wants to fuck, but has no one else atm. She gives him a call as last option. Happens RARELY. This FwB is NOT really friends, and the benefits are rare and shit. You can call it like that, but it is NOT.

2) Regular sex BUT, the catch is that you NEVER tell the woman she is disposable. So SHE thinks it is going to a relationship eventually. SHe MIGHT suspect you are not reliable, but she does not question you. TRY TELLING HER you are FWB and she has NO CHANCE. I promise you, even the hoest of hoes will tell you go fuck yourself instead of "official fwb".

3) ALl types of cheating wives/girlfriends. Their partner does not satisfy them, and they cannot use Tinder for quick fucks, because it is too obvious. They need DESCRETENESS, so that her husband NEVER KNOWS. THe best option for this is FwB with some guy.

If you want a good FwB you HAVE to go for option 3. Because the other 2 arrangements are FwB only in name tbh.

It works if you're chad.

 

[Artemis]

It works if you're chad.

Well obv. im not a CHad.

But i DID have a FwB. And what i learned from it: she was ok just meeting each other (fwb not directly discussed). Then, when i said to her directly: OUR RELATIONSHIP IS FWB. She kinda changed, and then dumped me.

The ONLY difference was that i clearly stated my intentions. And BEFORE we had been doing literally FwB without naming it FwB. I judged it as she simply could not cope with being a "second rate fuck buddy" in FwB. Ego, you know.

Idk about chads, but i expect it is the same for them too. FwBs do not really exist as they are described: REGULAR meetings for sex FOR A LONG PERIOD OF TIME.

There is simply no reason for a woman keep 1 guy without intention of relationship when she can get many, a new one every week. Chad not Chad irrelevant. Chads are easy to come across. Unless she is cucking her husband: then FwB makes sense actually.

 

[hebbewem]

That means she wont try unless you are super good looking. You have to be better looking then her

 

[Mill]

It works if you're chad.

I think this is what I needed to hear.
I neither lead her on nor do I deny her. I simply exist as Chad. Chad Is. Chad cannot exist as otherwise.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

It is because FWB does not really exist. It is a LEGEND.

There are 3 types of this arrangement:

1) Guy and girl meet once in half a year, when she wants to fuck, but has no one else atm. She gives him a call as last option. Happens RARELY. This FwB is NOT really friends, and the benefits are rare and shit. You can call it like that, but it is NOT.

2) Regular sex BUT, the catch is that you NEVER tell the woman she is disposable. So SHE thinks it is going to a relationship eventually. SHe MIGHT suspect you are not reliable, but she does not question you. TRY TELLING HER you are FWB and she has NO CHANCE. I promise you, even the hoest of hoes will tell you go fuck yourself instead of "official fwb".

3) ALl types of cheating wives/girlfriends. Their partner does not satisfy them, and they cannot use Tinder for quick fucks, because it is too obvious. They need DESCRETENESS, so that her husband NEVER KNOWS. THe best option for this is FwB with some guy.

If you want a good FwB you HAVE to go for option 3. Because the other 2 arrangements are FwB only in name tbh.

I disagree tbh-

I was dating a girl earleir this year and she was really hot and my type and she was like 'muh lets keep it casual' even tho i wouldve ltred her lol

 

[Patient A]

I disagree tbh-

I was dating a girl earleir this year and she was really hot and my type and she was like 'muh lets keep it casual' even tho i wouldve ltred her lol

women should not have rights.

 

[Patient A]

Usually my personality is so awful they don't even want ANYTHING to do with me. I remember I had a girl who I was fucking on and off for a couple of months, wound up pregnant and she was confused who the father was. I might have went too far in demanding an abortion. Last I recall she was sticking her finger up at me at the supermarket and had the kid (6 or 7 years old now I guess) and hasn 't pursued any of the potential fathers for money. It looks like me.

you both shouldn't have rights

 

[Germania]

M8 you're on Looksmax.org, people here don't go outside and definitely don't touch grass and especially women

It’s more like chads.org tbh

 

[Foreverbrad]

Women don't want FWB. They have options

Would you want a FWB if you could have a different new HTB/stacylite every day instead?

 

[DarkTetrad]

It is because FWB does not really exist. It is a LEGEND.

There are 3 types of this arrangement:

1) Guy and girl meet once in half a year, when she wants to fuck, but has no one else atm. She gives him a call as last option. Happens RARELY. This FwB is NOT really friends, and the benefits are rare and shit. You can call it like that, but it is NOT.

2) Regular sex BUT, the catch is that you NEVER tell the woman she is disposable. So SHE thinks it is going to a relationship eventually. SHe MIGHT suspect you are not reliable, but she does not question you. TRY TELLING HER you are FWB and she has NO CHANCE. I promise you, even the hoest of hoes will tell you go fuck yourself instead of "official fwb".

3) ALl types of cheating wives/girlfriends. Their partner does not satisfy them, and they cannot use Tinder for quick fucks, because it is too obvious. They need DESCRETENESS, so that her husband NEVER KNOWS. THe best option for this is FwB with some guy.

If you want a good FwB you HAVE to go for option 3. Because the other 2 arrangements are FwB only in name tbh.

High Iq post… but not high enough

Because I think even the third one women want to cheat with a guy who also wants a relationship so a strict FwB is still a legend as you said.

 

[Chinacurry]

any strats for this? just lookin for ideas. It seems like alot of women feel like they are getting "played" if you want to fuck but aren't interested in settling down with them.

I feel like one interesting way to do this is to basically make her not want to be in a real relationship with you, through methods such as: making her think you don't have a lot of money, make her think you have a drug/alcohol/gambling problem or something of that nature. This way you get it in her mind that she doesn't want to actually settle down with you, and she basically does the work for you. It's like reverse psychology essentially

What are your guys ideas?

Yeah answers here would be Good.

My theory is if u v good looking they won't want to be in LTR with u, for all us sub 8s it's just a fact that we will always have the foids get attached to us

 

[Artemis]

It’s more like chads.org tbh

JoinedMar 15, 2019

Bro, damn, it took you so long to understand

 

[Incel Afterlife]

you both shouldn't have rights

Don't advocate for a world that cannot exist

 

[Mr.Proper]

In my case, girl said I was good at sex but too weird/non-nt for her social circle so she suggested fwb until she finds a a guy (find some time afterwards).
I'd be interested in more fwb too, as classic relationships feel kinda mundane. But it's only good when you can ask for sex too and not when it's just her who calls you when she needs it.

 

[Patient A]

Don't advocate for a world that cannot exist

0

 

[meantalleunstablite]

making her think you don't have a lot of money, make her think you have a drug/alcohol/gambling problem or something of that nature

this doesn't work. will make them want to work 'save u'

here some actual tips
- be aspie

 

[gribsufer1]

u need this

 

[Gandy]

It is because FWB does not really exist. It is a LEGEND.

There are 3 types of this arrangement:

1) Guy and girl meet once in half a year, when she wants to fuck, but has no one else atm. She gives him a call as last option. Happens RARELY. This FwB is NOT really friends, and the benefits are rare and shit. You can call it like that, but it is NOT.

2) Regular sex BUT, the catch is that you NEVER tell the woman she is disposable. So SHE thinks it is going to a relationship eventually. SHe MIGHT suspect you are not reliable, but she does not question you. TRY TELLING HER you are FWB and she has NO CHANCE. I promise you, even the hoest of hoes will tell you go fuck yourself instead of "official fwb".

3) ALl types of cheating wives/girlfriends. Their partner does not satisfy them, and they cannot use Tinder for quick fucks, because it is too obvious. They need DESCRETENESS, so that her husband NEVER KNOWS. THe best option for this is FwB with some guy.

If you want a good FwB you HAVE to go for option 3. Because the other 2 arrangements are FwB only in name tbh.

Number 2 is all my fwb:s now and in the future. I will never call them that in texts or in person. I just keep the fwb alive by asking about their life a few times a week and whether they want to sleep over on day X or not.

If they pursue a relationship too hard I just say I'm not in a good spot for that and find another woman. But many are just content with sex 1-3 times a week as long as you message her at least sometimes about her life.

You don't even have to feign much interest. Just copy paste a how's your week been-type message to all of them on Fridays. Not much more effort is needed if she still finds you physically attractive

Let's not kid ourselves, they will only stay in this arrangement as long as you don't lose your looks. Their primary motivation to have any contact with you is your looks.

Part of keeping fwbs is therefore also going to the gym and keeping on looksmaxing, and not eating unhealthy stuff. It's a perpetual, endless competition. She is sizing up other options even as you speak with her.