How do you deal with knowing about your partners dating history?

[looksmaxmax]

Alright, so at first I hooked up with this girl totally unintentional, we've messaged a lot, but I didn't consider it anything serious and just thought she'd be a good FWB. We had sexting before our first date and she described me what she was into with previous partners. Her body count is 3. (was skeptical at first, but those were LTRs so I was like "whatever, I believe you"). I didn't seem to care at all.

When we finally met, chemistry was out of this world. It was one of the best kisses I ever had. After 15 minutes, we went to her place and fucked. I got so horny and started licking her pussy and after about few minutes, she came. Told me it was her first time cumming from an eating out. Forgot to mention, condoms weren't brought up at all.

After approximately two dates, both of us built emotions because our sex was very passionate. She herself told me I am her best fuck and that she didn't think sex could be this good. She also told me I am her tallest, most muscular, biggest dick wise and that I broke her orgasm record by a double. Likewise, I had never experienced something similar with prior women and fell in love.

We've decided to enter a LTR and that's where these thoughts of her banging those guys in the past started haunting me whenever I laid my head down. How can I ever forget this? Yes, she may have not known about better before she met me, but still, she completely lost innocence and purity in my eyes knowing she's been fucked like a slut by those men before me. I will never be her first. To make things worse, my ex was a JB virgin. It occasionally pops on my mind also.

How would you deal with this, is it completely over or is there something I could do? Maybe cope and forget? Easier said than done. Not to mention it affects my libido with her also, I am not as heated as before...

 

[Jhon Smith]

It’s the cuck era. What do you expect

 

[Deleted member 21735]

When we finally met, chemistry was out of this world. It was one of the best kisses I ever had. After 15 minutes, we went to her place and fucked.

why doesnt this ever happen to me??? why do i keep meeting these untinterested girls who are planning to ghost me from the time they begin talking to me? fuck this reality, fuck everything

 

[looksmaxmax]

silly me by thinking .org is gonna be useful about anything

i'd be better asking reddit or quora soy boys about advice

this shit playing in bg while i write this

 

[p0lishsubhuman]

I read "your parents dating history" at first JFL

But tbh I think it's better to end it, it will always haunt you

 

[looksmaxmax]

b

 

[xtremfailer]

listen, given the current state of society, you are very lucky of having a low bodycount girl that is visibly infatuated with you and that openly admits you mog her previous partners. Also, that mutual chemistry is rarely seen nowadays unless youre chad. don't fumble it

 

[goyard]

listen, given the current state of society, you are very lucky of having a low bodycount girl that is visibly infatuated with you and that openly admits you mog her previous partners. Also, that mutual chemistry is rarely seen nowadays unless youre chad. don't fumble it

needed to hear this myself too, what a great reply +1

 

[ascension]

I don't know how to deal with this. When I was dating a HTB years ago, she was literally asking me to kiss her, hug her etc, but I couldn't do it. The thought that she'd done all of this before with another man made me feel physically sick. I would recoil from her. I've had no problem while banging escorts though.

 

[Lebgfinal]

I don’t have a partner

 

[Clown Show]

You can't deal with it, it will always bother you in the back of your mind.

And it should be like that, no healthy man wants a foid with body count, no matter how high or low it is.

However, say goodbye to fantasies of meeting a pure virgin foid, those days are long gone, we are all cucks.

 

[Deleted member 16673]

hey bro, I've dealt with quite similar shit.

The feeling never goes.

I remember I used to be super aggressive. I'd smash plates and punch walls when I'd think of it.


I'm getting better at suppressing the thoughts, but when I can't, I become the most irritable and depressed motherfucker ever.

So much anger. Even the gym couldn't help.

I just want a virgin gf now, but it's quite late as I'm 19, and 99% of girls my age have had sex.

Find one while you can bro.

Good luck

 

[thickdickdaddy27]

I don’t deal with it, it’s virgin who has never even masturbated or death.

 

[looksmaxmax]

hey bro, I've dealt with quite similar shit.

Couldn't describe it better myself bro

Even in the slightest arguments when I feel she isn't fully compliant I become ultra aggressive and judgy

I always blame it on the unerasable stamp those losers beforehand left on her. Not to mention I perfidiously started mentioning this during arguments

So much anger. Even the gym couldn't help.

I just want a virgin gf now, but it's quite late as I'm 19

Literally nothing helps, you will always keep visualizing and overthinking it.

In my case, she was on pills before and those 2 bastards creampied her. Imagine how I feel now. It's like driving an used fucking car that you will never get in a mint condition

Sucks as I'm 21 myself, so we are in the same boat

 

[retrudedmaxilla]

came into this thread expecting this girl to have a body count of like 20 or something, but 3?

absolute rookie numbers.

virginal GF is an incel pipedream anyway, and you're not goodlooking enough to demand that.

ask yourself this - how much do you care about the people you've fucked in the past? you seem overly emotional for something so benign. if you let yourself be shackled by ghosts of the past, no matter who's ghosts, then you will just end up hurting yourself more than is already needed.

it is what it is.

 

[Amnesia]

I cope by thinking about myself. I have fucked over 300 girls and guess what, I don't think twice about the girls I have slept with. It's probably the same with the other guys who came before you. They don't think about her they probably don't even remember much about the actual sex. It's not a big deal.

As guys we tend to think there's guys out there with a smug look on their face thikning I fucked ur bitch before u did, I heard her moan. They are prob just normal guys who havent thought twice about ur girl in a while dude

 

[Deleted member 26824]

cope with marrying a good muslim virgin girl

 

[LampPostPrime]

hey bro, I've dealt with quite similar shit.

The feeling never goes.

I remember I used to be super aggressive. I'd smash plates and punch walls when I'd think of it.


I'm getting better at suppressing the thoughts, but when I can't, I become the most irritable and depressed motherfucker ever.

So much anger. Even the gym couldn't help.

I just want a virgin gf now, but it's quite late as I'm 19, and 99% of girls my age have had sex.

Find one while you can bro.

Good luck

See a therapist

 

[Martyros]

I cope by thinking about myself. I have fucked over 300 girls and guess what, I don't think twice about the girls I have slept with. It's probably the same with the other guys who came before you. They don't think about her they probably don't even remember much about the actual sex. It's not a big deal.

As guys we tend to think there's guys out there with a smug look on their face thikning I fucked ur bitch before u did, I heard her moan. They are prob just normal guys who havent thought twice about ur girl in a while dude

COPE!

EVERY GUY THAT FUCKED YOUR GF IS CAGING AT YOU AND THINKS YOU'RE A PATHETIC LITTLE CUCK FOR TAKING HIS LEFTOVERS.

FUCK THAT! VIRGIN JB OR LDAR!

 

[TheTakeoverHasBegun]

She was a virgin before me, so I don’t got to deal with shit

 

[Martyros]

She was a virgin before me

 

[TheTakeoverHasBegun]

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[Achilles]

"After approximately two dates, both of us built emotions because our sex was very passionate. She herself told me I am her best fuck and that she didn't think sex could be this good. She also told me I am her tallest, most muscular, biggest dick wise and that I broke her orgasm record by a double. "

To me this is a serious red flag. When a chick starts comparing you like this, it means just that, she's comparing and always looking for an upgrade in her mind. Chicks are also liars and dont know reality either. Remember these hoes will tell you they fucked 10+ inch dicks before and that every dude is 7-8 average. If youre asking dtails on this stuff as well i detect cuckery and insecurity which will ruin your brain over time

 

[XtrovertNTnormalfag]

Most of girls are monogamous IRL so I am fine.

 

[Martyros]

My reaction to every bluepilled cuckhold who says "muh gf was a virgin":

COPE MOTHERFUCKER!!!
YOUR GF HAS FUCKED AND SUCKED A BUNCH OF CHADS AND TYRONES BEFORE YOUR ASS HUNDREDS OF TIMES. EVERY TIME YOU KISS YOUR GF YOU'RE ALSO KISSING OTHER DUDES CUM, BALLS AND ASSHOLES SINCE YOUR GF ALSO GAVE RIMJOBS. AND IF YOU HAVE KIDS WITH HER, SHE WILL GIVE THEM KISSES WITH THE SAME MOUTH SHE USED TO PLEASE CHADS COCK, BALLS AND ASSHOLE.
JUST ADMIT YOU'RE A BETACUCK SOYNIGGER WITH A WHORE FOR A GF.

 

[Sprinkles]

tales

 

[Deleted member 11126]

Alright, so at first I hooked up with this girl totally unintentional, we've messaged a lot, but I didn't consider it anything serious and just thought she'd be a good FWB. We had sexting before our first date and she described me what she was into with previous partners. Her body count is 3. (was skeptical at first, but those were LTRs so I was like "whatever, I believe you"). I didn't seem to care at all.

When we finally met, chemistry was out of this world. It was one of the best kisses I ever had. After 15 minutes, we went to her place and fucked. I got so horny and started licking her pussy and after about few minutes, she came. Told me it was her first time cumming from an eating out. Forgot to mention, condoms weren't brought up at all.

After approximately two dates, both of us built emotions because our sex was very passionate. She herself told me I am her best fuck and that she didn't think sex could be this good. She also told me I am her tallest, most muscular, biggest dick wise and that I broke her orgasm record by a double. Likewise, I had never experienced something similar with prior women and fell in love.

We've decided to enter a LTR and that's where these thoughts of her banging those guys in the past started haunting me whenever I laid my head down. How can I ever forget this? Yes, she may have not known about better before she met me, but still, she completely lost innocence and purity in my eyes knowing she's been fucked like a slut by those men before me. I will never be her first. To make things worse, my ex was a JB virgin. It occasionally pops on my mind also.

How would you deal with this, is it completely over or is there something I could do? Maybe cope and forget? Easier said than done. Not to mention it affects my libido with her also, I am not as heated as before...

>Date younger girls
>Meet her friends and family
>Act like you don't care when you ask so she is honest

Those 3 things

 

[ivan.kuk]

You can't deal with it, it will always bother you in the back of your mind.

And it should be like that, no healthy man wants a foid with body count, no matter how high or low it is.

However, say goodbye to fantasies of meeting a pure virgin foid, those days are long gone, we are all cucks.

poetry