How do you deal with being left out?

[Romeo1111]

It feels like I’m always the one who has to reach out if I want to hang out especially with my closest friend. I see him spending time with others, but he never includes me.

Back when everyone else turned their back on him, I was the only one who stayed. He even told me I was a true friend. I’ve supported him for over six years, through everything but now, he treats me like I don’t matter.

 

[ajshabs]

in the same position as u, like literally

i decided to just not bother any more and accept things for how they are

sadly you cannot force that friendship if it is not reciprocal

just end it or continue to suffer mentally

 

[Minnie lacking]

Go right in

 

[Deleted member 143592]

I don't have real riends

 

[Romeo1111]

in the same position as u, like literally

i decided to just not bother any more and accept things for how they are

sadly you cannot force that friendship if it is not reciprocal

just end it or continue to suffer mentally

Yeah true, just sucks and I feel alone but just trying to focus on myself right now

 

[Sub5UglyMan]

Rape everyone and leave

 

[davidlaidisme67]

It feels like I’m always the one who has to reach out if I want to hang out especially with my closest friend. I see him spending time with others, but he never includes me.

Back when everyone else turned their back on him, I was the only one who stayed. He even told me I was a true friend. I’ve supported him for over six years, through everything but now, he treats me like I don’t matter.

Holy shit are we all living the same life? I’m going through the exact situation and I don’t even know what to do. We’ve been friends going on 8 years

 

[Romeo1111]

Holy shit are we all living the same life? I’m going through the exact situation and I don’t even know what to do. We’ve been friends going on 8 years

Hahaha guess we’re both unlucky, it’s a hard situation to do anything

 

[Popstar867]

That’s an experience I haven’t felt in a long time (I have no friends)

 

[valentine]

kill them

 

[CorinthianLOX]

It feels like I’m always the one who has to reach out if I want to hang out especially with my closest friend. I see him spending time with others, but he never includes me.

Back when everyone else turned their back on him, I was the only one who stayed. He even told me I was a true friend. I’ve supported him for over six years, through everything but now, he treats me like I don’t matter.

I feel the same way. I go to therapy for this shit.

 

[True truecel]

Ts is the worst ngl

Only getting better friends will help, you can’t fix them or keep having the hope that they’ll “want you” again

 

[LTNUser]

I feel the same way. I go to therapy for this shit.

Do you feel better after going to therapy or the feeling never goes away?

 

[Gonthar]

It feels like I’m always the one who has to reach out if I want to hang out especially with my closest friend. I see him spending time with others, but he never includes me.

Back when everyone else turned their back on him, I was the only one who stayed. He even told me I was a true friend. I’ve supported him for over six years, through everything but now, he treats me like I don’t matter.

And what exactly changed that your friend is popular now?

 

[Romeo1111]

And what exactly changed that your friend is popular now?

Not really quite the opposite, he’s girlfriend of 3 years broke up with him and I guess I he changed after that

 

[MrMinimalist]

It feels like I’m always the one who has to reach out if I want to hang out especially with my closest friend. I see him spending time with others, but he never includes me.

Back when everyone else turned their back on him, I was the only one who stayed. He even told me I was a true friend. I’ve supported him for over six years, through everything but now, he treats me like I don’t matter.

grow some balls

 

[pope]

I just dgaf anymore

 

[Elias144]

I try to make as many friends and connections as I possibly can so I'm never reliant on just a handful of people and always have options. Ideally you would only need a few really close friends, but people these days are flaky. It is what it is, you just have to adapt to the current social environment. Also, don't take anything personally. I know its hard not to, but its probably the worst thing you can do. It really hurts your self esteem and creates a self fulfilling prophecy of loneliness and negativity.

 

[RapeAllFemales]

Having no friends and being left out is far worse, but in any case you get used to being alone but you have to rewire your brain