How do you make friends?

[Deleted member 6577]

Do you just come to someone and say „hey how is it going?” and just casually talking or you let them approach you? I am asking cause i don’t have a single friend. I want to have though

 

[Deleted member 8576]

b chad

 

[Deleted member 2968]

Leave basement

 

[Deleted member 4671]

idk

 

[Entschuldigung]

I don't know, all friends i made were just because we were all the time in the same place
you'll bond naturally with people if you see them often

 

[Deleted member 4645]

It just happens tbh. Never have I made a friend by actively trying to.

 

[Deleted member 4671]

Leave basement

ded srs?

 

[Deleted member 6577]

It just happens tbh. Never have I made a friend by actively trying to.

Ye same i didnt try. But I never ever made a friendship.

 

[Deleted member 6867]

don't let them know you're desperate for friends they can tell

 

[RAITEIII]

Do you just come to someone and say „hey how is it going?” and just casually talking or you let them approach you? I am asking cause i don’t have a single friend. I want to have though

You just get along. It comes naturally.

Things that help: decent neurotransmition that allows u to be cool and go with the flow up to your genetic potential. Said state of neurotransmittion might be dependant on how you look though.

 

[RAITEIII]

I don't know, all friends i made were just because we were all the time in the same place
you'll bond naturally with people if you see them often

Also this.

 

[Deleted member 6577]

You just get along. It comes naturally.

Things that help: decent neurotransmition that allows u to be cool and go with the flow up to your genetic potential. Said state of neurotransmittion might be dependant on how you look though.

I think i have reached the peak of social isolation. My life is pure basement dwelling. Failure of existence

 

[Deleted member 8771]

I wouldn't be here if i knew how to do that bro

 

[Deleted member 2968]

View attachment 712447ded srs?

Insert genetics idk bro

 

[Deleted member 4464]

don't let them know you're desperate for friends they can tell

everybody's on steroids

 

[Gonthar]

You need to spend a lot of time around other people, talk to them until you get comfortable with each other, find common points of interest, then become friends. This happens naturally in kindergarten, school, high-school, college, etc.
After college it's pretty much over, making friends at the workplace it's much more difficult, there are people of different ages there who already have a circle of friends or are married, they don't simply have time for new friends. If the work is hard or competitive, the environment can be very stressful, ruthless and will hamper any friendship attempts.
I've seen people making friends at work, but it's usually in places where mostly young people work, like bars, nightclubs, restaurants, arcades, amusement parks, etc., located around college campuses, the atmosphere is more relaxed, the customers are also young and less pretentious, the work is mostly routine and not very demanding, and I've seen waiters, bartenders and other workers etc. talking, laughing and being very friendly with each other... - however these are mostly temporary jobs taken by students, you're not gonna make a career out of this.

 

[Deleted member 6577]

You need to spend a lot of time around other people, talk to them until you get comfortable with each other, find common points of interest, then become friends. This happens naturally in kindergarten, school, high-school, college, etc.
After college it's pretty much over, making friends at the workplace it's much more difficult, there are people of different ages there who already have a circle of friends or are married, they don't simply have time for new friends. If the work is hard or competitive, the environment can be very stressful, ruthless and will hamper any friendship attempts.
I've seen people making friends at work, but it's usually in places where mostly young people work, like bars, nightclubs, restaurants, arcades, amusement parks, etc., located around college campuses, the atmosphere is more relaxed, the customers are also young and less pretentious, the work is mostly routine and not very demanding, and I've seen waiters, bartenders and other workers etc. talking, laughing and being very friendly with each other... - however these are mostly temporary jobs taken by students, you're not gonna make a career out of this.

I am graduating high scchool this year. However i don’t have the urge to talk to people. I am asking just because I am worried cuz I don’t have friends and some say that it’s weird and uncommon

 

[Deleted member 6695]

Just like try to blend in with a group of people, someone will talk to you and you keep the convo going

 

[Magnesium]

It just happen. Easier if you're in some groups/organization or just from class.
But for good/best friends, you have to hangout a lot with them of course.
First step is to get out from your room and or join the organization from your school/university. That's the easiest one.

 

[Vista]

just be confident bro

 

[Deleted member 4563]

chad from birth

 

[CommanderCope]

NT