How do you pricks handle rejection ?

[Richard Fitzwell]

Not just pissing around, I'm asking for genuine answers.

Most of the years I've avoided real life approach due to lack of confidence and fear of rejection, assuming they would be harsh about it and my skin is too thin and I take everything incredibly serious.
But I still did sometimes this was up until I was around 24-25 maybe (?)


As I got older I realized my ''place'' when I tried apps, researched and became more blackpill than fucking anyone... that alone helped to put me off, realizing the situation for other guys and feeling like I had no chance knowing my low match count and invisibility in public..

But every now and then I will still do it because the kind of people I find attractive are so few and far between and that I would rather try than miss out and live with the regret.
So I got rejected recently by my ideal almost perfect person.

Just wondering how you people deal with it? Apart from the usual talk about coping/roping etc..


I could totally understand being rejected because of looks etc, If I was rejected for a ''chad'' big model type guy I wouldnt blame her, natural order of things, the better looking options obviously going to win. I can't blame someone picking a better option....

But it's when the guy's worse than you that it can really fuck with you.. I'm not trying to claim i'm something great by that, But I mean when the ex was alot older, barely any hair , male pattern baldness, ugly and not even presentable then i have to question things.. Even the girl i had a major thing for for ages dated ugly losers but rejected me.. When I say losers I mean bums who wouldnt work, mostly had no vehicles and were shitty people personality wise as well as appearance.
maybe its that I was like a 4 and they were a 4 and a half .. Or something similar that they were considered a slightly better option but from where I stood I thought they were far worse..

How the hell do you get over being rejected especially when the person has dated worse than you ?
I can't even blame looks or personality for these instances but I'm stuck feeling like I'l never be good enough for people

Have many people here approaches alot and been rejected, or dealt with harsh rejection

 

[Deleted member 4464]

I've never approached a foid so idk

 

[needsolution]

I've never approached a foid so idk

 

[maxmendietta]

I hate living i litterally only live to leech of everything

 

[Deleted member 6128]

U just move on once u get rejected u just got to move on it’s that simple

 

[Over]

I've never approached a foid so idk

 

[Richard Fitzwell]

I hate living i litterally only live to leech of everything

dog eat dog.. you have to take what you can get.. unfortunately i live in a small place and am trying to move, but alot of the things I have i've scammed to get

 

[Deleted member 6538]

Just imagine the foid without make-up and taking a fat shit in a toilet and you'll lose interest in her

 

[needsolution]

Just imagine the foid without make-up and taking a fat shit in a toilet and you'll lose interest in her

 

[MusicMaxxingMidget]

I imagine them being raped

 

[Time Travel]

We don't. If you have to approach it's over.

 

[crosshold]

i never approach because im afraid of rejection so idk

 

[Richard Fitzwell]

We don't. If you have to approach it's over.

Yeah but even if you looked real good youd still have to approach sometimes if you had a particular taste.. the ones who would approach you might not necessarily be the ones you want

 

[Ritalincel]

We don't. If you have to approach it's over.

 

[needsolution]

Yeah but even if you looked real good youd still have to approach sometimes if you had a particular taste.. the ones who would approach you might not necessarily be the ones you want

Approaching is for cucks.

 

[Ritalincel]

 

[Alesund]

But it's when the guy's worse than you that it can really fuck with you.. I'm not trying to claim i'm something great by that, But I mean when the ex was alot older, barely any hair , male pattern baldness, ugly and not even presentable then i have to question things.. Even the girl i had a major thing for for ages dated ugly losers but rejected me.. When I say losers I mean bums who wouldnt work, mostly had no vehicles and were shitty people personality wise as well as appearance.

I am well too familiar with this shit- I had a huge oneitis on this one girl- her boyfriend and previous crushes look like underdeveloped kids next to me yet she still rejected me.

 

[Time Travel]

Yeah but even if you looked real good youd still have to approach sometimes if you had a particular taste.. the ones who would approach you might not necessarily be the ones you want

The ones that don't approach you approach chad

 

[TheMewingBBC]

I take it well because my approaches are like warm/hot compared to cold approaches lol. If it’s a stranger I give signs of interest and try to strike a convo while slightly half flirting, I also try to make the person laugh. Then based on her responses I either continue or end it, and I crank up the flirt level every two minutes I decide to continue. I will only ask her out if I see very strong signs, like her biting her lips, engaging and smiling like she knows me, telling me about her life without me asking, etc. I don’t even think I’ve been rejected this way, either I end it early or go all the way based off her responses

Same goes for non strangers, people I’m familiar with or neighbors. I see how they react to me and I give them IOIs and see how they react to them over a course of time, and I crank up the ioi strength everytime they react positively to the last. If they respond strongly to a lot, I go in. Sometimes they comeup to me before I can even approach. When you ensure yourself you got a good LMS (looksmoney status) to pull a bitch and she’s not interested, I don’t think I‘d care because I know she’s missing out

 

[Deleted member 4209]

retreat back indoors and dont leave house for 6 months

 

[Richard Fitzwell]

I take it well because my approaches are like warm/hot compared to cold approaches lol. If it’s a stranger I give signs of interest and try to strike a convo while slightly half flirting, I also try to make the person laugh. Then based on her responses I either continue or end it, and I crank up the flirt level every two minutes I decide to continue. I will only ask her out if I see very strong signs, like her biting her lips, engaging and smiling like she knows me, telling me about her life without me asking, etc. I don’t even think I’ve been rejected this way, either I end it early or go all the way based off her responses

Same goes for non strangers, people I’m familiar with or neighbors. I see how they react to me and I give them IOIs and see how they react to them over a course of time, and I crank up the ioi strength everytime they react positively to the last. If they respond strongly to a lot, I go in. Sometimes they comeup to me before I can even approach. When you ensure yourself you got a good LMS (looksmoney status) to pull a bitch and she’s not interested, I don’t think I‘d care because I know she’s missing out

sounds like you are good at interacting with people.. I wont even talk to people I dont know unless they talk to me.. and people dont look at me positively.

also what kind of weirdo bites their lips...

 

[TheMewingBBC]

also what kind of weirdo bites their lips...

Girls that like you.

 

[john2]

I've never approached a foid so idk

 

[Mr.cope]

Girls call me ugly without me approaching them

 

[Deleted member 4991]

Its not worth it to approach, if a girl likes you she will tell you.