How do you make the first move?

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im finally starting to see attractive girls since i just entered in hs but i have no idea how to make the first move since ive always been the one getting aproached and asked for instagram instead of me going after them.Does anyone have any tips?Like do i ask for their insta since snapchat isnt rlly popular to ask for here..Not sure just say what you think
 
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im finally starting to see attractive girls since i just entered in hs but i have no idea how to make the first move since ive always been the one getting aproached and asked for instagram instead of me going after them.Does anyone have any tips?Like do i ask for their insta since snapchat isnt rlly popular to ask for here..Not sure just say what you think
« Sup foid wanna bang ? »
 
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Just go up say she’s cute and ask for ig no bs
 
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« Sup foid wanna bang ? »
the weird thing is that when i try and mastrobate instead of cumming i just have this pinching sensation..Idk dude ive had alot of dick problems but whatever idk why do i not have cum yet my test is like 600
 
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rare happening.. tho they want guys like 4 years older its hard to find a good looking girl that doesnt want a 180+cm guy and 4 years older..Hopefully i will be 180 cm soon too
Is hypergamy this bad now :cop:

This is cope if you get approached you can easily slay
 
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Is hypergamy this bad now :cop:

This is cope if you get approached you can easily slay
idk dude i used to always not have to do the first move but when i stopped getting fades and grew out my hair this whole thing stopped
 
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im finally starting to see attractive girls since i just entered in hs but i have no idea how to make the first move since ive always been the one getting aproached and asked for instagram instead of me going after them.Does anyone have any tips?Like do i ask for their insta since snapchat isnt rlly popular to ask for here..Not sure just say what you think
just walk up and ask for their instagram, girls like confidence and a man who knows what they want. if you want to do stuff with the girl simply tell the girl when you want to see them and actually put effort into the girl - if you usually get approached by girls for your insta and you are attractive it really should be that simple for you.
 
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just walk up and ask for their instagram, girls like confidence and a man who knows what they want. if you want to do stuff with the girl simply tell the girl when you want to see them and actually put effort into the girl - if you usually get approached by girls for your insta and you are attractive it really should be that simple for you.
yeah i never really gave the girls that aproached me compliments or anything just kinda went with it.Probably why ive never had an actual relationship
 
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im finally starting to see attractive girls since i just entered in hs but i have no idea how to make the first move since ive always been the one getting aproached and asked for instagram instead of me going after them.Does anyone have any tips?Like do i ask for their insta since snapchat isnt rlly popular to ask for here..Not sure just say what you think
Oh, I don't know about Instagram and all that. I thought you were asking how to kiss and try to have sex with a girl.
 
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yeah i never really gave the girls that aproached me compliments or anything just kinda went with it.Probably why ive never had an actual relationship
yeah, i mean its the same for both genders. if i was talking to a girl and didnt receive any compliments i would feel unattractive to her and find someone else.
 
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no ive never even hugged a girl that approached me
When a girl wants to be kissed she'll look back and forth from each of your eyes and maybe even glance at your mouth. She doesn't have to give you these signs though for you to be comfortable enough to try kissing her. She might jump up and act mad but don't cringe at yourself. Just be amused. You're supposed to learn these things through trial and errors. A tiger never catches an antelope or whatever the fuck the first time he tries. Save getting emotionally involved with any potential love interests until you've gained some sense and experience.
 
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im finally starting to see attractive girls since i just entered in hs but i have no idea how to make the first move since ive always been the one getting aproached and asked for instagram instead of me going after them.Does anyone have any tips?Like do i ask for their insta since snapchat isnt rlly popular to ask for here..Not sure just say what you think
just be a chad and u can do what u want
 
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yeah i never really gave the girls that aproached me compliments or anything just kinda went with it.Probably why ive never had an actual relationship
ngl bro if you were just more confident you would be getting hella bitches. sounds like they were throwing you lobs and you just werent catching them. they approached you which means you were the "prize", put in just a little bit of effort and they'll stay. Even if they aren't approaching you now, you have the tools, just use em.
 
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i used to always not have to do
The Poet does not approve you god damned zoomer :cop:

Just say "I never had to"
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ngl bro if you were just more confident you would be getting hella bitches. sounds like they were throwing you lobs and you just werent catching them. they approached you which means you were the "prize", put in just a little bit of effort and they'll stay. Even if they aren't approaching you now, you have the tools, just use em.
i mean i never felt pretty enough to actually get the balls and approach a girl and risk the chance of being rejected
 
When a girl wants to be kissed she'll look back and forth from each of your eyes and maybe even glance at your mouth. She doesn't have to give you these signs though for you to be comfortable enough to try kissing her. She might jump up and act mad but don't cringe at yourself. Just be amused. You're supposed to learn these things through trial and errors. A tiger never catches an antelope or whatever the fuck the first time he tries. Save getting emotionally involved with any potential love interests until you've gained some sense and experience.
noted
 
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yeah but do i get like taper fades again or what do i even do
I think long hair mogs my shit was down to my shoulders before my last cut, that was too much though

This is my current hair I think its good

Middle part mogs
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yeah, i mean its the same for both genders. if i was talking to a girl and didnt receive any compliments i would feel unattractive to her and find someone else.
well tbh i just textted them for the practice like my mom told me to cus none of them were truly my type/looksmatch or whatever
 
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I think long hair mogs my shit was down to my shoulders before my last cut, that was too much though

This is my current hair I think its good

Middle part mogs
my hair is still a lil short for a middle part i can prolly pull off a clav cut but idk how to style it plus i hate it getting in my ears
 
my hair is still a lil short for a middle part i can prolly pull off a clav cut but idk how to style it plus i hate it getting in my ears
Middle part is easy tbh,

Just comb to both sides, put on a beanie for 20 minutes while it's parted, and take it off and shake up a but
 
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i mean i never felt pretty enough to actually get the balls and approach a girl and risk the chance of being rejected
sounds like they fw u bro. i could be wrong but i feel like ur just insecure. just always remember there are alot of dudes in a worse situation than you.
 
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