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Iron
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I have had girlfriends before, but not since early high school. Almost all the boys i know have girlfriends, and i do not understand how. I do not have a job (have applied to countless), and i do not have much money nor popularity. I thought the job/financial part was the problem until i recently went out to a club with some friends. Their i came to realize that everyone was on the same page, i did not matter how financially successful you were, since everyone got judged by the girls within the first few seconds. Plus i know some guys that do not spend much money at all that have girlfriends. Have approached and spoke to multiple girls. Sometimes it has gone well, sometimes it as gone bad. Nonetheless i have not gotten any real success. I do not understand what i am doing wrong. I see the most clapped guys at school with the most beautiful girls. I do not know what i am doing wrong. I plan on joining the army as soon as possible to just get away. Have any of you been in the same situation and got out? Or are any of you in the same situation?