How do you make friends?

[MoggerGaston]

Haven't made a new friend since I was 14yo or so. (29yo now)

I've met new peeps before and you end up hanging out a couple of times, but there's never a vibe or the idea of meeting up regularly, staying in touch, etc.

Over?

 

[kingofkings]

I'm waiting for tomorrow's topic where you write about all the new friends you've made this year

 

[MoggerGaston]

I'm waiting for tomorrow's topic where you write about all the new friends you've made this year

I love my fans

 

[DeadByThirty]

just be white, handsome, tall, and neurotypical. should be pretty easy then

 

[autistic_tendencies]

You’re either poor or have nothing valuable to offer these potential “friends”

 

[MoggerGaston]

You’re either poor or have nothing valuable to offer these potential “friends”

you bought your friends?

 

[MoggerGaston]

just be white, handsome, tall, and neurotypical. should be pretty easy then

im handsome but none of the others

 

[DeadByThirty]

im handsome but none of the others

then it may be over

 

[1.618]

Haven't made a new friend since I was 14yo or so. (29yo now)

I've met new peeps before and you end up hanging out a couple of times, but there's never a vibe or the idea of meeting up regularly, staying in touch, etc.

Over?

Trauma bonding, reason why many cliques are formed at school, work, army etc.

 

[MoggerGaston]

then it may be over

 

[MoggerGaston]

Trauma bonding, reason why many cliques are formed at school, work, army etc.

Which traumas jfl.

avg kid in my country cruises live on tutorial mode.

 

[autistic_tendencies]

you bought your friends?

Money can buy anything

 

[apocalypse]

It’s over after university for friend making

 

[MoggerGaston]

It’s over after university for friend making

i never made friends in university, so tbh its over after high-school already

 

[MoggerGaston]

It’s over after university for friend making

making friends in uni is chad-only

 

[PRIEST Sv3rige]

Smiling more and not being monotone.

Asking a lot of questions, showing interest.

After a while you'll have internal jokes and actually enjoy being around each other.

I followed these steps and it flipped my social life around.

 

[MoggerGaston]

Smiling more and not being monotone.

thats me

Asking a lot of questions, showing interest.

thats me

After a while you'll have internal jokes and actually enjoy being around each other.

thats me

I followed these steps and it flipped my social life around.

how?!

 

[apocalypse]

making friends in uni is chad-only

NT normie only

 

[Satariel]

Asperger is a death sentence

 

[PRIEST Sv3rige]

thats me

thats me

thats me

how?!

It's important to do shit and have fun as well. Driving around and doing stuff never is wrong.

 

[moreroidsmoredates]

Haven't made a new friend since I was 14yo or so. (29yo now)

I've met new peeps before and you end up hanging out a couple of times, but there's never a vibe or the idea of meeting up regularly, staying in touch, etc.

Over?

Friend’s don’t exist, only family.

“Friends” will stab you in the back if need them.

 

[MoggerGaston]

Asperger is a death sentence

luckily I have perfect mental health

 

[MoggerGaston]

It's important to do shit and have fun as well. Driving around and doing stuff never is wrong.

Idk how this works

 

[FaceandBBC]

You don't.

 

[MoggerGaston]

Friend’s don’t exist, only family.

“Friends” will stab you in the back if need them.

family will abuse you even as a 5 year old and think they can get away with it because you can't pick your family and have nowhere to go

family is your worst enemy

 

[PRIEST Sv3rige]

Idk how this works

Get in ur car pick up a couple friends, drive to a mountain, a beach or something.

If it's akward (which it usually never is when it's 3+ people), you can just blast some music and vibe that way

 

[Beastimmung]

Idk.

I just have a single friend I had for 10 years, but he's severly depressed so pretty useless friend

 

[MoggerGaston]

Idk.

I just have a single friend I had for 10 years, but he's severly depressed so pretty useless friend

yeah same here

i had depressed friend and had to ditch him cuz didnt vibe with him and only brought negativity

 

[Paroxysm]

lurking looksmax when you're looking at 30 right in the face is nasty work man

 

[MoggerGaston]

Get in ur car pick up a couple friends, drive to a mountain, a beach or something.

If it's akward (which it usually never is when it's 3+ people), you can just blast some music and vibe that way

so you already need a couple of friends for this willing do something like this

impossible

+ they need to be high quality people. doing this with autists/incels is boring asf since ive done this before

 

[MoggerGaston]

lurking looksmax when you're looking at 30 right in the face is nasty work man

being 6 years old and being bullied + abused by your own parents is much worse.

 

[MoggerGaston]

lurking looksmax when you're looking at 30 right in the face is nasty work man

also, didnt ask u lil faggot bitch who I mog in every single way

wouldnt want to be friends with you

 

[dbva]

friends are not needed, i only have 1 true friend

 

[Paroxysm]

+ they need to be high quality people. doing this with autists/incels is boring asf since ive done this before

people probably (very very likely) think this exact thing about you which is why you don't have friends.

 

[PRIEST Sv3rige]

so you already need a couple of friends for this willing do something like this

That's why it helps still being in school so u can just casually go somewhere with a couple classmates after school or something. Not making a big "event" out of it.

impossible

+ they need to be high quality people. doing this with autists/incels is boring asf since ive done this before

Very true. So don't act autistic yourself, and you'll attract high quality people.

A good tip to seem more NT is just laughing a lot. (just don't be obscure ofc)

 

[MoggerGaston]

people probably (very very likely) think this exact thing about you which is why you don't have friends.

Yes thats why people come up to me months later to tell me how cool I was at xx party or event. That's why I am the life of the party most of the time and everyone knows who I am.

dumbest user on this forum award goes to you

 

[Pikabro]

Which traumas jfl.

avg kid in my country cruises live on tutorial mode.

Probably starting big fights with other friend groups and becoming closer knit because of it.

 

[Pikabro]

Get in ur car pick up a couple friends, drive to a mountain, a beach or something.

If it's akward (which it usually never is when it's 3+ people), you can just blast some music and vibe that way

I need shit like this in my life

 

[byvw]

I dont.

Im now 4th year uni student. And didnt have a single friend whole this time. HS was the same

Im not autistic or something, i have above average looks. (multiplies the aura and make me more mysterious lmao).
I just dont care about it.

 

[MoggerGaston]

Probably starting big fights with other friend groups and becoming closer knit because of it.

ill start bullying some faggots and start fights

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Friend’s don’t exist, only family.

“Friends” will stab you in the back if need them.

All they do is steal pussy away from you
If they think they can get it

 

[PeakIncels]

the more you grow the more you realize that the people you call and want "friends" are just ppl you speak to sometime as entertainment and won't help you/they will use you

 

[Pikabro]

I dont.

Im now 4th year uni student. And didnt have a single friend whole this time. HS was the same

Im not autistic or something, i have above average looks. (multiplies the aura and make me more mysterious lmao).
I just dont care about it.

I think this just happens. You aren’t guaranteed a group of friends that are just like you in school. This probably how NT people end up becoming loners

ill start bullying some faggots and start fights

Start fighys and insult people u find to be cunts ngl. And get ur friends involved. Very cathartic and validating instead of coming here and blaming yourself and your looks.

the more you grow the more you realize that the people you call and want "friends" are just ppl you speak to sometime as entertainment and won't help you/they will use you

It’s healthy to have something like that at least