How do you improve social skills?

[MagaPutinism]

It's the succes channel innit, I'm not active here anymore for good reasons but i will let myself see if y'all can still give good advice

As everybody knows i'm extremely autistic and i need to improve my social skills to not have such a high leakage rate of the interactions with women what i mean by that is that i lose dating options (yes i have) by acting completely retarded and socially unaware it happened every single time

Should i attend social skills class? Is there a
forum for it? And reccomended books?
Basically i need a method of which i can do social excercises again and again and then move to the next skill yes it has to include excercises and it can't be for children

 

[yeeyeeslayer]

force yourself talk to people

 

[MoggsWithBoness]

Go out and talk tto people

 

[MagaPutinism]

force yourself talk to people

Go out and talk tto people

I'm in that stage for few months now

What about all the spesific skills you can learn with excercises to make it faster?

 

[yeeyeeslayer]

are you a clinically diagnosed autist

 

[AlphaLooksmaxxer666]

by interacting with people everyday

 

[Softboymaxx]

It's the succes channel innit, I'm not active here anymore for good reasons but i will let myself see if y'all can still give good advice

As everybody knows i'm extremely autistic and i need to improve my social skills to not have such a high leakage rate of the interactions with women what i mean by that is that i lose dating options (yes i have) by acting completely retarded and socially unaware it happened every single time

Should i attend social skills class? Is there a
forum for it? And reccomended books?
Basically i need a method of which i can do social excercises again and again and then move to the next skill yes it has to include excercises and it can't be for children

Read the art of conversation by Catherine Blythe.
You’re welcome

 

[Foreverbrad]

Lyrica

 

[Toddricus]

You MUST just do it and every time you do it you get slightly better

its like getting xp

no book or video will give you social skills

you just must talk to people and you will see what there is to improve

 

[mvp2v1]

I'm in that stage for few months now

What about all the spesific skills you can learn with excercises to make it faster?

What I have been doing is like they said going out and talking to people. Like in an elevator I’ll start some small talk, just in general try engaging in small talk. There is this concept of flirting with the world which I have been slowly incorporating as well. Also I have been working on getting more comfortable angering people. Getting into fights etc, I do this because I believe I have a childhood trauma of sorts that left me constantly trying to make people like me and this intense desire causes me anxiety and that anxiety causes me to be awkward and being awkward means social interactions fail. I’ve been making small and slow progress but progress none the less. Dm me, maybe we can help eachother? Maybe if u know others in this situation we can make a group chat

 

[mvp2v1]

Read the art of conversation by Catherine Blythe.
You’re welcome

TLDR?

 

[mvp2v1]

You MUST just do it and every time you do it you get slightly better

its like getting xp

no book or video will give you social skills

you just must talk to people and you will see what there is to improve

Some videos on the topic helped me. This guy has a couple that have helped me so far:

Things I’m working towards right now is causing longer small talk conversations, complimenting girls/ more small talk with girls, I want to start Uber driving to help with these things.
And other ideas I have are like making a Instagram where I fake a life see if that can attract some people, going to parties festivals etc. these things may help I feel.

 

[Toddricus]

Some videos on the topic helped me. This guy has a couple that have helped me so far:

Things I’m working towards right now is causing longer small talk conversations, complimenting girls/ more small talk with girls, I want to start Uber driving to help with these things.
And other ideas I have are like making a Instagram where I fake a life see if that can attract some people, going to parties festivals etc. these things may help I feel.

link not working, my point is without practice this guys social skills will never improve

 

[1966Ford]

As a person with high functioning Autism,
I can't give you definitive answer to that. Although there's one thing I always do is rape my schoolmates and teachers and leave. It works for me though

 

[mvp2v1]

link not working, my point is without practice this guys social skills will never improve

yeah, that should be water though.